meeting. But that person must not be someone I hate. On the contrary, he must have something worth admiring. I just don’t like him that much, and it’s not that he is so disgusting that I hate him. Let me talk about a question that will only be discussed in the mentality chapter in advance. Recently, after many girls bought my blind date class, they started their blind date journey with great interest. However, some girls have too high expectations and are not so lucky, so it is easy to feel frustrated with blind date men who should not be too emotional. To sum it up: Dudu, I don’t know what kind of person I like, and I don’t know how to allocate the time and feelings of blind date reasonably. Even if you write in class, I am not very proficient in using it and I have a blind date. It became a very heavy thing in my life, which made me feel very stressed and uncomfortable. Let’s talk about it today: How can people who want a baby in the future make blind dates easily and how to find their love happily. If you really can’t find love, how do you find someone who can live with you with OK conditions? This is a high-frequency problem in our group, and it is a problem that I also considered when choosing a spouse. This article comes from an excerpt from a voice-to-text answer in my group. In fact, to put it simply, being unhappy in the process of choosing a mate depends on whether you have the eyes to discover beauty. This is a more important point. You see a boy, whether it is a continuous deduction system or an additional point system, which determines your next mentality. Myself, until I got married, I thought I was a brother-in-law, and I liked the kind of big brother who would take care of others. But later, I think about what this will be when we analyze this kind of care of people? In fact, to put it plainly, it means that the empathy ability is relatively high, that is, what you want, he can get your points, and he is willing to take care of your emotions, at least not to disturb you. I only control the smart, gentle and tolerant brother. Because I am not particularly nosy, so I have a headache if my father is too strong, jumping and proud. Yearning for the feelings of not interfering with each other, admiring each other well, and admiring each other with full marks. In fact, what I want is this point. Then my husband is very good at this point. Although he is younger than me, he can take care of me very well. I am very comfortable with him. In fact, this is what I really want. So next we have to see whether this point can be trained or whether it is something deeply ingrained in his bones. My husband has a very good foundation, and after being with me, I communicate with him and communicate with him, he knows more and more about what I need him under what circumstances, he can make up this point in time, so we The communication will be very smooth and will appreciate each other more. So I suggest everyone: if you are particularly sure that you can’t let go of a point, then you go to that direction to find the person you need. Indeed, choice is more important than effort. Since my real thunder is daddy, if a man is full of daddy and has a strong desire to control, I will not consider him no matter how handsome, rich or interesting he is. I have the courage to send a good person card, instead of asking some girls who didn’t have the choice: He has a flaw and I am very responsive, but he is the best in my choice range, I am so entangled. Then he dragged his feet and kept entangled, and asked every week if this thunder-spot injury could be corrected. Don’t be too greedy. After thinking about the only determinant of your love, work hard in this direction. Keep the bottom first, if you have other advantages, you will earn it, and your mentality will be much easier. We then went down to consider how else to put this line. If you expand this point of taking care of people a little bit, you have a sense of responsibility. The performance of the sense of responsibility is that he makes money, he is willing to spend money for you, he has a special awareness of being a man. However, he may not be willing to take care of your emotions. He thinks that this is a very small thing in his life. He is unwilling to spend energy to take care of this place. Can you accept this kind of person? I thought about this issue before, because some of the blind dates at the time were indeed financially good, but they might not coax a girl like this man. Then, if I am with this kind of person, I have to be psychologically prepared. I can’t ask for too much emotional value from them. They won’t, they don’t, and they may not be willing to give it. So let’s go back to the passing line that doesn’t involve each other’s qualifications just now. If by any chance I did not meet someone like my husband, they might be my first choice. Just this person, he is very honest, he has no interest, but he is very capable of work, he does a very good job, he does not interfere with my normal hobbies and life trajectory, for this kind of person, I think as a husband no problem. However, I have to adjust my mentality: he is excellent in this aspect, but he may not be so good in that aspect. It’s just that he can’t be too greedy as a human being. He is rich and has high emotional value. This is not to be insignificant. me? Right. Knowing that if I give up my emotional value, what kind of men can I attract with my existing emotional value, and what kind of men are willing to exchange with me in marriage with the best conditions? At this moment, we have to consider what are the advantages and disadvantages of being with different types of people. Can we accept this disadvantage? To put it more maturely, if you haven’t met your favorite type, then put it first, what is this person like? What kind of advantages he must have, and which disadvantages you can bear. What are the shortcomings that led to the differences between the way you two get along with what you expected, and what adjustments you probably need to make? So, I suggest that in addition to male gods, you should also have a template for economically suitable men and a template for improvising marriage. Didn’t I write about it before. There are requirements for improvising marriage. For example, if you can kiss and sleep, you can say that although the three views are not very consistent, there is a better rule for you when you quarrel. Let’s live more peacefully. Although the two of them didn’t have much spark, they didn’t quarrel and fight every day. Then, both parties understand the rights and obligations of the family relatively well, and are willing to fulfill them well and pass the character. We list all the advantages we want, and then take the next advantage which must be retained, and the worst result must know where our bottom line is. Then, I can pick out these cores, and then if I find a blind date, I myself will start with the kind of marriage that can be improvised. When I find that he has this advantage, good, very good, which can become an affordable man, I can put him in this range. Then everywhere I found that he still has that advantage, um, I will give him more points and increase it a little bit more. It’s like a treasure hunt, constantly giving these men extra points among those who have passed the pass. So I get along with them very happily, that is, I discover their new advantages every day, just like I have found a treasure. I can get along with them very politely and friendly at first, to maintain this relationship, in fact, to see if this person has other advantages that can be tapped. So my mentality is much better than the mentality of many girls. I will not worry about gains and losses for a person who doesn’t care about me or what it is, because I’m looking for treasure. What can you expect from someone who has just passed the passing line? The process of blind date is also a process of practice. It is a process of constantly discovering your true needs, who you are comfortable with, who you feel suffocated with, and your body is very honest. There is a saying that you don’t see where the world comes from. Similarly, if you don’t see someone who may become a spouse, your mate selection cannot be guided by theory and practice. For me, if I can meet people who are very happy and meet the conditions, it will not be a great joy for everyone. But I have never met such a person, and I also have someone who is considered good in my range of mate selection, and I can get married. Knowing that I want my own baby, the single birth option is too stressful for me. I must find a reliable teammate. So when I was young, thinking about the relationship between the sexes, learning how to pick people, how to attract the types I wanted to cooperate, and how to work well with each other was a compulsory course that I couldn’t get around. After all, I have very bad luck. I have not even won the washing powder when buying lottery tickets…Because I have seen so many people and kept repeating, many people have affirmed my charm and value, so I think I am the worst The result is to find a good person within the range of mate selection. I will never let myself fall to the point where I choose to be single or to cooperate with someone with bad conditions. The suffering of many people comes from having no choice, being very hungry, having to eat, and being greedy. I have a lot of money in my pocket, but there are only roadside stalls in the range that I can’t bear to look at the environment and taste. All they have to do is to go out, and they can’t eat the Michelin they want, and it’s not bad to eat a private kitchen. You don’t want to eat at the roadside stalls when you are hungry and pinching your nose. So the practice that the girls who are good at business in the relationship between the sexes have done are the lessons they have to make up.