In our age, we are always weighing pros and cons, thinking about the odds, and worrying about gains and losses. We rarely ask what we like? what do you want? What is suitable for? It seems to be a human being, the most important thing is not “human”, but not to suffer, not to fail, not to make detours… From the very beginning of a child, one cannot have ideas, and hold back when they have ideas; they cannot have hobbies, and have hobbies.
Let’s talk about entering the university; there can be no differences, and change if there are differences; there can be no attempts and failures cannot be tolerated. It seems that life has no choice but to succeed. Everyone is afraid that if one is not careful, they will get out of the tide and be left behind. After growing up, many people can’t find themselves, forget their passion, don’t know what they want, and don’t know what they are suitable for. Huawei and civil servants are obviously two paths in different directions. They need to have different abilities, different resources, and different experiences. One is written with a history of hard work, and the other is stable and decent. no risk. There is no better or worse, only different ambitions and personal conditions. If you force your child to impose a career direction that he is not interested in or suitable for, decades of career can only be a sea of hardships, and the only choice is to suffer. It was a life with no fun and no sense of meaning. Going to work was like going to the grave, and it was like going through ten years of catastrophe in one year. Since I was very young, my parents instilled the idea of becoming a teacher when I grew up. No matter how well they talk about the profession of a teacher, I just can’t be interested. I have longed for “money” since I was a child, and my ideal since I was a kid is to sell tickets on the bus, because the conductors hold “heavy money”. Although after working for so many years, I finally realized how enviable it is to have winter and summer vacations, but over the years, what I have gained is a sense of accomplishment, self-realization, and the kind of life I want. Many important choices must be made by oneself. Even if it is a pit, one must go through it to understand. This is especially true for adults. The long-term invasion of parental control is a way to cultivate giant babies. One of the so-called giant babies is that they are attached to others when they are confused. When they succeed, they all take credit for themselves. When they encounter setbacks, they all get angry and blame others on others. With a long career for decades, there will always be changes and dissatisfaction. Time passes, and many things will be unexpected before departure. Only the things you decide can bear the consequences and responsibilities of your choice. No active exploration is not worth trying. Let go of blogging and the courage to try and make mistakes is experience, growth, and fun.