Because she is not “exquisite and self-interested”. The prestigious schools cultivate exquisite egoism, revealing shrewdness in indifference. The road to success is full of thorns, and it is not easy to move forward alone, let alone move forward with weight. If Fan Shengmei is smart enough, she has worked for many years and can buy a small house in Shanghai. But she didn’t. She gave her family money to buy a house. She has emptied the reputation of Laonu, but she has an extremely kind heart. Many ordinary women resonate well with Fan Shengmei, have a bad relationship with their family members, are victims of patriarchy, but are still dragged down by their families. Her parents came to Shanghai to find her, but they couldn’t find that part. She looked around the world, and then cried there, acting very real. The family is very unbearable, but it is what I care about most. She is not cruel enough to be exquisite and self-interested, and that is to move forward with weight. Those so-called successful people are not bad if they don’t chew their old age. Qu Xiaolang is a rich second generation, and Andy’s adoptive parents and biological parents are very powerful. At least Qiu Yingying has no burdens in her family, and her parents love her very much. Guan Juer is an only daughter from a wealthy family whose parents can help her arrange a job in Shanghai. Wang Baichuan married a Qiu Yingying from a family background, and he was simply not capable of saving Fan Shengmei out of trouble. Fan Shengmei fantasized about Lao Nu marrying a rich man, but she had a three-pointed attitude, and she didn’t even think about being a junior. It is a better choice to be able to marry a well-off second-married man who is much older than himself. Because if she can’t make a clean break with her family, few people can fill the bottomless pit of her house. However, rich men are a scarce resource than beautiful women! It is also very difficult to find. I don’t think Fan Shengmei failed, I just think she is pathetic. Under the premise of not destroying the Three Views and breaking the bottom line, a girl who was dragged down by her family has tried her best, good enough.