I think there should be none. If a couple can be friends, obviously they do not contradict each other and understand each other in all aspects. There is no clear boundary between this and dating, because many boy and girl friends start with ordinary friends. I am a somewhat abnormal person. In reality, I neither make friends with men nor women. I live like this. I basically don’t need friends, nor talk and dinner. I had a dream last night. I dreamed that an earthquake was coming. I started to pack my things to escape my life. In fact, there was no destination. I suddenly remembered that I forgot to bring my suitcase with my precious things in it. I wanted it desperately. Go back and get it, and I tell someone that you must wait for me in a separate place. The sky was full of black clouds along the way. I knew that it was very dangerous to go back to the upper floors. The power was cut off. After I went upstairs, the building began to collapse… I don’t know if I died in my dream, but I feel so heartbroken. , There is no way to rendezvous with someone, so anxious, I woke up. I think I have been working hard to make friends, but I have no chance to meet friends. This must be my problem, because everyone else can make friends. I don’t know if this dream has any special meaning. It’s just that I foresee my end. A widowed old man died alone in a nursing home, with no relatives or friends.
some. First, clarify the definition and boundaries of “friendship”. I am here to delineate the scope of “friendship” as follows: see each other forever, and be able to help each other as far as I can, hoping for the good of each other. At the same time, there is no urge to have sex. Then within this definition, there is pure friendship between men and women. In one situation, men and women are not the ideal type of each other in terms of body shape, appearance, personality, and three views, and neither of them intends to be each other’s spare tires. But the two souls are quite interesting and good people, so pure friendship is not difficult to produce. In the second case, the personality and hobbies of men and women are not on the same key at all, but two people have been classmates for more than ten or even twenty years for various reasons, understand each other and are willing to consider each other, this situation will also produce pure friendship . In the third situation, they had a good impression of each other and tried to approach each other for a while, but after in-depth contact, they felt that they were inappropriate, so they retreated to a safe relationship. There should be many situations like this, which shows that there is still pure friendship between men and women.