After experiencing a deep sense of powerlessness and feeling that my life is completely free from my own will, I started to work hard. I knew when I was very young that my dad works in Beijing, and when I grow up, I will take his class and go to Beijing to work, so I belong to the kind of person who gave up working hard early because I knew I had a way out. You can’t farm without going to college. When I was 19 years old, my father retired. With my father’s arrangement, I got my wish to work in that state-owned enterprise. The company is headquartered in Beijing. But in fact, most of the projects are distributed all over the country, mainly to build highways. After I entered I was also assigned to Chongqing in the greater southwest. Indeed, I live in the wild all year round. Except for the Spring Festival holiday for ten days a year, I work at other times. There is no second possibility until I retire. After working on two projects for more than five years, at the age of 25, I decided to end this endless life with no hope in sight. The first is that there are more wolves and less meat in that environment, and I don’t want to find a girl I like. , If you find it in your hometown, you will face the problem of living in two places for a lifetime, and where will your children live in the future? Who will raise it? Where is education? The unsolvable problem is that you can’t live for a few days after buying a house, because all the people in the unit are in this state. Unless they retire, they have no solution. It’s impossible for me to think about retirement at the beginning of my 20s, right? I don’t want to listen to other people’s arrangements for the rest of my life. I have to arrange my own time and life. There is only one way to achieve this, that is, to leave the environment and strive to achieve independence and freedom. Therefore, the second project was completed in 2003 and I started from a central enterprise. The construction unit resigned naked, and went to Chongqing city alone. After he came out, he couldn’t find a decent job. The more money he spent, the less money he had to move to an illegally built house on the roof of a steel factory. The monthly rent was 150. Handed in on time, served a plate, worked as a salesperson with no basic salary, worked while learning, and finally entered the Internet industry. After five years of work and proficiency in a skill and business process, he began to take part-time jobs, the first part-time job every month Twelve thousand, after signing a one-year contract, I quit my job and went home to become a freelancer. Until today, I started my own business and owned two of my own companies and never worked again.During the days when I taught myself to build a website and search engine ranking optimization, it can be said that I spent all night sleeping and forgetting food. It is not an exaggeration to say that if I worked so hard when I was in school, maybe any university in China would open the door to me. To be honest, I The first twenty-five years of my life were almost wasted, and I didn’t try hard at all. Everything was passively waiting for my parents to wait for the unit to arrange. I gave up the idea of controlling the wheel of fortune early, until I found this way. It’s not where I want to go, and this boat will never get where I want to go, and only then began to work hard to reverse the situation. In the five years after resigning, I may have made greater progress than I had in the previous two decades. The biggest improvement is independence, and I completely gave up the idea of relying on anyone. This has been done for nearly 20 years, and I have not gone to work for 12 years. Facts have proved that there must be repercussions if I am not forgetting. I currently have two companies and two platforms. A year’s income is more than that of working in a state-owned enterprise until retirement, but working Time is less than one-third of that at the time, and it is completely free to control time. In fact, looking back on thinking, I still don’t think I have worked hard enough. If a person’s full potential is 100, I think I’ll play 50 or 60 points, and I’m not always working hard. It can only be regarded as intermittent effort. Probably I really devoted myself to doing something three times. The first time was the few years that I had just resigned barely. I didn’t want anything. Everything started from scratch. During that period, I really started to learn a lot of things, otherwise. It’s hard to survive, and I’ll go back to the construction site and build roads. Once I go back, I might not have the courage to leave again in my life. So what I thought at the time was that as long as I didn’t die from starvation, I would resolutely not go back. To live is to work hard. The biggest gain of those years is to master a skill through unremitting self-study, determine the development direction for the next two decades, and continue to engage in the industry determined at that time, namely the Internet. Humans are very cheap animals and are born with inertness. Once you enter your comfort zone for several days and good days, you will easily stagnate. Since I started working as a freelancer in 2009, my life has become more and more relaxed and my income has become more and more relaxed. It is also increasing year by year, but the time devoted to work is getting less and less every day. Every day I sleep until I wake up naturally, and then turn on the computer. After a long time, I am mixed up. I have to watch TV for lunch and drink two bottles. Beer, and then take a nap, it’s almost time to pick up the kids in the afternoon, and travel every year for more than two months. Gradually I forgot the bitter days of being unable to eat enough food, until one day I suddenly found that I was almost forty years old in a blink of an eye for so many years. Is this how I have been in my life? Satisfied with tens of millions of dollars a year, eating like this every day and waiting to die? Apart from the freedom of time, what is the essential difference between this and building a road on a construction site? What to do after fifty? Do you want to help others? What if the customer doesn’t do it? Thinking of these problems, I suddenly woke up. It was like having a nightmare. I realized that I could not continue like this. I had to have a career that was entirely my own, instead of always helping others to make wedding dresses. This kind of comfort Paralysis is dangerous because it is full of uncertainty and I still don’t really control my life.