It happened at noon yesterday. My son is four months old. He puts him in the stroller when eating. He doesn’t cry and makes trouble occasionally. My mother-in-law will hug him for a while and let us eat quietly after eating. I don’t usually hold it. In this case, I’ll hold it for five or six minutes. Yesterday at noon, she finished the meal first, and then hugged the baby. She just held her hand, and I finished eating. Put the bowl away in the kitchen. When she was about to hold the baby, she said, “I’ll hold the baby for you, and you washed the dishes.” I was a little upset. She held the baby for less than five minutes every day, and she opened her mouth to let me do the housework. I take it 24 hours a day and wake up countless times in the evening. I wash my diapers and change my child’s clothes and everything. I have never helped. I said “Go wash the dishes” to the child’s dad. My mother-in-law just finished my words. Very fierce voice “I call you to wash! You call him!”
My son started to make a fuss, he was probably scared, I hugged him back to the room,
I was thinking, why did my mother-in-law say this suddenly, because she thinks it’s too easy for me to take my children every day? I cook breakfast and lunch by myself. If she cooks it for me at noon at home, she usually eats leftover rice from last night, soaks cold rice in soup, cold rice is made into porridge with pickles, and if there is no cold rice, I just eat noodles (my son It’s exclusively breast-feeding), (in the evening when my father and my uncle came back, they would cook bone soup and fish soup. My father-in-law came home and it was even more amazing. The four of us generally had two dishes. My father-in-law came back and got five or six dishes. After doing so comprehensively, I often listen to my father-in-law’s comments that the ribs she bought are not meaty, they are all messy big bones, the pears that I bought are like bubbles, and the oranges that I bought are all sour. My father-in-law does electrical engineering, and our family spends on it. It’s all his. My husband does things for his father-in-law. There is no additional salary. I have to give some points. I haven’t paid for it for a few months now. He owes more than 10,000 flowers. So it is estimated that my mother-in-law thinks that my son and I are all spending her. I’m a little bit uncomfortable with the amount of money)
I think that if I feel that I am too idle and have no income, I will go to work. She will bring the child.
After downloading the mobile phone software, editing the resume, 63 messages in an hour, it is still easy to find, I have made an appointment for the interview this morning
During the whole process, his father didn’t feel the child, he might feel that I was a little unhappy, but he was immersed in his own world. He learned the sewing skills from the mobile phone screen after eating. He was changing the clothes for my son. Change a set of a little big but brand new cotton-padded trousers into a one-piece suit, which just removed the zipper and waistband
Until I heard that I answered an interview call, and after talking with personnel, I threw away my clothes and came over immediately and asked, are you going to find a job? You don’t want children anymore? Who will bring you to find a job? How can my mother take it alone? She wants to send her younger brother to study in the morning and picks it up in the evening, and also takes him to the tutoring class to study. Our child is so pitiful. He left his mother after only four months. (I have a young uncle who is in the first grade and asks someone to pick up homework every day)
I said your mom thinks I’m too idle, can’t I keep everyone busy?
I went to the supermarket to buy milk powder at night, and he was angry again
I said not to buy milk powder, what will the child drink tomorrow,
He said to drink water and eat, anyway, I don’t care about him, just don’t care how they feed
In the end, I didn’t buy it. I was still angry on the way. They said that I wanted what I wanted. They would do everything in their house. They didn’t like the original villa and lived with a large family. So we sold the new house and we lived in the two of us. They said we just bought a diaper table. Buy a diaper table, buy a crib when you buy a crib,
I’m angry when I hear this, crib, changing table? Shouldn’t it be bought? Will it be me?
Forget it, don’t bite the word, I understand what he means, many things within his ability are very accommodating to me, what I say is what I say
Anyway, he was very angry that I was going to work, saying that others tried their best to stay with the child. I have to go to work if I have this condition,
In the end it became my fault, mine is not, mine has no way
I want to ask if my mother-in-law called me to wash the dishes, if I think I’m too idle, but it’s very hard to take the baby. I haven’t slept for a whole night since I was born. Every day, the baby coaxes the baby to change the diapers. Wash clothes and accompany him to turn over, look at black and white cards, do passive exercises, take a bath, and touch