Little babies are the cutest. Babies before one year old can hardly speak, especially those a few months old. They only know how to eat, drink, and sleep every day. Moms and dads want to communicate with their babies, so they basically rely on guessing. So, what little babies think every day has become what mothers particularly want to know. What do babies think every day? For a baby, the first two years of birth is particularly critical. It can be said to lay the foundation for future development. If we can understand and understand the baby’s thinking at this time, then we can quickly Make the corresponding response, so as to better help the baby’s development in all aspects. You can know how your baby’s language develops, why he loses his temper, what to do as a parent, and so on. The BBC filmed a documentary specifically for this purpose, called “The Fantastic World of the North Nose”. In the film, psychologists from major universities and more than 200 infants were invited to analyze what the babies think. . Among them is such an interesting episode. Many high-tech devices are attached to the baby’s brain, mainly to scan the baby’s brain, and then analyze what the baby thinks through the baby’s induction of different languages ​​from the outside world. The babies participating in the experiment will see two videos in front of the computer, one of which is an aunt, using the so-called “parental language”, which is a naive tone of voice usually used when talking to children, to talk to the baby. The other paragraph is to communicate with the baby in the way of speaking between ordinary adults. When speaking in the first paragraph of communication, the baby is obviously listening attentively, but when the second video is played, the baby quickly loses interest and starts to do other things, or begins to look for his own mother. Why is there such a phenomenon? It turns out that when the aunt is talking, the baby’s brain waves are also changing in real time. This involves a kind of “big rhythmic tone sandhi”, and the naive speech tone of the first paragraph actually contains this kind of big rhythm. In the first communication mode, some peaks coincide with the baby’s brain fluctuations. He was quickly accepted by the baby. Therefore, this kind of naive “parental language” is actually very helpful to the baby’s brain development. Just like a student in class, if the teacher’s tone is stereotyped and boring, then the student will feel sleepy. If the tone is new and interesting, the tone changes, the students will of course be more interested in listening and easier to master the content. Let’s continue to talk about an emotion experiment. The expert attached a sensor to a baby to record the baby’s heart rate, and then the staff interacted with the baby in a normal and peaceful manner, and the recorded heart rate was 130. This is a normal value, because the baby’s heart rate is higher than that of an adult. Then, let the baby play a more difficult puzzle game. Sure enough, our little baby can’t finish the game smoothly. After a few more times, the baby started to lose his temper. So what is the heart rate at this time, soaring to 180 in an instant. In other words, the more angry the baby, the greater the pressure, and the higher the heart rate, which will cause the baby’s mood to be more unstable and will be very depressed. This can be said to be a vicious circle. Therefore, at this time, as a parent, you should understand the baby’s thoughts, and then comfort the baby, pull the baby a hand, lift the baby to divert attention, and the heart rate will drop immediately. Important reminder: Do you understand now? Although the baby cannot speak or express yet, it does not mean that the baby does not have his own thoughts. We need to observe and find the source of the baby’s emotions in order to help the baby.

