Female, graduated from a 985 undergraduate and master, with 10 years of work experience, in the marketing field, not a supervisor, but a larger project manager, but the project is coming, managing dozens of people, the project is over, the members are scattered, only you and yours The assistant looked at each other and sent a letter of thanks to the various departments. At 1.2 million + before tax, it is barely possible to answer this question. Family background is very ordinary. Ordinary refers to parents who are not harsh on what we eat and drink, and the money for school does not need to use student loans. They can barely help us grow up, but what the original capital does not have is that we can’t support it. We buy a car and a house. When I was about 7-8 years old, I looked at my hometown where I could walk twice in an hour, thinking how small, so small, how can I leave this place. Later, my family told me that I had to pass the college entrance examination to a foreign province. University is good. With this idea, anyway, it is the same operation as a small town, that is, others read and I read, others play and I read, one is introverted personality, commonly known as no friends, and the other is that there is nothing fun outside. I think Many people recall that childhood is now that the child is so tired. I used to play mud jumping rubber band after school so happy and carefree. When I was a child, I was really not interested in playing mud jumping. I was really not interested in jumping rubber bands. The mud was too dirty, my body was uncoordinated, and my rubber bands couldn’t jump. I don’t need to bask in the sun at home, it’s so comfortable lying down and reading. In short, as long as it is a book, read well, read textbooks well, and extend extracurricular books. The family did not go to relatives to read. There is a rural teacher’s uncle at home, and there is a bookcase at home. I will use it as a library during basic holidays. I don’t have a library. I have a very good memory. I can memorize the books one by one. It may also be because there were no learning methods in that era. The only way I could think of was to memorize them. My parents are ordinary farmers. They don’t read a lot. They have an open mind. They just do what I want. The only thing I don’t understand is that I don’t just go to school except sleeping and eating. I sleep for 5 hours a day for the college entrance examination and lose more than a dozen catties. , The same as Zhongxie. Anyway, all the way to scholarship to graduate students, left in the school various titles such as library masters and reading madmen. Later, someone in my family was admitted to a university and asked for tuition. My mother asked, isn’t it necessary to pay for university? Oh, mother, this is because your daughter has various scholarships every year. I am too lazy to ask you for money. My mother is an optimistic character who doesn’t worry about it when the sky falls. After graduating, there is no background at home, and there is no way to trust. Finding a job is a normal school recruitment, various interviews, and finally I got 3 offers, two offers from first-tier cities, one offer from the provincial capital of my hometown, my mother Saying that you choose yourself, I don’t want to carry the pot that you will regret later. My mother is such an enlightened old lady who disagrees, disagrees, and is not responsible. I finally chose a big factory offer in a first-tier city. The reason is that in the first-tier cities, the salary is slightly higher among the three, and international companies can travel overseas. Then a man dragged his luggage and came to work. He arrived in the morning and had not found a place to live. It was really frightened to watch office workers pouring into various office buildings like ants. Recruits recruited, 996 is nothing, 007 is possible, really tired to cry, one time I finally stopped working overtime on weekends, I walked on the bustling street after get off work, neon flashing in my eyes, bright lights, I actually shed tears. Work is so tired, even more tired than studying. What can we do? Could it be that when I go back to the village, I have to take jobs that no one wants to do, and make a difference in the most difficult environment. I don’t have any gender preference in the company, and the assignment of work is like a military general. I didn’t leave my hometown much before I went to university. I also have a dream of traveling. When I travel frequently, it’s really good to be at home for thousands of days. It’s better than eating bread and thinking about the food at home. In addition, when the job content makes me feel comfortable, I will change the job content. The boss is not stupid, and there are only a lot of hard work bonuses. Of course, it was a few years ago. It is unrealistic to choose a job and want to get a high bonus. You can still adjust yourself a little if you have rich experience. The workload cannot be reduced, but at least the projects, the frequency of business trips, and the place of business trips can be selected. Old employees still have some options. How do you feel about the annual salary of one million? For us, in fact, there is not much difference between now and when the monthly salary was 6,000. For eating, I eat in the company canteen. It costs 35 yuan a day, morning, afternoon, and evening. It’s convenient and healthy. If you don’t cook it by yourself on weekends, I’m pretty good at cooking or go out to eat. Will you eat more than 2,000 dishes? No, I have eaten it. I’m not a gourmet. You can’t find the difference with ordinary tongue. Wear it, because I am not in a foreign company. Even if it is a larger company, private enterprises are full of slippers and t-shirts. There is no need for a suit, leather, high heels, and brand-name bags. If you wear it too formal, others will think you are going to sell insurance. The exaggerated scene dialogue of “Dulala’s Promotion” really didn’t appear before, what Linda, you bought your limited edition bag in Paris, there are only 10 in the world, so amazing. Hahaha, it will be funny to hear this. How powerful a bag can be, and I didn’t make it by myself. My thinking is really good low-level working