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Let me talk about some of the main criteria for individuals to distinguish between smart people around them. The first thing to be clear is some basic principles. First of all, having expertise in a specific field does not mean being smart. For example, a sewer worker and an excavator worker are both veterans in their respective professional fields. Which one is smarter? This is hard to say. Therefore, the standard of discrimination should not be aimed at a specific field, but should be universal. For another example, depending on academic qualifications, it is not necessarily reliable. Let’s leave aside the dropouts like Gates and Jobs. Which one is smarter, an undergraduate or a doctoral student? This is not to say, maybe undergraduates have made good scientific research results during their undergraduate studies, but did not continue to do scientific research and went to work directly after graduation. Then he must be stupid or smarter than a PhD student? Can’t tell. For example, seeing one’s body is not reliable. Because of my personal experience and the relationship between my circle of friends, many friends around me are from prestigious schools. There are a lot of HYPS in Beiqing. The number of students from prestigious schools at many parties is far more than those from non-prestigious schools. In this case, the background itself It does not have much resolution. Although people from prestigious schools generally make people feel smarter (for specific reasons, please refer to the following), even people from the same school will have differences in the level of smartness that can be easily identified. So what will I use to distinguish smart people? I have six standards, two and two groups are divided into three categories: basic indicators, realistic indicators, and high-level indicators. The basic, realistic, and high-level classifications are not meant to explain the severity and level, but just to facilitate everyone’s understanding. The first criterion of basic indicators is the ability of metacognition. Metacognitive ability is “cognition of cognition” and “knowledge about knowledge”, in simple terms it is thinking about the cognitive process of oneself. Regarding metacognition, there are a lot of materials on the Internet. You can find popular materials through search engines, and you can also find relevant psychology literature to read if you are interested. People with strong metacognitive ability usually show strong learning ability, because they have a good understanding of their own cognition and learning process, and can produce optimized learning strategies after rapid self-thinking and introspection. They have a strong ability to control their own cognitive abilities, know how to use their own cognitive abilities and existing knowledge frameworks to adjust and evaluate the intake of new knowledge. These people can quickly integrate new knowledge into existing knowledge. Some knowledge. In the words of Jobs, it is to connect the points that have been drawn, and people with high metacognitive ability connect very quickly. The second criterion of basic indicators is the ability to have a logical thinking jump. The general conversation process is usually to talk about A, then B, then C, and then D… But I have found that when chatting with some smarter people or watching other smart people, usually Instead of walking step by step, but jumping in big steps, that is, first talk about A, then talk about D, then talk about F, then talk about J… this way. This ADFJ conversation method is logically the same as the previous ABCD conversation method. It is not a random thought jump, but some intermediate logical steps, because both sides of the conversation have already thought of it in advance, and each eye looks one action. It’s tacitly tacit, so you don’t need to repeat every step, just say the next step. For example, a friend who is a doctor who I think is much smarter than me came to my house as a guest. I was cooking in the kitchen and the guests were chatting, and they talked about cancer. I thought of a joke and said, “Riding a motorcycle and wearing a helmet can also increase the probability of cancer.” This joke is actually pretty straightforward, and I think the other party must understand it, so I didn’t add it or continue to talk about it. , And the doctor friend directly replied, “Yes, last time I went to the ward round with the director, the director said that one of the old ladies is more likely to have cancer than the other patients because shehas the syndrome of having too many birthdays. “Then everyone will smile. The rhythm of jumping is very comfortable when talking with someone similar to the level of intelligence, and logically it can also be a natural transition. However, if the rhythms of the two people are too different, one party must often add B and C after finishing A to continue to say D, and even add B1 and B2 in the middle, that is another situation. The first criterion of realistic indicators is curiosity. In fact, the metacognition and thinking jump mentioned above belong to the smart substructure, and the standard that can most intuitively reflect whether a person is smart is curiosity. A smart person is usually full of extensive curiosity about various things in life, and it is this curiosity that gives him more opportunities to acquire new knowledge. Curiosity and cleverness are a chicken and egg situation. No matter how strong a person’s learning ability is, if he is not curious enough, he will not understand all kinds of new things; and if a person lacks a broad understanding of things, it will be difficult for him to see those things that he does not understand. It is not easy to generate strong curiosity. In Socrates’ words, “The only thing I know is that I know nothing.” The second criterion of reality indicators is the ability to explain complex problems in simple language. I can often see some professionals explaining professional or technical problems in online communities including Zhihu. They will spend a lot of time talking about the principles behind the problems, listing various formulas and derivations that are difficult for laymen to understand. The process and technical terminology were very difficult to answer by myself. Most of the readers did not understand, and both parties were unhappy-“I have spent so much time talking about why you still don’t understand” and “You said so many unclear Jue Li, I still don’t understand.” And many of the smart people I have met have in-depth research in their professional fields, and the common feature of these smart people is that they will deliberately avoid using others when explaining professional issues. You may not understand big words, jargon, and professional language. The use of simple language deliberately explains at least two problems. One is that the speaker understands empathy and can analyze and evaluate his own expression from the perspective of the other party, which is a reflection of his ability to evaluate knowledge learning; secondly, many professional terms He Daci is actually a tool for direct communication with experts. When the audience you are facing is not an expert, you can’t use these tools to “slacken”, so that the requirements for the speaker are even higher, and the requirements for the degree of knowledge are also required. higher. Some of the more famous users in the professional fields of psychology, statistics, fitness, etc. on Zhihu usually have such characteristics when answering questions. There is a very interesting annual science popularization event called the flame challenge. The organizer will put out a topic every year, and then ask the participants to make a video, and explain the topic in words that an 11-year-old child can understand. It sounds very interesting, but it is still difficult to do. Over the years, the topics include “What is a flame”, “What is a color” and so on. You can try to explain the topic “What is a flame” for yourself, and then think about whether your explanation can be understood by an 11-year-old child. There are similar questions on Zhihu. You can go and see if the answers to those questions are clearly explained in simple language. The first criterion for high-level indicators is the attitude towards opinions. It is specifically manifested in several aspects, such as less expressing opinions about areas that you don’t understand. This is actually a side expression of the more you know, the more curiosity you have mentioned above; the other is the ability to accommodate different opinions, or even the opposite. This is actually a side manifestation of the above-mentioned ability of empathy; there is also not superstition, not obsessive and not understanding, when new information and evidence prove that your original view is wrong, you can change your point of view . These points are not difficult to say, in fact, everyone will say, but it is really difficult when you do it yourself, because it also involves social attributes such as emotional intelligence and face. The second criterion for high-level indicators is the attitude towards others. Whether a person is kind or not is a very important criterion. Of course, to be precise, kindness does not mean cleverness. There are more clever bad guys. In fact, if you want to be a successful bad guy, you also need to be smart. If you are not smart enough, you will not be able to do too much bad things. But “good guys” and “bad guys” are very subjective judgments. Under normal circumstances, everyone is a good person in their own hearts, and even terrorists do not regard themselves as bad guys. They are freedom fighters and defenders of truth in their own eyes, and they are very “noble”. So what I said about kindness is actually an attitude towards others, that is, whether he can help others improve and improve through sharing, counseling, and setting an example to achieve a win-win situation. Helping others to improve is extremely difficult to think about. It is probably only after completing the previous five standards. Of course, there are people who are very smart, but insist on “not only I want to succeed, but I want everyone else to fail”, but I am really not interested in this kind of person. It doesn’t matter whether such a person is smart or not, I always try to avoid it. of.


