Too much meaning! It may be boring to you, adding WeChat is just a meaning; it may mean putting a long line, making you think and take the initiative; more likely you are just one of his blind date! What are you anxious about? It’s only the second day. There’s too much meaning in it, or maybe it’s not interesting. It’s just busy with work. Don’t be anxious, observe and observe, look at the meaning of the subject, and care about the other person’s attitude. The other party is not bad, and there are some things you can’t rush, if you are too rush, then you can take the initiative to send messages! I don’t know what the other person’s temperament is. Maybe the other person is afraid to disturb you. Maybe the other person is not good at communicating with girls. There are various reasons and it’s difficult to guess. I suggest you wait for the subject of the subject. Just wait a few days. If you haven’t contacted you for a few days, you can take the initiative to contact you. If you don’t want to, then it depends on your mood. You can delete it directly, because the other party is obviously not interested in you, but you can also stay in the circle of friends to observe and observe, because fate is not Knowing which moment, perhaps a sudden turn will occur, it is still unknown! My wife and I met on a blind date. The first time we met, I didn’t feel much. Later, we came together by chance and life is very happy. Good luck.

I don’t know what boys mean to you. According to the known conditions you gave, no information can be obtained. But your mentality is very problematic. After the blind date, the other party added WeChat, indicating that the blind date process has just started amicably, and you have begun to struggle “What does he mean if he didn’t contact me the next day?” Honey, you will be very tired like this. Even if he talks to you, I’m sure you start to entangle again, “He talked to me but didn’t ask me to meet him next time”, and then “He talked to me again and asked me to meet again, but he didn’t confess what Mean, is it ambiguous?” “What does he mean by saying he likes me but he didn’t let me be his girlfriend?” “We have been together for a month. What does he mean by not showing me to my parents?” After seeing the parents, he hasn’t mentioned the marriage yet. Does he just want to play with me? “My dear, I am tired for you. Your man is even more tired. He has to continue to promise and show loyalty to give you. The so-called sense of security. In addition, since they are all on blind dates, they must be fully mentally prepared. It is impossible to succeed without seeing each other ten times or eight times.

I don’t know what boys mean to you. According to the known conditions you gave, no information can be obtained. But your mentality is very problematic. After the blind date, the other party added WeChat, indicating that the blind date process has just started amicably, and you have begun to struggle “What does he mean if he didn’t contact me the next day?” Honey, you will be very tired like this. Even if he talks to you, I’m sure you start to entangle again, “He talked to me but didn’t ask me to meet him next time”, and then “He talked to me again and asked me to meet again, but he didn’t confess what Mean, is it ambiguous?” “What does he mean by saying he likes me but he didn’t let me be his girlfriend?” “We have been together for a month. What does he mean by not showing me to my parents?” After seeing the parents, he hasn’t mentioned the marriage yet. Does he just want to play with me? “My dear, I am tired for you. Your man is even more tired. He has to continue to promise and show loyalty to give you. The so-called sense of security. In addition, since they are all on blind dates, they must be fully mentally prepared. It is impossible to succeed without seeing each other ten times or eight times.

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helpmekim
9 months ago

Understand him: Understand his preferences, the other person can never like the quiet and calm type. You can show your silly and funny side everywhere, how do you understand? Observe his footprints on major social platforms. If he doesn’t post his Moments, he will start from reality. In terms of personality, people tend to like complementary ones, so he talks less and you better talk more. He likes to be consistent with himself in style. He is a sports and leisure style. Can’t be a noble and glamorous person 2. Set up a set of people: I heard you right, set up a set of people for yourself, what kind of set? What kind of girl he likes, you can choose what person you want! For example, if he likes girls with literary and artistic temperament, you can delete the jokes, complaints, and funny selfies posted by your friends and replace them with light music, painted oil paintings, and photography. The circle of friends should be well packaged, the best is social photos + work and study experience + humorous jokes + life perception + talent show, all are indispensable 3. Interaction in the circle of friends (topic reserve): If the other party sends a circle of friends during this period, then You must give him a comment (don’t like it), if he responds positively to you, or even chats in the circle of friends, then you can directly switch to a private chat. If he doesn’t post his Moments, you should do more of your homework based on your understanding of him, reserve topics, and prepare for chat. You can’t even the opponent likes basketball. You don’t even know which team Kobe is on.

heloword
9 months ago

Many inexperienced girls linger after adding boys because she doesn’t know how to start the show so that it is not so abrupt. There is nothing obtrusive and unobtrusive, love is originally an accident and excitement! Of course, it does not mean that you can do whatever you want and organize several opening methods for everyone. 1. Turn the comments in the circle of friends to private chat. When the other party replies to you, don’t continue to reply, just talk to the small window privately. 2. Start with the avatar, so his avatar is Kobe, you can say “I want to try and What is it like to talk to Kobe?” Similarly, celebrities, cartoon characters, animals and plants can all be like this. 3. Intersecting the opening. Find the intersection of the two of you to cut into the chat. For example, you met in the study room. You can open it like this: “See you go to the study room every day. Do you want to prepare for any exam?”

