The girls were classmates in middle school, and felt that they had secretly developed a good impression of each other in the process of communicating with each other, but both of them were more restrained and were reluctant to start easily when they were young. There was a certain amount of communication in college but not much. She did not often post on Weibo and Moments, and it was not easy to understand the dynamics. During the New Year, she suddenly sent a message. The two people chatted about the recent situation and felt very happy and agreed with each other. Next, What should I do for a period of time to try to develop a relationship without being too flustered or embarrassed?
Send you a hand-in-hand “Dating Manual”: 1. Start a conversation-congratulations, you have completed it-the trick to starting a conversation is to start by asking a question-you need to ask a question that may be discussed. 2. The conversation is successful-congratulations, you did it too-find out where her interest is, pay attention to the important things they care about-start a conversation they like, they will naturally want to participate in it. 3-A. Establish friendship-Congratulations, you are classmates and have advantages-lay a solid foundation for the relationship. This can be achieved through multiple conversations, and it will take some time-the more you invest in a friendly level, When you finally speak, they will accept it more easily. 3-B. Flirting-optional-if you feel that the other person also has a strong feeling and don’t want to wait and see, try a little flirting. Combine compliments and flirting body language with dating or dating cues. 4-A. Indirectly shows-you both feel that you want to do more together. If you feel that it is too stressful to say “I want to date you” directly, then try to imply indirectly-if the two of you are talking and the other party just mentioned a movie he/she is interested in, then you can By the way, after listening to his introduction, you feel that this movie is also your favorite genre, and you want to watch it too. Then you (or even the person you like) may say “Hi, why don’t we go to see it together?” 4-B. Ask directly-you both feel that you want to do more together-you can directly Ask-“Can I ask you out”. 4-C. Invite them to participate in group activities-optional-if she is more timid-then invite her to a party-to be with each other in an event can eliminate your stress on dating, and at the same time Let the two of you have a chance to be together. 5. Give him an experience—if he agrees—make a plan—whether it’s a movie, coffee, or a great dinner, make a meaningful plan for each other—this ensures you The arranged events can happen on time and provide you two with something to look forward to. 6. Follow-up after the date-at the end of the first date, confirm with the other person-“I had a great time today. How about you?”-so you can know if they enjoyed the time Have an appointment, and how to arrange the next appointment. 7. Strike while the iron is hot-if she also says she is happy-the last step is to make sure that the next date will happen as scheduled-make an appointment with the other party for the next date -. Remember: they have already agreed to your invitation once-so there is really no need to be so nervous and anxious when meeting them for the second time!