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8 months ago

Tell me a few people I know. Their characteristics 1. Never deliberately show off, but it can be seen that they are very clear about their advantages. 2. There is a super awesome person. If you don’t understand it deeply, you will feel like a simple person, but if you understand it deeply, many concepts will be thrown away by you. But it won’t be easy for you to see that he knows a lot. Thoughts are deep, not pretending to be forced. 3. Usually very easy-going, very good to everyone, if it is not for a close relationship, it is impossible to approach, and the sense of distance is always there. 4. Be very clear about what you want, don’t preach any slogans all day long, and keep your goals on your lips, but every step is accurate, and you can see how others take up the challenge step by step. 5. Do not mix right and wrong, trouble can be avoided by them cleverly. Don’t associate with messy people. The circle of smart people is really smart people. 6. I always feel that the real smart people are hidden in the world.

8 months ago

1. Good mind. 2. Quick response. 3. Imitation or learning ability is very strong. 4. See through but don’t say through. 5. Understand words. 6. To the point. 7. Do not grind or entangle. 8. Look at things tricky. 9. Do things beyond expectations and have a good sense of rhythm. 10. Judgment is accurate, and firmly believe in your own judgment. 11. Make a clear distinction between gains and losses, and know what you want. 12. Don’t counsel. 13. Transparent. 14. Interesting. For example, it is the kind of operation that can make you sigh sometimes, and often make you sigh, my day, there is this kind of operation? Can you still play like this? Can this be solved? People who can often surprise you.

