I am probably considered the rich person in the subject of the subject. The assets in my family are in the ten-digit figure. My personal assets are more than 129,000. At present, the money in the family has nothing to do with me. I don’t have any special feelings, because I am a rich second-generation mainstream, no experience of studying abroad, no luxury cars, no other rich second-generation legendary lives. Introduce my growth experience, you should understand what it feels like to be born in a rich family like me. This answer can be regarded as my personal life experience. It is quite long, so you can read it slowly if you are interested. I was not born in a wealthy family. My family grew up slowly when I was in junior high school, so I grew up and became a rich second generation. I was one of the first batches born in the 1990s, and my hometown was in a county-level city in the middle of China. When I was very young, my family was extremely poor, because of some external reasons, I was heavily in debt. There is no shingle on the inside and no place to stand outside. I have been living in my grandparents’ house. Then my family went out to work. When I was over 2 years old, my parents left home and went south to Wenzhou. Then my grandparents went there one after another. I went to live at my grandma’s house. My family has never owed foreign debts to me, and I am still very grateful. When I was in the fourth grade at the age of 10, my family returned home due to my education. At this time, the family’s foreign debts had been paid off, and there was still money left in my hands. At that time, Wenzhou had not yet entered the fast lane of development, so my parents earned the first pot of gold through real estate projects. This money was also considered a coincidence. So now I also think that if you want to succeed, the time, the place and the people are right. Indispensable. My father was a veteran junior college student at that time. My mother was a sports graduate and graduated from a teacher’s college, so he was more savvy, especially in business. When I returned to my hometown with surplus money, I became a rich man. Although the family earned the first pot of gold (it was still very small at the time, the specific amount is not clear, but it is definitely not less), but after returning home, there is no skill, no support from nobles, and no mastery, and my father is used to big hands. Yes, there are many people in Wenzhou, so they are extremely uncomfortable after returning. They can only rely on my mother’s meager salary to support the family all day long, which lasted for half a year. At the turn of the 2000s, China officially entered the 21st century. At this time, my father had the idea of doing business and wanted to open a repair shop. There was something wrong with the Gust inside. My dad drove to the repair shop at home, and he fixed it with a few masters abruptly.) It was out of control. When I was 12 years old, my dad had opened three chain stores. Up. He once told me that the market is very important, and the service is more important. The first step is to seize the market quickly and serve well, and business will naturally come. To this day, seeing the success of Haidilao, I understand that what my dad said is true. It really makes me feel that my family seems to be rich, and it seems to be different from others, when it is at the stage of my second and third year of junior high school. I bought a suite in the best local real estate in my home, 128 square meters (my family invested in this real estate), large floor-to-ceiling windows, sunlight can shine into the entire bedroom, and a large bathtub, which is satisfying for me at that age. All the fantasies of a mansion. Until now, I work in my old home, with tall buildings standing next to it. I moved to the city early. There are also several new houses here. I still live in the oldest one because it contains all my youthful memories. One day after school in the second grade, a bright black Volkswagen Passat was parked at the school gate. My mother was standing next to the car, smiling at me softly and beckoning to me, the goddess Fan was full. I walked over, and at that moment, I felt all eyes focused on me. I learned the footage from the TV, opened the car door, and sat in. All of this was like an unreal dream. When I went to school in the afternoon, my classmates gathered around and asked me. Growing up, I was envied by everyone for the first time. At that time, let alone Passat, many people never even took a car. I still remember this incident still fresh, as if it was right in front of my eyes, so that later, like Mr. Zhao, I invited all the bar people to drink and bought more than 200,000 watches, but I didn’t feel envied by the whole class at that moment. It was the focus, and I became a rich person in the mouth of others (the second generation was not rich in the name). But when my family got richer and richer, they spent less time with me. I was originally a day school, and my living expenses ranged from 100 per week to 2,000 per month. I was young and didn’t understand. I thought it would be nice to have money. Slowly Did I find this kind of life really what I wanted? I was happy when there was no money in my family, especially after I was in high school, I changed from being an obedient