In a long-distance relationship, my girlfriend wanted to play in a room to escape, but I didn’t let it. Because she and I were not boyfriends or girlfriends nor were they particularly familiar with me, and went to the secret room to play together. The horrible kind, led me to hug me the whole time, and I was afraid that she would do the same when she went to play (even though she didn’t mean it). Is it too harsh or too much?
It’s not too much, but it’s really wrong that you are a boyfriend and girlfriend, and you will definitely have a certain degree of possessiveness towards each other, so it is normal for you to worry about feeling uneasy. You can positively express your emotions and attitudes about this matter, but you cannot make decisions for your girlfriend and restrict her freedom. But your worry, I think it is unnecessary, you are not boyfriend and girlfriend, go to the secret room together, hug and hug you again! This is normal! At that time, you should be in the ambiguous period. Your girlfriend is either anxious that your elm head still doesn’t understand her intentions. So when playing in the secret room, through the darkness and horror atmosphere, it is natural to get close to you and get your relationship with you. When you have to go one step further or take a step back, you will become a double when you advance, and you will lose yourself when you retreat. Either she is really scared and has a good impression of you, so she unconsciously/forces to rely on you and seek refuge with you. In either case, it shows that she hugged and hugged you in the secret room because she liked it. And you worry that if she plays secret rooms with others or alone, she will hold and hug other people too. This happens, 1. Either she is really timid, and she unconsciously approached the person next to her in an involuntary situation with extreme fear; 2. Either she is willing to approach herself People beside. Since your girlfriend is taking the initiative to report the itinerary with you, even if the first situation arises, there is no need to worry. Or in view of the fact that your girlfriend took the initiative to report the itinerary with you, the second point may appear very small. Even if it does, you are in a long-distance relationship, you may not be able to find out in time. If she really has other ideas, she can completely agree to you, and then continue to play with another opposite sex happily to escape from the room. So if you don’t stop it, it won’t do much. I’m afraid that your girlfriend has nothing to think about. Once you stop and limit, you become rebellious. After arguing with you, you really go to an appointment with the opposite sex to play in the secret room. Then only you will be sad. Even if the above is not true, you are in a long-distance relationship. I think she told you to go to the secret room, one is to share or report the itinerary with you, and the other is to express: I want to play the secret room with you, I want to meet you. There is no other meaning, and it is not here to ask for your consent. You can see that you also like her, but because of the long-distance relationship, there are some uneasy emotions. But she is just your girlfriend, not your pet, she should have her own entertainment. If you are upset, you can express it positively, and you can say it well, instead of restricting her. Finally, if you like each other, you must stay together!