Domestic intp and intj are easy to be regarded as freaks when they are young, and then have to disguise, otherwise they will be forcibly corrected by their parents. Those intp and intj who have been able to make independent decisions will pretend to be undetectable when they mature. I tested the intp a few years ago. After a few years, I tested it as an intj. At that time, I seemed to be in a busy period at work. I was indeed more like an intj at that time. Of course, I also did that job. I don’t like it, and I dislike it very much. I like work that is highly independent and does not require too much social interaction, but my job content at the time just happened to require good cooperation (the cooperation of more than a dozen people) and a lot of social interaction. Even my tm was the person in charge, that is I have to arrange more than a dozen people to join this project alone. This is killing me. I am not good at teamwork. I am used to working on my own. Others really don’t trust it. I also don’t like too much social activities, and I don’t like much social work content. My dream is to become a technical person. Then, in order to be worthy of the trust of the leader and the expectations of my colleagues, I forced myself to let go of the nature of the INTP, and changed from a person with plans and schedules everywhere, from a person with procrastination. Become a strong woman who doesn’t procrastinate. It was my philosophy at the time to complete today’s affairs. Really, those days were too bitter, and it made me change my nature. It was too difficult. At the time, I was very confused about my career direction. I tested it again and found that I turned into an intj. The otaku people turned out to be intj, and I was surprised at that time. Then, then I resigned. (Just kidding, the project was done at the time, and then I felt that there was no room for improvement. In addition, the job brought me most of the pain, and I really didn’t like the industry, so I quit.) After resigning , I instantly regained my nature. As expected, I was still the intp with a bit of a house, a bit of salty fish. Give me a computer and Wi-Fi. I can stay in a place to be old and old. This is me. The desktop shouldn’t be organized, and It’s a little messy, but I can always find what I need most. There are three points of enthusiasm for doing things, but like to think and analyze. Always rational and calm, sometimes a little cute and a little confused. There is always a plan, but it can’t be completed within the specified time. Ah, this is the real me. It’s me who die when I go out. I don’t like to wear skirts (the previous job is more demanding, and women’s dress is more rigid and strict), and I don’t like to wear high heels. Everything is convenient. I don’t like the suit skirts of professional women, and I don’t like suits. Overalls and sneakers are my favorites. Sweatshirts are my soul. Masks and hats are essential for going out. Hanging earphones are the artifacts that seal everything. A thin and light laptop and a double-shoulder computer bag are my four-dimensional pockets. On the street, the one who looked a little sluggish, seemed to be distracted, and the one sitting in the coffee shop typing was that I was right. However, there are really very few people like me. I know that I’m not good at socializing, I’m introverted, I’m not very talkative, and I don’t like to speak in public. I seldom use emotions, and chatting with friends is always justified. I feel unkind. I am always on the road of discovering and thinking about problems and then solving them. I am not good at comforting people. Therefore, I can always make friends quickly using my disguise, but I don’t have a few close friends. I am not good at maintaining relationships. Whether it is family or friendship. I am always the mysterious person who disappears suddenly. I am a little strange in the eyes of my friends, but a freak in the eyes of my family. My only luck was that I met a friend who was a bit freak like me, and of course only one. Therefore, intp and intj are really very few. I have lived for more than 20 years. In reality, I met one of them. It was an intj, and I made friends on my own initiative. I think my radar is better. As long as I am similar to people, I am interested in getting to know and make friends with each other. Unfortunately, I haven’t met so far. It’s a pity, hey. Intp and intj are really too low survival rate. Because it is really difficult for them to survive in this society. In recent years, it may have been better. In my age, it was really difficult. I have always been outside the class. I have excellent grades and a lot of skills, but it is always difficult to integrate into the group. My thinking is mature, but also a little naive, and I don’t have a common language with other people. I didn’t meet a friend who understood me until I was in high school. Before that, I had almost ended myself countless times, because in the eyes of my family, I was a little autistic and a freak, and I didn’t have a close