people. I just want to wear free t-shirts and comfortable sneakers every day. What I’m talking about is how to make the market number one and how to make the conference cool and exciting. If the product strength and business capabilities are strong, it feels good. When people talk about business, they don’t have to do some of these things. Of course, this only represents my situation. There are many occupations that need to be placed in and out of the appropriate occasions and are no longer discussed. Work can get a sense of accomplishment. Choose well, do well, improve yourself, don’t do things for the sake of showing off, knowledge and ability Hidden in the belly, very satisfying. If someone asks, you are an employee doing branding and marketing, don’t you need to have a brand concept? Does it cost more to wear it? Paul Fossell’s “Style” explains that the mainstream upper class will not deliberately spend on clothing. They want to create a sense of casualness and disdain for the outside world. Think about why Xiaozha, an Internet giant, would like to wear white T, and Jobs would like plain gray T, and he wanted to pursue such a style. I am not saying that I am an upper class, I am just an ordinary working people. I am just telling the truth as a brand practitioner. After understanding the consumption upgrade, I will find that yearning is a way to create consumer desires, but if you are already effortless Buy, you don’t want to buy that much. Car, we understand it as a means of transportation, just a Renault SUV with a license of about 300,000, which is not painful to scratch and maintenance is not troublesome. Before my husband asked if he wanted to improve it a bit and buy a better one. My son jumped out immediately. No, my mother’s car skills are poor. The car is too good to repair, so expensive and troublesome! ! ! ! ! It’s not that a family does not enter the house, and a free and relaxed consumption concept can lead to an easy life. That’s it, hahaha. I would like to talk about a person and a commodity point of view, that is, I am not opposed to consumption to improve life, otherwise the economy will develop, but in essence, commodities are for people and should be used comfortably. If you buy something, it is contained in it. If you are afraid of melting in your mouth, or you are afraid of falling when you hold it in your hand, it means that this product has exceeded your consumption capacity, cannot be used, is not suitable for you, and makes you feel bound, and people should not be slaves in the commodity society. Where did the money go? When buying a house for investment, we just pool together money to buy a small one when we don’t have money, and then we save a little and change it. I changed the house because of the preservation of the value and the children’s schooling. The second is that the bigger the house is, there is a large study room and balcony. My pile of books and a pile of flowers can welcome their new friends, and toss about the furnishings in the house. Ways to get a sense of security. I don’t have much energy for other investments such as stocks. Education investment, we are one-sided in education, children’s education, we do not agree to fill the time, hope to leave time for entertainment and thinking, but if the child likes it, let him try, if you can stick to it, stick to it, and go as long as you like it. . If you don’t spend money in other places, you don’t feel bad about spending money on education. At least you won’t say that your mother will save money to sign up for you. Rather, since you like it so much, we will do our best to relax and less stress. For adult education, you basically go to recharge when you have time. Because of the limited economic conditions when you were a child, you can go to those who want to learn. To make up for your regrets, you don’t need to be more sophisticated. Anyway, you don’t have to wait to accompany your children to interest classes. Learn to learn by the way, and you can also learn from your children. I do not approve of using the input-output ratio calculation method for evaluating educational achievements, because the essence of education is to improve people in all aspects, gaining knowledge and spiritual enjoyment. It cannot be calculated in the form of exchange money, otherwise your final conclusion is not worth it. Traveling, I have a lot of business trips, travel is not very exciting, but travel and business trips feel very different, especially to be able to travel twice a year with parents and children is still very happy, sometimes traveling alone with the baby, sometimes the whole family Traveling together depends on everyone’s time. There is no fixed formula. I took my son for a walk after I was 3 years old, so the child has no fear of places he has never been to, and he can be very clear about the precautions for travel. When I was 3 years old, I still needed to bring a stroller. After 5 years old, I just walked on my own. I like to go to the museum. After a day of strolling around, he can walk by himself. Since I was a child, I don’t want my mother to hold him. Sometimes I’m tired. I am also convinced to be able to go. When visiting the museum, I usually follow the explanation. Most of the time, my son also listens quietly. One time the explanation told us: The first time I saw such a small child, I could listen to the explanation carefully. At that time, I thought my child was great. When he was 6 years old, we went to Seoul, South Korea to play on May Day. He suddenly wanted to go to Seoul Tower to see the night scene and take a taxi to get off the tower at night. Unexpectedly, there are also black cars in South Korea. I know that there are many tourists in the scenic spots. It turned out that the taxi fare, which is equivalent to RMB 100, costs 800. I think it is very late, and I hesitate to take it. At this time, my son said that his mother should not take a ride. We walked to the intersection where we just came to take a taxi. It didn’t cost so much to use the meter. So the two of us walked 1 kilometer and got a taxi at the normal price. Maybe this is the benefit of travel, not memory, not scenery, but independence and courage. Books and stationery, you just want to buy, you