Of course, both parties will change. It is appropriate to say that they “mutually” adapt to each other and work together for the sake of the family. The basic changes are as follows: 1. One becomes two people; two people become 3 or 4 people; 2. Marriage is love. After marriage, love gradually becomes family. The longer the time, the greater the change. 3. Marriage. Both men and women have “thoughts”. After marriage, the thoughts become less. The longer the time, the fewer thoughts. In the end, they can’t think about it; 4. Before marriage, you can tolerate the lack of each other, and you cannot tolerate it after marriage. Point out directly, even quarreling with each other; 5. Two people before marriage and after marriage may be two people, but with children, it is really difficult to separate two people in this life; 6. Two people may be happy before marriage, and after marriage Two people may be more painful, of course, some people have the opposite; some have changed from thin to fat, some have become thinner from fat to thin; some have become fatter and fatter; 7. There are more love talks before marriage, and they all talk for “money” after marriage. Even noisy; sometimes I don’t bother to “chat” more just caring words, ordinary conversations and greetings in life; 8. Before marriage, I long for freedom-how good two people are; there is really no “freedom” after marriage ; More often you “go to the toilet” and the other person wants to know what you are doing? Why is it so long? Is it related to… 9. Before marriage, the words are love words, and after the marriage words are “money” talk a lot-it should be used to repay the mortgage, property fees, utilities, car insurance, children Tuition fees, parents’ living expenses, your expenses…Can you save some, next month…You are so nagging! nagging! nagging! Annoying! 10. Before marriage, I pay more attention to personal image. After marriage, it seems that it doesn’t matter. After a long time, the uncle and aunt are anyway; 11. Before marriage, most men are strong, and after marriage, most women have become strong from weak—from female princesses. Become a housewife, a good wife, a good mother, a nanny, and finally a yellow face woman; 12. Before marriage, men are worried about what will happen to women, and after marriage, women are more worried about what will happen to men; 13. The biggest change after marriage is two people They have become mature, and the longer they have matured, the harder they have become; 14. Before marriage, a woman thinks that having a man is a home. After marriage, a woman understands that she has a child to have a home; therefore, women become more family-oriented; 15. Before marriage Both parties can accept each other’s strengths and weaknesses. Marriage can only be used to get used to each other’s strengths and weaknesses. 16. Before marriage, men have strong hands-on and verbal skills. After marriage, men’s hands-on and verbal skills are weaker, and women have little ability to verbalize. Strong ability and strong hands-on ability; 17. Before marriage is the beginning of happiness, after marriage is the beginning of doubtful happiness-is this happiness? If… But in the end it may be like this for a lifetime; 18. Before marriage is passion, after marriage, it is anxious for money or both partners; 19. Before marriage, they want to fight together in the future. After marriage, some couples are both. Fight and fight each other; 20. Before marriage, I want to have a good life after marriage, but the “good” life after marriage is really something that neither of them can imagine; in the end, neither of them want to think about it anymore; in short, marriage is Good, life after marriage is plain and practical, but generally speaking, it is happy. At least someone will accompany you to move forward, despite the joy, joy, pain, and suffering… when you When you are fortunate enough to care about your children and really care about your partner, you will feel how happy you are-because you have a family, many responsibilities, and many obligations…Couldn’t you change?