8 months ago

People who think they are smart and interesting have several characteristics: 1. They are not sociable but very sociable, they are very comfortable, and they give almost everyone a kind of relationship between you and me, but I am not sure if this is the case. a feeling of. 2. Have your own clear hobbies and specialties, and praise and enjoy them from the bottom of your heart. 3. I don’t deliberately want to attract anyone’s attention. I often like to do things silently and enjoy the fun and the growth it brings. 4. Understand your pursuit and goals, and don’t worry about anyone neglecting yourself, because you know that you are the only ferryman in the world. 5. Like to read. 6. Most of them don’t like so-called luxury goods and pay more attention to the meaning and design concept behind the items. 7. Understand that loneliness is the norm, but still return warmth and blessings to others, and continue to pursue a good relationship with oneself. 8. Self-discipline, whether it is study, life, or body management, like to plan time in a well-regulated manner, love and respect life. 9. Distinguish the priority and severity of things, and adjust the balance of dealing with various things in life well. 10. Do not regret the past, fear the future, and live in the present. 11. Deeply understand the importance of learning, understand the importance of thinking construction and thinking depth, and often pay more attention to the improvement of thinking than appearance. 12. Have a better appearance and taste, do not believe in appearance but pay attention to temperament. 13. Have at least one very strong skill and profession. 14. Regardless of success or failure, regard it as the process and learning of life. 15. Respect life, love life, and be grateful for life. Although it is not comprehensive, what I prefer to express is that the interpretation of the so-called smart person is that the benevolent sees the benevolent and the wise sees the wisdom. I have a personal opinion. Hehe~ I wish a better life.

