In a relationship, the actively pursued party usually likes the lover’s external persona (shape/attitude towards outsiders), that is, “favorite feeling”; the party who accepts the pursuit usually likes the experience of getting along between the two, that is, ” Feeling of being in love”. If you don’t get along well, you won’t accept the pursuit if you are chased. This is usually the focus of the investigation period. When both of them lack love experience, the suitor is actually more likely to regret it than the pursued. Because it is harder to actively pursue a person than to accept the pursuit. When you can catch it, the conditions of the two parties will not be very different. The driving force to insist on paying mainly depends on the filters that you add. The difference between humans and humans is not that big. The goddess male gods mainly rely on distance to produce beauty. The closer the distance, the beauty will be flawed. For example, there are some people who have a good temper in front of outsiders. When they lose their temper at home, they throw dishes and smash bowls. Another example is that some people have a good appearance and poor living ability. The bedroom and face are completely different styles. The situation will affect the lover’s willingness to give. And the party who accepts the pursuit, in the process of being moved, more often finds the hidden advantages of the pursuer. For example, this person has a bad temper/ expressionless face and looks very uncomfortable with outsiders. He is only gentle and considerate to himself, and only smiles from the heart when he sees himself. Another example is that this person looks very simple and low-key. In fact, it is very connotative and knows how to live. I can’t bear to spend money to be generous to my lover. When I am with him, I feel better than when I am single, and I want to maintain it. Under normal circumstances, the active suitors are mostly males and the pursued ones are mostly females. Excluding the males who cheat at the beginning, they will move faster to the cold side. This is the reason I said. Since the psychological differences between men and women are not so absolute, in modern society, there are many cases where girls first like a boy, and then become colder than boys.