friend. Really. This feeling is too lonely and lonely, enduring mental violence, and always feel whether I was born into the wrong world, am I really strange, am I not supposed to live, in short, I think about the connection between myself and the universe every day, Then I think from time to time, let’s die, just die. It’s really painful to not find a sense of identity. It’s been waiting for me to meet intj’s friends before I have the feeling of finding the same kind. Although intp and intj are quite different, they are attracted to each other to a certain extent. My friend and I are like this anyway, I’m very weird, she thinks I am very interesting. Then he grew up slowly. She was in a different situation from mine. She used to be very unpleasant. She said that I was the first person to take the initiative to befriend her. She used to be a relatively bad kind of personality. In typical novels, the personality of the domineering president, somewhat paranoid, and desire to control Extremely strong. Of course, her family’s conditions are very good. Parents rarely discipline me. Unlike my parents who try to force me to change my character, her family is more tolerant. Therefore, when I met her as a little poor, she felt that my soul, who was so interesting, still had the best way to do what she wanted. It was a salvation. I’ve known each other like this for many, many years. In reality, apart from her, I really haven’t met other people of the same kind, melancholy and melancholy. I think many people call themselves intp or intj, but it’s really hard to say. The formation conditions of intp and intj are relatively harsh. First of all, most of my childhood was the neglected kid. For example, I had a private school for a few years in elementary school. It was really ostracized and isolated by the whole class. My mother was very busy and kept me alone at home on weekends. There was no TV, nothing. At that time, I didn’t have any entertainment except reading, and then I usually talked to myself, played with myself, and forced a group of people. Later, when I went to a public school, it was difficult to integrate into the group. I always felt that my peers and I did not have a common language, so I might as well read a book. Secondly, int-type people are too depressing their emotions, and they have lost their sense of security since they were young. Most of them have something to do with their family. Because I don’t get attachment and security from my parents, I will suppress my needs and fears, and I am accustomed to thinking about problems with rational thinking. When I grow up, I am accustomed to reason before sensibility. It seems a little cold and uncomfortable. You hope It is really difficult for them to get comfort from int. They think you are asking them for help, and then help you analyze the problem and solve the problem with reasonable evidence. Therefore, it is difficult for them to comfort you emotionally. This is what my mother hopes I can show more care for her when I grow up, but besides giving her gifts, I really don’t know how to give her the care she wants. Finally, int people like to fight alone, not good at collaboration and socializing. It can be seen from childhood that it is mostly them who do not like to participate in group activities. But because of this, it is difficult for int people to survive in society when they grow up. After all, people are social creatures, and many tasks require teamwork. Int people can do it, but for them, it will probably be one thing. This kind of torture, anyway, is quite tormenting for me. Therefore, the formation of int is really harsh. There are about one or two int people in a class. The ratio is about 1:50. In the process of growing up, most of them are forced to turn into other personality characteristics. Some of those who still maintain themselves may have committed suicide just like me when I was a teenager. I did not succeed. They may have succeeded. The remaining part is finally able to grow up and get out of campus, but most of them will be practiced by the society into other personalities, and some may be depressed. The lucky wave may finally find a way to survive and become mature. Learn to pretend, then find out where you are good at, and finally become yourself. But how lucky it takes for int people to achieve such a result, anyway, I am still an immature int, a little melancholy, and still looking for my own direction. It’s really not easy for int people to survive. In Zhihu, there are actually very few real int people. Some may just join in the fun. You think there is a lot of knowledge, probably because int people like Zhihu. This type of knowledge-based app, so there are many gatherings. In fact, there is a simple way to identify INTP (only INTP). You can take a look at the app in his mobile phone. INTP people are curious and interested in many things, so they also like to download all kinds of things. Learning apps, and they have a lot of miscellaneous skills, which is true for the INTPs I know on the Internet.