8 months ago

If you think there is a problem with the article, you can pull it to the bottom first, and take a look at the remarks first, thank you! One: IQ: I love to summarize, I love to find patterns, I love to sort out and think about problems. II: I have a very good memory. On the one hand, synapses are established quickly, and on the other hand, I observe, experience and remember everything with my heart. III: Smart people don’t necessarily speak fast, but people who speak fast and logically clear are mostly smart. IV: To see whether he speaks endlessly, whether the theory is correct or not is of secondary importance, and to see if he can justify his claim. The point is that smart people know that language and logic are actually the most powerful weapons that affect people. V: Strong logical ability, whether it is language logic or thinking logic, you find that you can hear what he tells very clearly. VI: Have a strong ability to generalize and expand, and be good at explaining the same event to different people in different ways. VII: There is a certain degree of predictability, extremely fast judgment, good at analyzing, summarizing and reasoning. For problems that may become difficult, plan ahead and solve them during the event. If nothing happens afterwards, they are relaxed and happy. VIII: Smart people don’t say much meaningless things. Those thieves who like to express their opinions and talk about their IQ, and even the red-faced people who argue to defend their opinions, are often players with lower ranks. The boss seldom speaks loudly, and the whole person seems calm and calm. Listening and judging more often, rather than talking loudly, for them, the brain is more important than the mouth. Two: Emotional Intelligence 1: Keeping your mouth shut is not lacking insight. It just feels that there is no need to speak, or understand that it is useless to speak. It is really good to be willing to talk taboo. 2: Very comfortable with him. This shows that he has seen through you, knows to adjust and cater to your communication style, and embeds in your thinking system. Follow your hair. 3: Look at whether it handles interpersonal relationships with ease, and whether it is accommodating and accommodating. 4: Be gentle to everyone, not enthusiastic, nor indifferent. It’s not easy to make heart-to-heart, and maintain proper politeness to the people around. When we chat together, most of the time is the listener. 5: Regardless of the occasion, maintain a calm attitude. When chatting with you, he will stare into your eyes, smile, and nod, even though he may not know what you are talking about. If you disagree with your opinion, it will not necessarily be pointed out, because your opinion will not affect his interests. 6: Speaking well and focused, not verbose, not careless. 7: When discussing issues, the caliber and position will be confirmed in advance, which makes it easier for them to reach consensus. They are well aware that most of the meaningless arguments in the world are essentially different in definitions and positions. Therefore, before discussing a problem, they are accustomed to confirming the definition of some unobvious concepts (in their eyes, many concepts are by no means as obvious as ordinary people), and the positions of the two parties discussing the problem. After confirming these, discussing issues will often become very relaxed, and it is also very easy to reach consensus. 8: Smart people are good at showing completely different personalities in front of different people, and will not make themselves appear smart in front of everyone. Because they know how to socialize with different people in order to achieve the most efficient and comfortable state. And appearing smart in front of some people, on the contrary, will make him bear a lot of responsibilities that he does not have to bear, which will become a burden to him. [Smart] is a big killer, you have to weigh it carefully before you can exert its maximum power. So you see, many smart people always look stupid in front of others. And those who are really stupid think they are smart people! 9: Be careful, if you speak too much, you will lose (1): Don’t express immature opinions easily if it is not necessary. (2): Don’t talk about others behind their backs unless necessary. (3): Honesty is not all merits, it means “seeing it through but not telling it, and telling it through is not a good friend”. 10: Tolerant, tolerant, determined, and smart people will not easily make enemies, and basically will not show the final cards; can tolerate emotions such as loneliness, ridicule, accusations or external interference, just to achieve their goals. There are many humble people in China, such as those with great wisdom, those with hidden dragons in the abyss, and those with low-profile ones. They make enemies with some humble person. Maybe he is a strong man or there are a lot of people with identities behind him. Damn you! You may be able to solve it even if you offend it, but making enemies easily is not done by a wise man. 11: Will take the initiative to show weakness, but the areas of weakness are often irrelevant and innocent areas. Smart people with great wisdom often take precautions. He will deliberately sell flaws in certain secondary areas, and give people who are not as good as himself some places to find confidence, even in important areas. Three: Contrast A: The reason why stupid people are stupid is that they are stupid without knowing it, stupid without knowing it, and stupid without changing it. Translating adult words is stupid and stubborn, and it’s still a matter of face. B: The reason why a smart person is smart is to proactively admit his ignorance. Don’t smart people want “face”? Of course also. But cleverness lies. He knows to admit his mistakes and mistakes, admit his “limited ability”, and has no relationship with face. The real “face-saving” approach is to shirk responsibility, throw off the pot, and “I said…” afterwards, rather than the fault itself. C: Stupid people can’t distinguish what is “fact description” and what is “judgment”. In the face of external information stimulation, the fool’s processing logic is “to people and not to things”. Therefore, a stupid person cannot accept a little bit of criticism or information that seems to be critical but not a criticism. He will feel that you are targeting his personality. Then, a stupid person who has read a few books will “online”, and a stupid person who has no ink in his stomach will “One cry, two troubles three hangs,” has a temper. D: It’s tiring to get along with stupid people, and it’s very comfortable to get along with smart people. Because stupid people have a lot of rules, and smart people have only a few bottom lines. Stupid people will judge others with a bunch of their own rules. After practicing day after day, they have trained a pair of eyes that are extremely good at picking up people’s faults, plus long battery life complaining and nagging skills. Smart people do not set so many rules, so they can tolerate more unbearables that do not involve principles. The smarter thing is that they have the ability to find something worth learning from everyone in the face of all-inclusiveness, and they have the patience to find beauty from ordinary trivialities. With fun. E: Stupid people pursue immediate benefits, smart people value long-term benefits. But this is an afterthought. The fact is that in the eyes of fools, there is no distinction between “immediate” and “long-term”. Limited by the cognitive level, fools cannot see long-term benefits. Therefore, “immediate benefits” are all benefits. F: Stupid people are driven by the curiosity instinct, and morbidly admire the cool on the surface, but do not seek to understand its essence. G: Smart people don’t use their amateur interests to challenge others’ professional jobs. Even the Chinese men’s football team. Awe and respect for professionalism is a manifestation of self-knowledge and other-knowledge. H: There are two reasons why smart people treat others with modesty: First, to reason with stupid people is a waste of time and energy, and the result is often still unreasonable. In consideration of reducing frictional resistance, the most cost-effective strategy is to remain humble and avoid disputes. Second, smart