want to see it, the more you buy, the more you buy, because I like to practice calligraphy, I have a lot of pens, of course, they are not superb. When I practice calligraphy, they line up in a row, like the emperor’s concubine. It feels the same, so proud. Insurance. Everyone understands this. It is safe-conscious, and the earlier you buy, the cheaper it is. It is not an insurance broker, so I don’t specifically say it. Consumption concept: environmental protection & do not sing high-profile, I think the earth’s environmental burden is caused by excessive consumption. I think a family can use enough things at home, don’t over-purchase, one person can rotate 7 pieces a week in summer, and 3 coats and a few sweaters in winter. Let’s add a little bit, I mean there’s really no need to buy too many things, the clothes in the closet don’t look good. All kinds of big promotions are calculated by the actuary, you can count them, on-demand purchase is the most cost-effective way, you don’t have to buy three-year underwear in advance, four-year tissue paper, things occupy more of the square of the area. expensive. A home needs to be beautiful and easy to clean. The key is to have fewer things. As long as there is no debris, it will look good. I have lived in my house for 10 years, and the living room can be free of any debris, and there are enough cabinets. I used to sell houses. At that time, the buyer came to see my house, did your house move out? Think carefully before buying things. You can dispose of things you don’t need for half a year, except for collections. I’m sorry. I like reading paper books too much. This violates the concept of environmental protection. Books, toys, clothes and other things can be sold on the second-hand website when they are not needed, so that they can be given to people in need without occupying space, which is really good. My son often goes to the community to sell toys. Basically, his new toys rely on selling old toys. A little math is good. Some old men and old ladies see him and say that the boss has new products today? What do you usually do? Our hobbies don’t cost much! Our family’s ability to spend money is really not very good. I really feel that fun and spending money are not positively correlated. Shopping is no more fun than drawing and raising flowers. Parents who accompany their children know that they do homework, accompany drawing, play Lego, read books, watch cartoons, in fact, children’s things are quite interesting, especially toys and books after the age of 5. Growing flowers and fish, my hobby, I need to spend a little time watering every day, and may need to fertilize and remove insects every week. If there is an insect infestation, this full balcony will have insects, and a leaf will be flushed and scrubbed, tired cry, and cats and dogs. Slaves are almost there too, look at the hair, we look at the leaves, there are as many. Volunteering, one is to like it, and the other is to repay the various conveniences this city has brought us. Whenever I go on a business trip, I go to a museum and listen to volunteers’ explanations. I benefit a lot, but I think that if they come to my city, I also want to thank them for their preaching. This is based on personal time. Instead of going there a few times a month, just go there when you have time. For example, if you are busy with work for most of the year, you can go there a few more times when you are free in a month. I listen to lectures offline and take online lessons online. My family doesn’t even have a TV. The main reason is that I really don’t like watching TV shows and variety shows, and I don’t play games. Children have a pad to watch cartoons, so they don’t know what TV is used for. The movie went to the cinema. Now many top universities in the world have opened public courses. There are any fields, and there is always one that suits you. Clean up, there is a part-time worker who comes for 2 hours a week, but when I am in a bad mood, I want to clean up, wipe various places, use various reagents to remove stains in various places, and classify the books in the bookcase according to the color number. Psychological experiments have shown that organizing things can help relieve anxiety, seeing things neatly and cleanly will relax the mood… There are many families with incomes over one million in first-tier cities, but the families I have met are relatively modest and relatively Low-key, not full of famous brands, luxury cars are just ordinary people on the streets, who live strong and mediocre every day, looking for their own meaning in the same life. Of course, I don’t have a friend with an annual income of over 100 million yuan. The wealthy really don’t know much about it. They have limited vision. They just hit workers. They’re just small ants in the city. Talking about some suggestions for ordinary young people, young people with mines at home don’t need to look at them. I have no experience: Suggestions for ordinary people. Ordinary people have the happiness of ordinary people. Ordinary people’s life is also very hard. Respect the freedom of being a salted fish. But if the goal is to change the existing environment, it is the effort and price that needs to be paid, and we must be psychologically prepared. If you are still studying now, I want to say that academic qualifications are very important, very important, very important, study hard, pay no loss, do not discuss with the company that grades do not represent work ability, it does not represent, but at least it represents the ability to endure hardship. The probability of companies recruiting inappropriate people is low. If you have already worked, life is a long-distance running, work experience is very important, and choosing the industry is very important. If you choose the right outlet, you will gain after hard work. If you don’t gain after hard work, consider changing your direction. If you work too easily for a period of time, also Consider changing, because you can’t learn anything. Advice for young girls, girls should also work hard and accumulate capital. This is where you speak with confidence. Don’t spend money indiscriminately, don’t compare food and clothes, and don’t get caught up in merchandise.