I am 37 years old this year, and I am still unemployed.
When I was 35 years old, I wanted a child. The company was busy and it was a bit difficult to get pregnant. My home was far away from the company, 26 kilometers, three subway trips, and 1.5 hours. If it is a taxi, it usually takes longer because of traffic jams. In addition, the company did not have a year-end bonus at the end of the year, so it proposed to resign in October 2019.
Now the baby has been more than 5 months old, and he has grown from 35 to 37 years old.
I started looking for a job in early March, and it has been a month. I have notified few interviewees, and there are no more information after interviews.
And some jobs will also be marked as under 35 years old.
It’s now in early April, and I don’t know when I can find a slightly more suitable job.
Coordinate magic capital. Although I am not yet 37 years old, based on the things I have experienced and the situation of the people around me, I would like to mention the following points for the reference of the subject. First of all, I haven’t found a job for more than a month, but it can’t be more normal. I was also fired by the company last year (I was violently fired without compensation). I am fully aware that due to the impact of the epidemic, the external situation is generally not very good, and many companies have begun to pay attention to tightening their belts. As long as the positions that can be released are slightly more reliable, there will be a lot of people squeezing their heads to fight for the job. Regardless of the many opportunities in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, the competition will only become more intense. After all, it is the eldest son from the shortest, and it is the same for the current employers and job seekers. Everyone is a two-way choice, try to choose the best. What’s more, at the age of the so-called “middle-age crisis”, if you are not engaged in an industry that is older and more popular, the price-performance ratio is really not as good as those young and energetic little girls. So if you decide to take the path of finding a job, you must first have a Buddhist mentality. While preparing for regular interviews, you must have the patience to fight a protracted battle. There is an 80-tail friend beside me who has been looking for a job for nine months before finally returning to the workplace last week. The hardships in the job hunting process, from what he described, are really like the twists and turns of learning from the West. Secondly, I actually feel that there is no need to limit one’s own path to death, especially after having a certain life experience. Not to mention, objectively, there are indeed children who need to take care of, and dual-tasking can sometimes suffer. For those who have just become Bao Ma, the energy at work in the first few years must be distracted by the family. Therefore, even if you are reemployed and find a job that can do both, you should also focus on it. The two former colleagues I know are all women under 40 (one of them is divorced), and there are also daughters who have not yet attended elementary school to take care of. The final way out for the two of them is that one becomes an agent of an insurance company, the other teaches a dietitian by himself, and at the same time works part-time as a headhunting consultant. The biggest advantage of these two career choices is that working hours and locations can be arranged freely. You don’t need to be stuck in reinforced concrete. In most cases, you have the final say, and you can accompany your children well. . Of course, the disadvantage is that the income is not stable, and at the same time it needs to consume a lot of contacts around me. If it weren’t for the fact that there were a lot of fetters that had settled in the past, and I was able to squeeze in the face to engage in related work, it would be really embarrassing sometimes, and I would often languish. Everyone has different personalities and different aspects of their expertise. This is just to start with. Just like the official account I saw two days ago, some people introduced their experience of full-time stock trading after middle age. This is quite novel, and it is also a different experience and way out. In short, the road ahead is still long, and there are many choices before him. There is no need to limit one’s thinking to death. Look more, think more, try more, and then continue to summarize the lifestyle that suits you best. This is the most important thing. The tree is moved to die, and the person is moved to live. Keep a good attitude, take good care of the baby, live with your heart, and then just wait for the time to run. Come on!