people have strong empathy, understand the situation and imperfections of others, and are more willing to discover the shining points of others with an appreciative perspective. I: Stupid people always complain, the more they complain, the more problems they have; smart people will make fun of them, treating difficulties as tests and turning problems into strength. J: Stupid people surrender to the environment. Once they are out of the environment, life is better than death, and even unconsciously chooses to die. Smart people are accompanied by the environment, and even if the environment changes, they can fly away before the building will tilt. And find a new environment and start again. K: Stupid people love shortcuts and coups, smart people value basic skills. L: Smart people respect fools, and fools are hostile to smart people. M: Stupid people compare with others everywhere, and their emotions are led away by the outside world. Smart people also like to compare with others, but there is one more thing to compare with themselves. N: Smart people are very “lazy”, but they are even more clumsy. Stupid people are very clumsy, but they are even more lazy. O: Stupid people often have no connotation and love to show up everywhere. I like to pick up all kinds of ready-made sentences and hang them on my lips. P: I often start judging people without understanding the situation. Q: The organ is small and easy to fill, and it is easy for the nose to rise higher than the sky. At the same time, because of lack of intelligence, I can’t recognize the cleverness of others, and I often make mistakes without knowing it. R: Stupid people don’t know how to advance or retreat. It is often others who let him take a step, and he thinks he is great. S: Even if an idiot learns every day, it is difficult to grasp the essence. He just stares at the details and stereotypes. The greatest effect of their knowledge on them is to make it easier for them to find faults, and they don’t have any original ideas. T: Reducing the defensiveness and action ability of competitors is an important condition and habitual method for smart people to become smart. From this perspective, the reason why smart people are smart is largely achieved by slow-reacting and unsmart people. they. U: To see whether it can be resolved quickly and properly when it encounters difficulties, especially when conflicts and disputes are encountered, whether it can be resolved quickly. V: Looking at problems with a developmental perspective, they will constantly revise their impressions of things. They are very happy to look at problems with a developmental perspective. They believe that things are constantly changing. Besides, they are very happy to accept the changed things. Interesting things, they are keen to compare the difference between the things before and after the changes, and then think about the reasons for the changes. In contrast, most people who are not very smart are very insensitive to changes in things. This may be due to the flaws in the way they perceive things: many of them like to “label” a person and an event for easy memory, which makes [de-labeling] extremely uncomfortable for them. Four: Other a: Keep a low profile, usually do not have a strong sense of presence, but can be reliable when something happens. b: Be wise to protect yourself, stay away from disputes, stand outside, and see more clearly c: Gain and lose in the heart, self-determination of blessings and misfortunes, a clear understanding of life, and be open to all encounters. d: Not eager to behave, better at observing and listening; so it feels low-key and calm. e: Don’t make promises lightly, but the results of things are often satisfactory. f: Be very open-minded and free for sunk costs, rather than obsessed with it. g: Great wisdom is foolish, modest, and don’t like to show off knowledge. Sometimes you have been with him for a long time without knowing his background. This kind of person knows that there is someone outside, and can ask for advice with an open mind at any time. h: Rarely follow the trend. He may be very easy-going, but he always has his own thoughts and hobbies. i: A person who is highly sensitive to opportunities, is good at discovering and grasping opportunities, and has keen foresight. j: Smart people are usually better at disguising themselves and deceiving others, and once smart people are discovered by others, they usually won’t admit it. k: Have a strong curiosity about things and are willing to cherish each other with curiosity. l: A person who can be extremely focused and efficient on one thing may not be smart, but a smart person must be efficient. m: Most of them are competitive, but they are more willing to surrender to the facts. In fact, their principles of life are often logically highly self-consistent, because they usually have a high degree of identification with “logic.” This makes him more willing to admit his mistakes if you challenge him with facts and logic. Arguing with smart people is very comfortable, because they know very well under what circumstances they should admit defeat, and they seldom mess around without reason. n: can often tolerate the diversity of things. o: Low-quality social interactions are rarely seen. Smart people often feel the shortness of life better. Your time is precious. Even if you want to socialize, you must spend it on the blade. It is better to get drunk with friends and friends. Some people with special abilities and resources around you chat more; if they can’t find it temporarily, they are more willing to stay alone. p: Very purposeful, strong learning ability, can really do it, strict self-discipline, minimal impulse and emotional use, constantly set various goals, and try all kinds of ways to complete, strong planning, beyond ordinary people Time concept. q: I rarely feel superior because of my identity, which allows me to humbly ask people at a lower level than my own on specific issues. Smart people also have a sense of superiority, but this sense of superiority rarely comes from their identity, but from their own strength. r: Calm to burst. I think ordinary people often explode their mentality, and they are especially prone to collapse in emergency situations, but those bigwigs rarely see them show some kind of anxiety that ordinary people can see. s: Emotions rarely fluctuate, and my heart rarely conforms to the crowd. t: A person who understands the power of money and knows how to use his own resources to contain and manipulate others to obtain his own benefits. u: Affordable, let go; distinguish between gains and losses, and know what you want. v: Like to be alone: ​​There are two reasons why smart people like to be alone. They need time to think; there are no people to communicate with around. w: Dabble more extensively: not because they learn faster, but because his thinking needs a wider range of knowledge to support. x: It’s the kind that can make you sigh sometimes, and often make you sigh, my day, there is this kind of operation? Can you still play like this? Can this be solved? People who can often surprise you. Remarks: The clever person mentioned in the article is obviously not me. I just take notes from time to time. If it might be useful to me in life, work or on the Internet, sometimes I will sort out the notes and organize them. Class, and then refer to some regulations as far as possible to modify yourself. The content of the article is from my notes, but most of the content of my notes comes from the sages in life, work and the Internet. They have seen earlier than me. I am just fortunate to be able to refer to the opinions and insights of the sages to correct myself. Thoughts and actions. Zhihu is a website that I pay attention to in my spare time, and I also pay attention to other websites such as Weibo, forums, and government webpages, just to grasp some information or knowledge in time, and I don’t intend to offend anyone’s interests. Due to the epidemic this year, the work is more difficult than in previous years, and the time to pay attention to website information and knowledge is also tighter. If the article is offensive to your predecessors, please send me a private message. I will revise or delete the article in time. If you have trouble, Please forgive me for the place! Thank you!