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6 months ago

Babies still can’t speak. If you want to think of a child’s babble as a signal that you want to communicate, then I’m more inclined to classify it as a child’s “Non-verbal Signals” (Non-verbal Signals). “Non-verbal Signals” refer to sounds, expressions, and actions. Children in infants and toddlers always have a way to communicate with the world, environment, and people around them through these “codes”. For small babies, the signals include blinking eyes, arching their backs, turning over, and crying in protest; for older babies, even if they have mastered the language skills, they can still press their lips without saying a word and being irritable. Disturbance, such as the child’s “get up gas”, will still have these manifestations, these are the child’s non-verbal signals. I still remember when I was the most anxious, when my brother Joshua was just two months old. The child suddenly cried up and down. He didn’t sleep well, woke up all night, and always hugged him. No matter what he did, he was unhappy. I was at a loss for what to do, but I still couldn’t figure out what he wanted. When I was exhausted, when I couldn’t guess it at all, I would shut myself in the toilet and cry. I still can’t forget the state of anxiety. Slowly, as I experienced more and more, I also realized that there are many methods, such as capturing the child’s nonverbal signals to read the baby’s mind, which is like a set of “mind reading skills” that can help I go to solve the child’s communication problem, even if the child is just born, I can’t even speak. All of our sense of security and the foundation of nurturing lies in whether we can understand children. I think this set of “mind reading” is worth sharing with every friend who becomes a parent. Those who are interested can come and see: Are we willing to squat? Come down to observe the child? To master this “mind reading technique”, we need to learn how to squat down at the same height as the child, face to face, and observe the child with eyes. Only when we are willing to squat down and observe, we may notice the characteristics of two non-verbal signals: one is the interaction signal (Engagement Cues) and the other is the exit signal (Disengagement Cues). “Interactive signal” is an invitation from a child to us. Even a child who is still waiting to be fed may use his simple physical movements to tell us that this time is in his comfortable state. He looks forward to and welcomes us to talk to him, Hug and play. The “exit signal” is a rejection sent by the child to us. This signal can also occur when the child is overstimulated or is overdrawn. For example, when interacting with a child, if you find that your child’s behavior is desperately turning your head, frowning, crying, struggling, consternation, or sluggish, this is a strong and sensitive exit signal for your child. Recognizing these signals is more based on our instinct and intuition as parents. We need to concentrate and sincerely receive the communication signals our children give us. Pay attention to signs of occurrence. For example, signs related to hunger must only happen before the child wants to eat or eat. I have counted that when the two children in my family were young, their possible behaviors include crying, restlessness, rubbing their chins with their hands, and looking at me with their lips closed. Even my brother Eric might sometimes make faces and arms at me. Bend to ask for a hug. The messages from these children can help me judge that the child is hungry and wants to eat. And when the child is full, even babies who can’t speak, they will soften their bodies and extend their arms on both sides, which will push me away to seek other fun things. This information is in the most In the early stage, it can help me judge that they are full. Pay attention to the timing of occurrence. In fact, when children use non-verbal signals, the signals of interaction and exit are intertwined. In the first few minutes, the baby may have used a lot of lively and happy smiles and movements. I hope we can play with him. But soon he became tired. At this time, he would turn his head to the side, or rub his eyes, and his body movements would slowly stop. When we discovered this, the child was actually suggesting to us that he wanted to stop and rest. Only by paying attention to the timing of children’s interaction and withdrawal can we discover that in parent-child interaction, the child is always the leader, and the signal from the child guides our behavior, so it is not that we take the child to play, but the child takes us to play.

6 months ago

All babies have a lingua franca: ahhhh. When my baby said this before, I sometimes responded to him: Well, A shares, A shares, don’t worry, our A shares account is always being taken care of. In addition, when my baby was less than three months old, there was a time when he hugged and coaxed him while walking, but he was frightened by the foot of the bed. His mother hurriedly hugged him. Then he started to talk about it, he didn’t know what he was talking about, but his expression was especially like cursing the street.