child to a problem teenager. In 2005, I was admitted to the best high school in our local area. My mother rewarded me with a laptop, Nokia mobile phone and 10,000 yuan for me and my classmates to play. That was 10,000 yuan. I never touched it since I was a child. So much money. That afternoon I went to dinner with a few classmates, singing, drinking, the oldest three-piece suit. We enjoyed it all the time. It was the first time to smoke China, the first time we didn’t come home at night, and the first time we took a taxi to go to the city to play in the evening. After returning from the urban area, standing on the rostrum of the junior high school playground, we were proud to say brotherly words. Back then, we were still young and young. Now, we are going our own way, it is difficult to meet again. I only spent less than a thousand, so I also learned to save money at that time, and planned to save money.My parents invested in many ways to become a huge wealth, and I went so far to go to university. In 2006, my mother saw the opportunity to invest and build a factory in the outskirts of the county seat to enter the agriculture and animal husbandry industry. The momentum was huge. As the first local company that fully complied with the government’s development policy and the first large-scale local enterprise, at the opening ceremony, the mayor (County-level city), the deputy mayor in charge, and the director of commerce all participated. I accompanied my parents. I stood in front of the stage for the first time and appeared on the local newspaper and TV station for the first time. I felt very vain. My age is vanity. It was also since then that my parents worked hard for their careers. Except for my grandparents and grandma, I seemed to be forgotten. It was also from that time that I experienced the pleasure of money. In the first year of high school because of revealing their riches, they were blackmailed by gangsters in the alley opposite the school. They were also beaten. The next day, none of them ran out of school. Their parents found me and asked me to let them go. They were still children. I know that this is all my parents did. I felt the benefits of money. But I lost my freedom for three years in high school, not physically but spiritually. I can’t do anything outside for an hour. They all know. The small city is so big. They can send someone to find me immediately, give me a preaching and give me a wad of money. This is their usual trick. Then I became more vigorous. I went to school during the day, rented out the night at night, lived by myself, and had a girlfriend, my elder sister, who learned to dance, a goddess in the true sense. The first time it happened between me and her, I seemed to be a Adults, with a fixed income and objects, don’t worry about the future. I admire myself very much. I just play around but I never lose my studies. I played in this way for two years until my third year in high school. My parents decided to send me abroad. At that time, their business was getting better and better. Many of the children of my friends were planning to go abroad. They wanted me to join the country. In the army. The only time I had a violent argument with them, I became no longer obedient. I think I have the ability to decide my own life. This is the illusion that living alone has brought me over the past few years. I am nothing without my parents. Then my dad and I had a long talk, an equal dialogue between father and son. On the roof of my house, I talked about my studies, my life, including my girlfriend. The final result was a compromise between the two sides. I promised them that they would take the college entrance examination first, and then leave after taking the exam, otherwise they would go abroad. That year, my girlfriend went to Wuhan to go to university and encouraged me. I started to prepare for the college entrance examination. My basic foundation was good. I learned literature from my early 400s to 450, 500, 520, and 570, so I went step by step. Going forward, I was admitted to the School of Law of Zhongnan University of Economics and Law with a score of 601 when I finished the college entrance examination. That summer vacation was also the best summer vacation in my life. I spent more than 10,000 to lose weight and exercise. I lost more than 40 catties and gained abdominal and chest muscles. Then I tried my best to test the driver’s license. Because of my family’s reasons, I could practice from morning to night and get the certificate in only 50 days. My dad gave me his eliminated top XJL. At that time, XJL cost more than 1 million. , I finally drove a luxury car through my efforts (hahahahaha, just kidding, it is indeed my own hard work). Then I took the plane that everyone envied at the time, took my girlfriend to see the world, went to Chongqing to see the intersection of the two rivers, watch the Jiefangbei, and experience the charm of the mountain city. Go to Nanjing, the ancient capital of the Six Dynasties, make a vow of love at Jiming Temple (later it is said that everyone who went to Jiming Temple broke up, as expected), and witness the vicissitudes of that era in the Sun Yat-sen Mausoleum. When I went to Lijiang, I chatted with friends from all over the world in the bar, and hugged and wept on the Jade Dragon Snow