8 months ago

Before internship in a certain ministry of the country. Tell me about those big bosses. 1. Smart people never talk much. Those thieves who like to express their opinions and talk about their IQ, and even the red-faced people who argue to defend their opinions, are often low-ranking players. The boss seldom speaks loudly, and the whole person seems calm and calm. Listening and judging more often, rather than talking loudly. For them, the brain is more important than the mouth. 2. He is very easy-going, and he doesn’t just set up enemies for himself, but he won’t easily show you what he knows about him. 3. Strong endurance. He does not show irritation to people who make him uncomfortable or harm his interests, and will not be angry at trivial things and small people. I can sit still very well. Others may give up when they can’t see the prospects for a month or a week, but they will endure it, walk patiently, and have a strong concentration. 4. The learning ability is very fast, the ability to grasp the key points is very strong, the brain is very flexible, no matter how social skills are, it is difficult to start a wave of career without hard skills. They think deeply about a thing, and at the same time they think about a wide range of things. For some new things, you may be able to understand it in a day or two. 5. Ability to stay focused for a long time. Continuing from the above, most people have differences in IQ, but the difference is not as big as in reality. Those big guys are very focused on doing things. Now most people are getting more impetuous as they live. They just swipe their phones to make a small job at the slightest opportunity. It is difficult to achieve that kind of devotion. In fact, this is no longer a question of IQ. Their smartness is actually linked to mind tranquility. 6. Calm down to burst. I think ordinary people often explode their mentality, and they are especially prone to collapse in emergency situations, but those bigwigs rarely see them show some kind of anxiety that ordinary people can see. During the internship, one of my younger brothers, who had a master’s degree and a master’s degree in Peking University, had a rapid progress. He often told me that emotions can’t solve any problems. I really think he can be in a good position. Let me talk about so much first. Although many people in that department are comrades in their 40s and 50s, I have to say that the big guys are not only the negative things we know. People who climb to that position basically touch their minds and concentration.

8 months ago

Generally, “smart” refers to a person’s abstract thinking and analytical ability superior to ordinary people, which is commonly known as “high IQ”. And some studies have shown that high IQ does have some recognizable behaviors. 1. Smart people are generally more humorous and humor is related to vocal intelligence. A study conducted by the University of New Mexico found that people who make up their own jokes and humorous paragraphs, and who are more funny about comics, score higher on the language intelligence test. Although smart people are not necessarily humorous, humorous people may be smarter. If you want to look smarter, maybe you can try humorous expressions. However, not every style of humor is beneficial. Another experiment conducted by the University of New Mexico studied the relationship between comedians’ humorous style and intelligence. Studies have shown that comedians who score high in intelligence tests rarely use self-defeating humor, which is to make themselves a laughingstock. This is a psychological defense mechanism to hide negative emotions towards themselves, and Attacks on others. In order to gain the approval of others, use harmful humor to please others. Therefore, the humor of smart people is often friendly to themselves. For example, comedians make good use of Affiliative humor, tell jokes in a kind and self-accepting state, and share things you think are interesting from the heart. Or use Self-enhancing humor to tease yourself and your surroundings in a constructive and harmless way. This humor can help us magnify the good side of the dilemma and maintain a positive attitude. 2. Smart people’s attitude towards new things is more positive and openness is a kind of personality, which contains positive imagination (fantasy), aesthetic sensitivity, attention to inner emotions, preference for diversity, and knowledge curiosity. In other words, people with high openness also have a more positive attitude towards new things and challenges. If you have people with high openness around you, maybe they have a higher IQ. Because openness is related to two intellectual factors at the same time: fluid intelligence and crystallized intelligence. They are the ability to understand language and deductive and inductive text (McGrew, 2005). The difference is that fluid intelligence is based on physiology and will decline with age; while crystal intelligence has been developing throughout a person’s life. Although it enters a plateau at the age of 25, it can still be improved. Studies have shown that people with high openness perform better in fluid intelligence and crystal intelligence tests (Gignac, Stough, & Loukomitis, 2004). In other words, people who have a more positive attitude towards new things may have more advantages in both innate IQ and acquired intellectual development. In addition, people with higher openness also have higher learning abilities, which is also a manifestation of high IQ. They are more likely to be interested in new things with curiosity. Interest is the inner motivation of learning. It helps people use some strategies and skills in the learning process to achieve higher efficiency. For example, when reading an article, people who are interested in the content not only read the meaning of the text, but also use associations to integrate new knowledge into their original knowledge system. 3. Smart people know more about delaying gratification. Smart people seem to know how to be self-disciplined. They are very capable of delaying gratification. Good at resisting immediate temptations and focusing on long-term goals. Because the brain regions responsible for self-control and logical analysis activation are overlapping. In an experiment at Yale University (Noah A. Shamosh, 2008), researchers used fMRI to measure the brain activity of 103 subjects. These subjects completed the financial reward test: they received 10-200 US dollars in a short period of time, or did they choose to delay receiving 2,000-40,000 US dollars? At the same time, in each group of choices, the final amount and the delay time are inversely proportional, that is to say, if you choose to get the money later, you may get more money. At the same time, subjects also completed additional short-term memory tasks related to intelligence. The researchers found that in both tests, the prefrontal cortex area of ​​the brain was active and was the only area that was related. Participants with more active brain prefrontal cortex scored higher in the intelligence test, and also chose to delay the reward in the economic reward test. The prefrontal cortex of the human brain is responsible for the integrated analysis of various information, and the logical analysis ability is a very important manifestation of IQ. In addition, people with strong integration ability are more likely to make accurate analysis of the overall situation of things, and choose to control themselves for long-term goals and not accept immediate benefits. Therefore, people with high IQ have strong self-control ability and the ability to delay gratification. Of course, being smart does not mean a better life, and IQ does not mean the wisdom of dealing with life. Although many smart people can quickly generate opinions, they tend to be too confident in their own judgments and ignore other objective information. The wisest people are actually those who admit that they know nothing. The ability to objectively recognize your own limitations is more important than high IQ.

