Don’t feel free to look at and evaluate how others discipline your own children. A two-month-old baby must reach out and hold it, but a two-year-old child is already sensible and has the ability to play well. It doesn’t make any sense to hold out if you want to hold it. There is no such thing as a lack of love if you don’t hold it, you will be psychologically traumatized. . Only the parents of the child can tell whether the child is really sad and comforted if he wants to hold it, if he is really tired to hold it, or if it is just hypocritical. My child has just turned two years old. Sometimes I have to hug it soon after I go out. Sometimes I have to hug it after walking for more than an hour. Sometimes I don’t want to get up when I fall slightly. Sometimes it’s really painful to fall. , Certainly can not be generalized. I usually use a double stroller to push them out. They like to stand up and crawl but don’t want to sit down. Others seem to feel quite unsafe. But I am willing to make them more comfortable. I don’t want to be too confined to them. I just remind them to hold on, and I will push more slowly. Even if I fall, there will be no problems. And it’s not bad for them to have a long memory when they fall down. It’s more effective than talking about safety ten thousand times and forcing them to sit down. In fact, I rarely fall down, and I have a long memory of falling down. There are often good-hearted people reminding me to pay attention to their safety. I can understand and don’t mind, but some people don’t remind me, but accuse me, saying that fathers are so careless when they bring their children. I am especially annoyed by this self-righteous view and evaluation of others. people. If the subject is that your child kneels on the ground and stretches out his hand to hold, he doesn’t know how to deal with it, so let’s talk about it. 1. Knowing your children is a prerequisite. If you are a parent and cannot understand the motives and thoughts behind your children’s appeals, then you will not care about it! 2. Reason must overcome emotions, and you can’t bear it blindly! Don’t think about it, if you don’t hold it now, you won’t have a chance. Is raising a child to hold more? Don’t think that the child is only two years old and there is no need to make rules. This is just trying to find an excuse for laziness and inaction! The consequences of this excuse will have to be repaid by parents and children in the future! I can understand that Bao Ma is soft-hearted and can’t look down on the child to cry, but this kind of emotionalization has too many drawbacks to the true heart of the child. It is understandable but not worthy of praise. Our Jiabao mother is also the same model. When the child cries, she feels pitiful. As a result, she can’t take the child well. She doesn’t want to eat by herself. She refuses to get down when she rides in the cradle. She will go to the supermarket and lie down if she doesn’t buy snacks. When I cry on the ground…it’s completely different when I bring it. I climb into the dining chair by myself, shake the cart and sit down once after I’ve gotten a meal. If I don’t see the supermarket, I will go in. Even if I go in and get some snacks, I still put it down… So now I take my two babies in my family, and Momma can do the small business she has always wanted to do with peace of mind. Don’t think that setting rules for the child will make the child unhappy. The two babies in our family are happier than other children. The neighbors said that they were excited about going out to play. In fact, the same is true at home. Happy, I told her that there is nothing wrong, this is the norm! The formation of rules is a habit, children are born with a sense of order, and it is a happy thing to observe the established order. The procedure for our baby to eat is to sit in a dining chair, wash hands, put on a meal, and start a meal. Sometimes I forget to put on a meal pocket in a hurry, and they will pat their breasts to remind me! In fact, holding a child as soon as he stretches out his hand is the easiest, most trouble-free and the most irresponsible way to temporarily soothe the emotions of the child and the parents. It is the most irresponsible way to understand your child, grasp the degree, and improve the ability of the parents to deal with it reasonably. Difficult. Too many parents try to save the worry temporarily, avoid the importance, and use all kinds of names! Raising children is a self-cultivation, and it is inevitable!