“A few days ago, a 23-year-old man who was a courier contacted me and wanted to sign up as a door-to-door son-in-law. He was so young, graduated from a technical secondary school, and had no expertise. He wanted to be a superfluous son-in-law, and it was very difficult to succeed. I did not accept it, I told him Only by learning a technology can there be hope.”
When I was young, I didn’t know the fragrance of soft rice, and I mistakenly planted rice seedlings in my youth. Witnessing a married wedding, the woman’s motorcade went to the man’s house to pick Xinlang to the hotel. And Xinlang waited in the room like a young wife to be married, drinking and blocking the door a lot. At that time, I felt that I shouldn’t be married in this life, but when I heard that the bride’s house had a villa, three residential houses, and several shops, I sighed and regretted it. Although people are fatter, they feel more cute. In fact, it depends on the father-in-law, what is the mother-in-law, the old father-in-law, the mother-in-law is kind, easy to get along with, and the wife is virtuous, then it will be very happy. If the old father-in-law and mother-in-law are not good and oppress every day, then the days will be very sad. They will not have the right to speak at home, and they will not receive the respect they deserve. The two paths are either leaving early or staying hard until they are old , Needs someone to take care of. Or if you are gone, you may stand up. Want to know if the man can also mention the following conditions? First, the woman must give a dowry before marriage. Why should my parents raise their sons for more than 20 years to be your son-in-law? My parents give the dowry according to their own conditions. We decide how much it is, and it has nothing to do with the wife. Second, the woman should prepare the house before marriage, preferably in full. If I need to repay the loan, I must add my name. Or firmly disagree. Third, never live with the woman’s parents. After all, married is a small family, and living together will inevitably lead to conflicts. There is still a generation gap in the thinking of the two generations.