8 months ago

See if there is such a person by your side, that makes you admire? Smart people generally have the following types of characteristics: 1. A person who knows how to take measures: that is, self-knowledge, will not mention things that others do not want to mention, will not ask other people’s privacy, do not casually speculate about others, see through without breaking, speak Do things well. 2. People who are not surprised: they can be rational about life, work, emotions, including emotions, calmly analyze, look at and solve problems positively. 3. People who know how to stop losses in time: When you encounter bad people, don’t care about bad things, don’t persevere, don’t entangle, learn to let go, stop losses in time, and don’t waste time on unnecessary people or things. 4. People who know how to get along with themselves: Find the way you like to live, play when it is time to play, work hard when it is time to work hard, don’t embarrass yourself, and don’t make yourself too comfortable. 5. People who work silently: Successful people succeed not because of external factors such as luck, talent, and wealth, but because they always work harder than others. 6. People who look at the long-term: Most people only look at the immediate gains and losses, while smart people look at the longer-term, for example, whether doing something will be beneficial in 5 or 10 years. It’s like Warren Buffett’s view of investment. 7. People who can manage time: Know how to arrange their time reasonably, and know to spend time on things that are good for them, instead of consuming their own time or staying on the ground. 8. A person with a clear direction: What do you really want in your heart? What is the driving force behind it? For example, many say it is for money, so you have to keep asking yourself why? why? You will find out what you really want. 9. People who accept yourself: accept your own heart, face your shortcomings, accept your changes, and become a better version of yourself. 10. People who actively learn: Get out of their comfort zone, learn and explore actively, make independent choices, and stick to it. 11. People who improve themselves: constantly learn and optimize their strengths and talents, and require themselves to cultivate higher talents as high as possible. 12. People who are good at thinking: able to streamline the knowledge they have learned and find more answers through thinking. 13. People who dare to act: No matter if they will do it or not, do it first, do it and then continue to optimize iteratively. We can’t make perfect results, but we can optimize through feedback and make better results. Rather than flinching and avoiding action. 14. People who can make choices: find more and better choices and make decisions that satisfy themselves, instead of making a dilemma. Choice is just a process, an experience, not the end, the end is the ultimate pursuit in my heart. 15. People who know how to manage emotions: don’t anger others, speak softly, don’t be influenced by emotions and cause one to lose control, know how to express one’s emotions, instead of releasing emotions and causing disputes. 16. People who communicate effectively: Communication is an art. Effective communication is to speak well and express the feelings after rational thinking, rather than distinguishing opinions, exaggerating facts, and behaviors without brain thinking. 17. People who cut off: cut off, abandon the things that are not needed, and continue to carry on, which is to make life minimal. 18. People who treat others fairly: Refers to people who treat others with a heart that treats themselves, and often thinks from multiple angles when they do things, and they think about their own interests as well as the interests of others. 19. A person who knows how to use resources: It is to maximize the value of one thing, and use time, money, contacts, knowledge, assets, etc. to create more value for themselves. For example, some people buy a house to invest and then earn several times; some people use money to buy funds, ten times in ten years; some people use three years to counterattack the annual salary of one million; others use a few months of zero basis to switch careers, etc. Wait. 20. People who do things with reason and evidence: No one succeeds casually. They all walk one step at a time. Based on feedback from experience, continuous improvement and optimization can find the right direction. 21. Do you want to understand the underlying logic of doing things at work? Click here to learn the underlying logic of doing things. Cleverness in the dictionary means high talent, strong memory and understanding. However, there is no standard definition of a smart person. As long as you see something worth admiring in others, you can be said to be a smart person. If there is a person around you that you admire, and what you admire him, that is his most prominent place and a place worth learning. If you like, you can tap the screen twice~

