Not ashamed. At the age of 28, he left barely on his tail, and ran to Dali with only 20,000 deposits. Lived in Dali for nearly half a year, until there were no deposits. At the age of 29, I was doing a job of 3,500 yuan a month, taking six days off and living in an attic with only one window. Every day before going to bed, I feel that life is so boring, it is better to sleep and never wake up. It’s a pity that I woke up again when I heard the alarm sound the next day. When I was 30 years old, my labels were: fat, no boyfriend, no house, no savings, no car. Even work does not pay social security, and the salary is only enough to provide food and clothing. I have given up hope for myself, and I feel that life is nothing more than that. I can’t imagine my future life, there is a high probability that I will die alone. But I was a little unwilling. The turning point was when my 30th birthday was picked up by a Daji-minded young man and joined his start-up company, in an industry that pigs would blow away. How to describe the entrepreneurial story, there have been happy, but also unbearable. Probably all companies (including people) have original sins. Our company is the same. In the end, I couldn’t bear my sense of morality and resigned and left. Fortunately, this is an industry where pigs will be blown away. My previous work experience + work performance is known to the outside world. With a year of hard work in a start-up company, you can find a job without submitting a resume. Then, when I was 31, I changed positions again, from customer service to product manager. When I was 31 years old, I reset and started again. I said to myself: Don’t worry, there will always be bread. Although I was “stucked” by programmers at the beginning, although the boss would put forward new requirements from time to time, although countless times I felt that I was not suitable for this job…Although…but still persisted and entered a small family The company is in charge of the product department. The department is very small, plus I have only three people, and I still hang under the technical department. In any case, it can be regarded as a bright moment in my life. As I was doing it, suddenly an inexplicable sense of crisis hit me. At that time, I realized that the product manager’s job bonus and the C-end product bonus have disappeared. I, who have no advantages in education, profession, work experience, and age, may one day be eliminated. I told a netizen who had known me for several years. Netizens said: Our department lacks an establishment, which is suitable for you. In this way, I promoted the current company, an ERP vendor (not to mention the specifics), but no longer worked as a product manager. I just changed my position again, and the company is service marketing. This year is 2018 and I am 35 years old. I gave up the position of product supervisor with a monthly salary of 13k and a monthly salary of 16k, and chose a service marketing position with a monthly salary of 6.5k. The position is new, and the industry is also new. The cycle of making this choice is very long. I look forward to the offer but don’t want it to come so soon, but when it really came, I didn’t know how to choose it. One is a decent and high-paying management position in a small company, and the other is a low-paying but promising basic position in a listed company. In terms of professional potential, I prefer the latter, but from an economic perspective, I prefer the former. If I were 10 years younger then, I would probably choose the latter without hesitation. But after all, I am 35 years old. Who can guarantee that I can adapt to the rhythm of the company after I join the listed company? Who can guarantee that after I choose a low-paying position, I can come back in 3-5 years? I can’t guarantee it myself. But then I thought about it again, since there is no way to guarantee myself, can I guarantee that this small company can survive for 3-5 years? Can’t. Since neither is possible, the salary given is a pie in the face of the unknown. Taking a step back, if I dismiss the position of product supervisor, according to my work experience, I can still find a similar position in my next job; but if I give up the company as a listed company, will there be such an opportunity in the future? I really don’t know, after all, my age and academic qualifications are not dominant (in the second half of my first year of employment, the company policy changed, social recruitment and social recruitment have not considered junior college students, I graduated from a junior college; In the second year, social recruitment only considered 211/985. If I gave up at that time, I really didn’t have this opportunity). In the face of abandoning salary and opportunity cost, he also comprehensively considered career development, exposure to the resource circle and the professional ranking of the company in the industry, and chose the basic position of the listed company. This also means that in my later work, the fault tolerance rate is very small, or even almost zero, and I don’t have time for me to make mistakes. How can I say that in my first year, I had just joined the company for less than 2 weeks, and a colleague in the department left. The resignation of a colleague in the department means that our department’s customers need to reshuffle. In small talks with colleagues, the colleagues said that the project manager of a client he is currently serving is very professional. He has served on that project for half a year, and the project management ability has been learned more than three years in the company. This matter planted a seed in my heart. I thought that if this customer is my responsibility, maybe I can also improve quickly in a short time. So I went to the leader and asked for help automatically, hoping to be responsible for this customer. The leader didn’t make a statement, and only asked why I wanted to be responsible for this customer. There was no sound for the next week. When I thought that this matter had turned into a jerk, the leader personally took me to the customer site and pointed me to the customer: this is the project manager responsible for the service at the back. When this customer handed over to me, he also handed over the unpaid contract payment task and the unfinished work of the customer contract to me. When I wrote these, I was experiencing the mentality of a handful of scholars dying for a confidant. What is the collection of money, the failure of other colleagues in the team, and the way to solve the problem, there are many problems in the headquarters. It seems that these are trivial matters in front of people who trust you. We held a formal meeting with the customer and stated the reason for the unwillingness to pay. We will solve the problem that belongs to our Party B. After the meeting is over, the minutes of the meeting will be sorted out and distributed by email to the project stakeholders of both parties. It is nothing if other colleagues in the team do not cooperate. Give full play to the advantages of women’s good communication and the mentality of not treating themselves as an onion. Understand the reasons why other colleagues do not cooperate. Should apologize or apologize for past conflicts, show weakness when showing weakness, and take responsibility It is clear that the problem of non-cooperation does not exist. In this way, in the 4th month after joining the company, I collected the final payment from this customer (the process of collecting the final payment is actually related to the experience of the Internet industry, and this incident made me realize that any experience will have a reason for its existence), The project also ended smoothly. In order to cooperate with Party A, after the end of the project, a separate project closing meeting was planned. At the same time as the project ends, it also represents the successful conclusion of my 2018. And some of my work performance on this project has also won the trust of customers, so that in 2019 and 2020, this customer has become my most important customer. In 2018, the first year of the restart, I did not come back. Don’t worry, there are still two years left before the three-year plan. Crossing the threshold of 2021, I am 38 years old this year. In the year of the 2020 epidemic, the annual income is the largest in my life. Also in this year, I bought a small apartment with a down payment loan. This was something I didn’t dare to think about when I was 30 years old. It’s not ashamed to do nothing at the age of 30. You see, I also came here when I was 30 years old. I don’t know what state you are in when you ask this question. Just share my past and let everyone know that there will be people who will do nothing at the age of 30. But what about this? Some people walk faster, but some people walk slower. As long as you don’t stop, you will always go where you should go.