Mountain. Happiness is real happiness, but the root of all this is money. Without money, I am nothing but an ordinary student. In the midsummer of 2008, when I was going to school, my mother bought me a Jaeger-LeCoultre watch for more than 200,000 yuan, and bought me a suite near the school. I can finally live a free life by myself. When I packed my luggage and started the car, I saw the name of my hometown on the highway and passed the toll booth. At that moment, I knew that my youth might end. I told my girlfriend that my future path might have been arranged by my parents. Well, she said she would stay with me forever, but she didn’t expect this sentence to become a joke. My parents’ business is booming, and my love ends without a problem. When I went to university, my living expenses did not increase but dropped. It was only 2,000 yuan, which was really not a small amount at the time, but I was a bit too accustomed to it before, so I had a conflict with the subject. This is something. Under my control, I lived with the subject. Those two years were really a fairy-like life. I went to class during the day, went for a walk with the subject at night, ate and ate, and my parents sometimes came to visit me on business trips. It feels addictive. But the contradiction has gradually emerged. I still had surplus food in my pocket, and living expenses were better than nothing. She felt that I should spend money in a planned way. I thought I was very good to her. She should not restrain me in this aspect. I have the right to bring in one or two friends by the way. There are males and females, and they will definitely not mention them. I definitely won’t ask for money. She thinks this kind of people don’t treat me as a friend and think I have money to occupy me. Cheap and justified, I am a big man certainly can’t say anything, life just like this. But it finally broke out in the sophomore year. A trivial matter, the two broke up and parted ways. She has an internship in her junior year. There is a unit in Beijing with good conditions. She wants to go. I think it’s good in Wuhan, but I didn’t say it. In fact, I can go anywhere after my family graduates. Anyway, before I was in high school. In a different place, I just said casually wherever you go. She said that I had this attitude and began to criticize me in terms of thinking and morality. The criticism I remember is roughly as follows: “We are all grown-ups, why can’t you have a plan for your life? I was one year older than you, and I went to work a year before you. This opportunity is good for me. I don’t want to give up, and I will stay with you in Beijing after graduation. But what about your attitude? You don’t have a word of quasi-word if you want me to go. You’ve been like this since high school. Anyway, you don’t mean to let me stay… “My reply is basically as follows: “You said that this opportunity is good, then you go, I will pass by after graduation, don’t I want you to stay? It is better to live in two places? I respect your idea, in Beijing I will go over after graduation. In Wuhan, I can ask my parents to find a better job for you, and even let them start a company in Wuhan. We will fight together. You think I don’t care, I don’t care about you, but I don’t want to talk about it. “As soon as I said this, I regretted it. In her eyes, I have to rely on my parents for everything. Even if I don’t think so, I can’t change it in my heart. In this way, she packed up her things that night and left, and then went to Beijing, I was dumbfounded. During the period, I had another girlfriend and broke up before graduation. She has been single in Beijing. Then I went to find her. In my heart, she is the person I really want to marry and have children, and stay with me for life. I never thought of breaking up with her. I have been used to her for so many years. I compromised. She decided to resign and go back to Wuhan with me. In the end, because the girlfriend we talked to after breaking up with her came to me, we broke up completely. She stayed in Wuhan, and I went home to prepare for the civil service exam. During that time, I was heartbroken. I completely lost my lover, my first love, and I decided to stay with the woman for my life because of a mistake I made. In this way, my youth completely ended. In 13 years, I was admitted to the civil service. I went through the Bureau of Justice, the village secretary, and then went to the Economic Investigation Brigade of the Public Security Bureau. In 13 years, my mother was elected as a prefectural-level city people’s congress representative. In 13 years, I was born again from Nirvana and plunged into work. Instead of taking over my parents’ property, I became a glorious servant of the people. I haven’t fallen in love for five years. Later, I met my high school classmates, we Hand in hand into the palace of marriage, now the marriage is happy, the family is happy, and the work is smooth. Later, my wife and I went to the street and met my first love, just as it was sung in Eason Chan’s song: “You appeared in the coffee shop on the corner of the street. We will stop talking about the past, just a greeting, just say a word, say a word, Long time no see.” Looking back, it is really a hundred years. May you be clean in the days to come, and you will meet with tenderness when you look up.