The most difficult thing is the lack of motivation to push oneself to change. Everyone has thought about changing themselves, but the plan is always today, and the action is always tomorrow. To make a swearing appearance tonight, starting tomorrow, I will change my mind and be a new person. But the next day when I was dying and sat up in shock, I looked around blankly, everything was so familiar, everything was so warm, and then made a decision exactly the same as yesterday: Forget it, let’s have another day today, and tomorrow. let’s start. Day after day, year after year, this vicious circle, I don’t know how long it will last before it ends. I have summed it up. There are several reasons why we have been able to act since we were young: teachers’ tasks, parents’ supervision, being looked down upon by others, having someone we really like, family changes… First of all, you’ve known the need for change. It is driven by passion and desire, not by will. Teachers’ tasks and parental supervision are mandatory, and we are more often forced and reluctant. The remaining points are to provide the driving force for us to change ourselves. We are voluntary and proactive. But in fact, the essence is the same. The former is for others to force us, and the latter is for us to force ourselves. Many people can’t make up their minds to act, just can’t force themselves, because those situations have not happened to them, so they can’t empathize with them, and can’t step out of the original comfortable circle. There are people who know the truth, but the only difference is the way to change. But change is originally your own business, and it is not forced by others. No one can copy his determination to you, and copy his own methods to you. Do you need others to teach you how to eat, how to sleep, and how to poop? I am not responsible to myself, waiting for others to be responsible to you? Don’t love yourself, waiting for others to love you? It’s because you eat and wait to die without thinking about making progress, and finally blame others for not teaching you the method? What are you, like losing the key to the door, are you worthy? Look, after reading what I said above, are you very angry? You can’t wait to open the comment area and spray me again. You are here to see the method, not to be scolded. If you want to spray it, it’s worth it if you can wake you up. Knowing the shame and then courageously, in fact, more often than not, the reason why we are stagnant and drunk in dreams is that we have not been hit by anyone for a long time, and we have not been scolded in blood. After graduation, the teacher has no right to discipline you. When your parents are old, they can’t control you anymore. If you want to change yourself, only you can restrain yourself. Your inner indulgence and laziness are like the last big boss in a novel TV series, and your unyielding heart is the last hope of the entire plane. Can not be defeated, in the end can only be destroyed.