helpyme
9 months ago

Complimentary opening, “I heard that you are studying well, so I added that you want to learn from you”, but it is better not to praise the other person for being handsome. You can say “I feel like you are a very thoughtful person. Like to make friends with thoughtful people” information sharing style, share the content that the other party is concerned about, in the form of photos, screenshots, or links. For example, if the other party is a postgraduate party, you can send him the content of “How to choose a postgraduate school” , And then said “this is quite reasonable, have you chosen a good school?” There are also some comments that are welcome to add

sina156
9 months ago

Before chatting, please memorize this chat precautions for me, otherwise you will lose all your efforts if you step on the pit. Some girls, boys are very fond of him, but he can make boys lose all interest in her when he speaks~ Don’t be cautious in chatting, don’t let go! ! ! Don’t be afraid to say the wrong thing, don’t study every punctuation mark, don’t be too polite and polite, you are in love, not reporting to your superiors. It’s like thank you, can you use it less often, it will make people feel distanced. Don’t speak too blatantly or straightforwardly, like “Do you miss me?” “Handsome guy, can you come to my bowl”… Unless you want to be blackmailed by the other party, what stage and what you do is important! Don’t spit out every day, bursting with negative energy, don’t write a diary and tell him what happens every day, he is not your fan either! Do not always start with “I xxx” but “you xxx” when chatting. Learn to perceive words and colors, and the topic should be bold, but if the other party is obviously not interested and unwilling to continue talking, please be sensible and don’t continue to ask. Reject meaningless nonsense, like “Good morning, are you there? What are you doing? Did you sleep?” Don’t say, you are chatting with him, not greeting? Do you understand the difference between chat and greetings?

yahoo898
9 months ago

There is no uniform rule for chat frequency, and it depends on feedback from the other party. And don’t let him touch your frequency, you can’t let him guess “this girl wants to talk to me today”? Like an alarm clock, can you surprise him? ? You have to let him not figure out your thoughts, let him guess, you can do this, contact him for a few days, and then do not contact him for a few days, then contact him for a few days, and then do not contact him for a few days he. The specific number is a few days. Don’t fix it. It depends on your mood and performance.

leexin
9 months ago

The length of the chat is divided into centralized and decentralized acquaintances. The initial acquaintances are concentrated. If you focus on chatting with him one night, the duration is not important. If you have a happy chat, even five minutes is more effective than two hours. Choosing when to chat with him is very important. Be sure to choose the time he has free time, such as during holidays, or when he just finished posting to Moments and just like Moments. It is best to choose the evening, between 9 and 11 o’clock. If the relationship is more familiar, you can chat in a distributed manner, that is, chat from morning to night, but you don’t need to reply to a sentence immediately. What happens every day can be discussed and shared together, which can cultivate the habit of chatting with you and let him Develop dependence on you.

greatword
9 months ago

Talk about some recent hot topics, remember to be grounded, it is best to be familiar and interesting things. When talking about current affairs and politics, don’t keep talking about politics, but go deep into life from this topic. “Is the epidemic situation serious in your home?” Talk about his hobbies, even in the early days of acquaintance. (If you don’t know his hobbies, you can ask him? You can also talk about games, basketball, movies, etc. which are of interest to boys. “What kind of movies do you like to watch, can you recommend a few to me?” If the other party is a student, you can start with his major/school and get to know him slowly, but do some homework in advance. “Your school Are all of the students in the school tyrants?” Talk about work, but don’t ask him too complicated questions. The purpose is just to let him vent out of work. After all, work occupies a lot of his life. “Have you ever encountered a difficult person in your work”

loveyou
9 months ago

Some girls can always get acquainted with boys quickly, but they are always in the state of ordinary friends, and chatting is always on the surface and cannot be deepened. Always talk about some hobbies, current affairs hotspots will never be able to get closer to him, chat in depth! Go deep! For example, sharing personal feelings, expressing opinions, and venting emotions can make your relationship better than ordinary friends. Teach you a few methods

strongman
9 months ago

What is our expression? That is, in the process of chatting, we usually start or end with us. For example, if the other party asks “National Day passed so fast”, you can answer: “Yes, we are going to work in a few days.” This can brainwash the other party and bring the other party closer, making him think you are very close. Familiar with. The way to share private secrets, let the other party open their hearts. You can take the initiative to reveal some of your little secrets, small embarrassments, innocuous shortcomings, and your unlucky experiences, so that you can lead the other person to confide in you, open their hearts, and allow both parties to establish a trusting relationship. For example, you can tell the other person. do you know? I don’t dare to sleep alone now, I think I am very scared.

stockin
9 months ago

When the atmosphere of the conversation is very enthusiastic, when he is ready to talk about his own views and energy for success, he suddenly ends the conversation and says to him: Sorry, I’m a little tired and have to go to rest. The purpose is to make him feel itchy, intentional and unfinished, and make him not so easy to achieve. This method can be tried occasionally, and it needs to be used when your chats are on the rise, and should not be abused.

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