In fact, I want to ask what behaviors can be used to judge the opposite sex to behave and treat others.
A girl’s perspective: if she loves you, everything you do will not lose the price; if she does not love you, whatever you do, she thinks you will lose the price. Boys’ perspective: If you love her, don’t think about falling prices for anything you do; if you don’t love her, you can’t talk about falling prices for nothing. From God’s perspective: There are no fragrant grass anywhere in the world, and fish everywhere in the sea. Men are not slaves or cattle in the slave market. Women should not break their teeth. Comments are short and long—a man is just as good as he is. Don’t let a woman next to you point out “you should do this, you should do that”. A woman is a rib on a man’s body. What a man has to do is to find his lost rib, and then love her well-but only if she is your rib, don’t admit the wrong person.
I want to say to some boys: When you chase a girl, can you stop being immersed in the world where I am an affectionate and good man? What happened to the girl who refused you, chasing down people who hinder other people’s lives and do not consider their feelings, the low burst! I have a female friend who has a pretty good relationship. She is very beautiful. At the beginning of her freshman year, a boy threatened to chase her, and then went on to work. This boy is also good enough, at least in their circle, it is a popular item, but it does not meet the preferences of the girl, so the girl refused at once, and she was firm every time she confessed. (Note that there is no shyness and no implicitness. They are all directly saying that it is impossible that you are not my food, and you directly refuse, and you will hold back if you say that the girl is wrong.) But considering that you can’t see you and see you down, the girl is not right. His face is too bad. However, the sister underestimated the degree of persistence of this gentleman: he got the contact information of all her relatives and friends, and told them how and how he liked her, and the argument was that she was actually not very good, chasing me a lot, better than her A lot of good-looking, but I just like her, so I rejected them all. The listener was sad and the listener cried. Such a good man fell in love with a woman who “does not know what is good or bad”. Under his intentional or unintentional “vigorous propaganda”, his friend has since become ridden with bad reviews, and has become a woman who “hangs a man with her own opinion” – they are in a department and often meet. Not to mention the suitors of this boy, who almost hated her. At the school meeting, because my friend is a key figure in the department, she often has to contact other people, so she can be seen walking with the opposite sex from time to time (note that it is not a hook and a back, the girl is very self-loving and deliberately leaves a distance) , When the girls saw it, they began to viciously say that the girl’s relationship between men and women is chaotic, like messing around, sleeping with other men, and so on. What is ridiculous is that the boy’s first reaction was not to speak for the girl, but to ask the girl about her relationship with those boys. Obviously they were in the same department, and he didn’t know the girl’s job, but by this time he still suspected that I was completely drunk at the time. I took the phone and called him without saying anything, and told him to find other innocent women to get out of me. He didn’t say anything, and sent a text message to my friend, which roughly means: You all hate me so much, so I won’t show up in front of you. I just like her. I didn’t do anything else. Although I was wronged, alas… I was so angry that I wanted to scold my mother, but my friend said it’s fine. I hope he really doesn’t bother himself. She is just about rumors. Feeling that the clearer is self-clear, he doesn’t care too much. That’s how it was in my senior year. During the period I talked to my friend’s classmate, she was also very indignant, so she intentionally or unintentionally helped her friend block the person—yes, he was still pestering. However, there was no major incident, and it was considered safe and sound. It wasn’t until I was about to graduate, and after my friend worked, one day she cried and called me (note, my friend is a very open-minded type, I haven’t cried for a few years), I heard that the buddy made trouble for my friend again: She was unwell. After going to the hospital, the doctor said that it might be a serious illness and needed an examination. The past few days have been in trepidation, but at this moment, this buddy sent her WeChat and said: My friend said you go to the gynecology department for abortion? When I asked, I found out that a girl saw her sister go to the gynecology department, so viciously spread rumors that she was pregnant and was an abortion. The friend collapsed completely. She was very sad when she was sick, but there were people who arranged herself with such malicious words, and she didn’t know what to do for a while. I was so angry that I called and asked him: Who is that person? Don’t you like my friend? Haven’t you known her for four years? Don’t you know how much she loves herself? You actually doubt her too? Don’t you know that she is sick? Even if she is sick, what position do you have for doubting others’ private affairs? But do you know how he did it? He actually protects the girl who spread the rumors, because that girl likes him. He said that he scolded that girl, and refused to call me life and death. When I saw that I refused to compromise, he must make a public statement. He said grimly: Why have you been targeting me and my friends? I just like your girlfriends. what’s happenin? I asked in the opposite direction: Touching your conscience, dare you say you haven’t said anything to your friends? If not, why is she hated by your circles? Neither my friend nor his friend know each other! (Actually, I knew what he said at that time. After all, my friend didn’t know what it was, but he just liked her. I heard it countless times.) Even if you like her, what have you done for her? Don’t trust or help, just keep making trouble. If you have nothing to do with the person who spread the rumors, why don’t you scold them directly? He is an argument: I like her, is it wrong? Yes, there is a mistake. It is wrong for you to hinder others’ lives. I hung up the phone and persuaded the girl to block all his contact information. Before that, he sent another text message to his friend: So you hate me so much, then I, an annoying person, will leave your life forever, balabala, I almost laughed, but this will be gone. The mood of scolding is directly blackened. Regardless of men and women, it is important to consider others. Feelings are a matter of two people, and everyone knows that they are embarrassed? When people don’t like you, they just talk badly, arrange bad things about each other, and even bring troubles to others’ lives, which is very low. If you still have a glass heart, then you should be thankful that you did not meet me. I have no sympathy and will shoot you to death on the spot. Don’t use everything I like her as an excuse. Affectionate is innocent, but it is guilty to hinder others.