6 months ago

We can’t understand the language of a baby, but we can understand the baby’s needs and mood through the baby’s body language! By observing the baby’s body language, novice parents can tell whether the baby who can’t speak is hungry or full, happy or sad. So what exactly do the different expressions and gestures of the baby express? 01 Show a smile-happy and happy Normally, a baby of 2 to 3 months old can smile under the amusement of his parents. Every mother wants to see her children smile. Some children wave their little hands and feet excitedly while smiling, which means that the baby is very happy and happy. The mother can also respond to the baby with a big smile, so that the baby can feel the mother’s love and feel happier. 02 Open the small mouth and make a sucking action-when the baby is hungry and needs to be fed, the baby will turn his face to the mother, open the small mouth, and make a sucking action. At this time, the mother will feed the baby. . 03 Loose limbs and laziness-It is very simple to judge whether the baby is full when he is full. When the baby pushes the bottle, or leaves the nipple by himself, turns his head to the side, and the limbs appear to be lazy and lazy. It shows that he is full. 04 Pouting grin, upper lip tightly holding lower lip-want to urinate When baby pouting grin, upper lip tightly holding lower lip, it may mean that he wants to urinate, mother should check the baby at this time Your diaper and see if it needs to be changed. 05 The face is flushed and the eyes are dazed-want to have a bowel movement. If the mother finds that the baby’s brows are bursting, the face is red, and the eyes are dazed, she should take the baby to defecate as soon as possible. Babies who can’t talk can’t tell their mothers to have a bowel movement, so their mothers can only observe by themselves. 06 Flat mouth-may be crying, or if the requirements are not met, the baby’s mouth flat is likely to be a sign of crying, or it may be uncomfortable, such as hungry, wet diapers, no one playing with him, etc. , It is up to my mother to judge the specific situation. 07 Crying and no uncomfortable condition-showing that the baby is healthy and crying, the mother will definitely check whether the baby is hungry, changing diapers, cold, or sick. If there is no problem with the above, the mother does not need to Worried. Appropriate crying is good for the baby’s body, especially when the cry is loud, ups and downs, and rhythmic, it can exercise the baby’s lung capacity, vocal cords, muscles and joints, and can also promote the baby’s intellectual development. In addition, the bactericidal substances contained in tears can also prevent eye diseases to a certain extent. 08 Divergence of eyes, slow reaction, yawning-I want to sleep. If you find that your baby has divergent eyes, is unable to concentrate, and has no energy to tease him, he starts yawning and is a little indifferent to his mother, which means that the baby is a little indifferent to his mother. I’m sleepy and want to sleep. At this time, mother should stop teasing the baby, put the baby on the bed and let him sleep. 09 Screaming and crying loudly-irritable babies under 1 year old are easily disturbed by the surrounding noisy environment, but they can’t express their irritability and dissatisfaction through words, so they can only scream and cry. At this time, the mother can hold the baby for a walk in a quiet place, or give the baby some delicious things and fun toys to calm the baby. If family members often quarrel or speak loudly, babies are more likely to imitate adults and yell. Don’t underestimate your child’s ability to imitate and learn. Parents should set a good example for their children at home. 10 Sucking fingers, spitting bubbles-just want to play by yourself, don’t want to be disturbed. Under the premise of eating full, dressing warm, and clean diapers, if the baby has behaviors such as sucking fingers, spitting bubbles, playing with his mouth and tongue, it means him Now I want to play by myself and don’t want to be disturbed by anyone. If you want to know more about parenting, you can pay attention to [International Mommy APP]. International Mommy focuses on global baby milk powder and maternal and infant products to accompany the healthy growth of babies.

6 months ago

The 65th day of a full-time dad with a baby! What my big orange says all day long, I don’t know, but there is a hum, I know, this hum is like a signal, it means that he is sleepy and is going to sleep. , Basically you can fall asleep. In the past, when he was sleepy, he hugged Yoyo to fall asleep, and sometimes he had to hum for a long time, but today, after he was sleepy, he put it on the bed first, I listened to the nursery rhymes, patted his butt, and fell asleep slowly. It’s (-_-) zzz is a historic breakthrough. Before that, I never fell asleep on my own. It was either milk sleep or leisurely sleep. Oranges usually don’t cry. When they are in a dining chair or on a cart, they don’t want to do it. They look at me, stretch out their small arms and hug them. Also when they play on the sofa, they stretch out when they don’t want to play. With a small arm, I will pick him up, and if there is no report after a while, he will hum, but it’s not the kind of crying, and he won’t roll around. After more than two months, he finally got used to my company and I am also used to the days of taking care of him. Thank you Orange, let me know how it feels to be a father.

6 months ago

In fact, I am also very curious. I don’t know what the babies are talking about. I recorded a lot of this kind of videos for the baby at the time. The phone was broken and couldn’t be turned on. Only this video posted on WeChat was left. The child is over one year old. I showed her this video. She was so scared that she was crying. Now, the child is three years old, I took out the video and asked her, this was when you were a kid, what else did you say? She said: I’m singing!

6 months ago

She is probably saying: Mom, you have to be good, don’t play with your phone while doing work. By the way, have the tasks assigned to you by your boss been completed? The other mothers finished it yesterday, so how can they be procrastinated? Dad, you have to be good, go to bed early and get up early, and play less on the iPad, or you will be short-sighted. Okay, why are you going next to you? Don’t bother me all the time. Just like what you say when you usually train your baby. Lie to you~ She was actually saying, “I love you, Dad! Mom!”

6 months ago

Every baby will go through such a period. My baby has gone through the self-talking stage for several months. He acted like he wanted to talk, but he didn’t know how to speak, so he practiced his throat. When he was happy He babbles and babbles constantly, and he may be curious about being content, or he found something funny and made some remarks. You can also scream with your baby for a while, he will look at you and smile, I tried it, haha I have also seen some people say that it’s a baby’s babble, but we don’t understand it. No matter what he says, I watch He is in a good mood when typing these words and he can’t help smiling. Every child is an angel baby. I wish every angel baby can grow up healthily.

6 months ago

Don’t worry about what you mean, talk to her more, even if there is no interaction, talk to him more, read more picture books, you can also read English picture books, which will help language and English enlightenment. Don’t give up interaction just because the baby doesn’t have any reaction. What you say to him and the books you read in the early stage will accumulate in his mind. The baby’s brain is developing rapidly, and it is half a year old in the blink of an eye, and a year old in the blink of an eye. If you develop a good habit of reading to him, he will like to read. That kind of mobile phone is useless. Parents are required to talk to their children and read books.

6 months ago

There is a memory of under-year-old in my memory. I clearly remember what I said: Dad, you see, that is our cow! Look, isn’t the black one on the opposite mountain the cow that we stolen last night (there was no concept at the time, and the stolen was only known later)? It happened that the night before, the black cow that my family had raised for many years was stolen, and the whole village went up to catch the thief, but there was a big fire on the opposite mountain. In the era when there was no electric light (91 years, because the place was very poor), I still lived a very poor and traditional life, because there was still a bluestone road in my impression, and everything was no different from the ancient times. I was also frightened and had a high fever in the middle of the night. In the early morning of the next day, it was just getting dark. My dad wrapped me in my sister’s scarf and carried me on his back, and rushed to the county town more than ten kilometers away. Of course, there were no cars in that era, and all were mountain trails. . I probably know there will be something fun, so I look very excited and the air is fresh. (I am the eldest son of the family, my mother’s ignorance and love did not let me out of the house much before I was born two years old), I saw the traces of the fire in the mountains in the distance, and I didn’t remember at all in my later memory. I didn’t even know what kind of cows my family had. My family told me later. Apart from my own black cow, I should have never seen other cows, but I remember it very clearly now, I said that the black ashes burned on the mountain are cows! After several years, the black ashes remained. It really looked like a black bull, with back peaks, horns and tails, especially like a strong bull. I lay on my father’s back and shouted excitedly: Dad, cow! Our family’s (and there was no such concept at the time) cow! No, look, isn’t that the (stolen) cow from our family! Right there, look! My dad can’t understand what I’m talking about. He has asked me several times. I can understand what he means, but he can’t understand me. He didn’t even look at the direction I was pointing. I am annoyed… Talking to adults (daddy, no concept of adult) is so tired, I can’t figure out the situation for a long time, that’s what I thought at the time.

6 months ago

Homecoming hum, are you here? It was not someone else who cleaned up your feces for the first time, it was me! I’m not a man! mom! you! Give me the milk and bring it to me like a waiter is holding out the most advanced caviar! Reborn, full of vitality, and more! mother power! Big wood! (Goodbye, how many times have you pulled out!) Do you remember how much bread you have eaten? Drive me for the trip! Isn’t the sidewalk very spacious? (Confusion) If you can get to that place, that place! The world! Mom, stop for me! There are three seconds left! Eat my stroller!

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