8 months ago

When you meet a person, he can understand your situation, respect your opinions and beliefs, and get along with you makes you feel very comfortable, but when you want to further communicate with him, you will find that he always keeps a certain degree with you. Distance makes you feel that you are always separated by one level; this person is 80% smarter than you. Many smart people generally only like to have deep friendship with smart people of the same level, and keep friendly and friendly with people who are not as intelligent as themselves.

8 months ago

1. Learn to pretend to be stupid, see through and not say to break a lot of things. He doesn’t know who uses him, takes advantage of him, is hypocritical and selfish. He is very clear in his heart, but never exposes him face to face. He smiles on the surface and mvp2 likes to read books. A person’s cognitive level is the most efficient way. Through extensive and extensive reading, on the one hand, they can update and iterate their thinking mode, and on the other hand, they can have stronger empathy and language expression in interpersonal communication. Ability 3. Patience and smart people are often pragmatists. They don’t just stop talking on paper. They understand that “action” is everything, run in small steps, iterate quickly, and finally achieve their goals. Know what things should look like. , Which means that you are a rational person and know what things actually look like, and that you are an experienced person who knows how to make things better, and that you are a smart person. 4. People who have their own love and expertise are often smart. Having their own unique love and interest is a kind of love from the heart, which allows them to immerse themselves wholeheartedly in it. It is an indispensable factor for maintaining their happiness and self-confidence. 5. People who are good at communication but do not love communication and smart. Because of the breadth of knowledge and deep human nature, you can talk to almost anyone. Others feel very happy with him. However, because they have seen through the emptiness of the relationship, they don’t like to socialize extensively, but only care for it. A few close friends 6. A smart person who is good at discovering the strengths of others is good at digging out a place worth learning from anyone, instead of focusing on others’ shortcomings to satisfy their jealousy and desire to win (For example, if you find that I am a treasure who dares to tell the truth, why not encourage me by double-clicking on the screen?) 7. Modest, low-key and smart people tend to be more humble, because they understand that there are still many things they don’t know and they don’t. Areas you are good at, so you won’t easily make judgments and express your own opinions. On the contrary, the more incompetent people, the more they feel that they are awesome. They like to judge others and feel complacent. What you have to overcome is your vanity. Your desire to show off, what you have to deal with is the cleverness that you want to show up all the time. 8. Don’t follow the trend, have your own independent direction and goal. The 28th law applies to every corner of this world, and this world must be owned by a few people. The assets of the majority, and the majority of people work for the minority. In the Internet era, it will even become the “Nine Law”. Smart people are often independent and correct. However, because it is a minority, they are destined to be looked at each other coldly and destined to walk alone. Why do some people seem so friendly, but they are always alone? Because they have already made their direction clear. 9. They enjoy loneliness. They have a powerful and rich world. They like to be alone, like to read, like to watch a movie, go shopping, and cook alone. There are countless ways to spend time alone. Time! 10. There is such a joke about self-discipline: Whenever January 1st, everyone is like an old general on the stage, full of flags, and most people will almost take it out on December 31st of the following year. A list is exactly the same, because the flags of the previous year are all down. Smart people often set goals based on their actual situation, and they can basically achieve them every year, rather than the same goals every year. 11. Smart people have their own expertise and a technology or discipline they are proficient in, and use these skills Polished to the level of more than 99% of people. 12. Those who are good at learning from the good and the bad from any experience, won’t be arrogant and not discouraged, they always focus on whether they can grow. 13. People who look decent and smart will not expect others to be sloppy through themselves Seeing his own interesting soul in appearance, he will clean up and be decent. This is not only a respect for others, but also a responsibility for himself. 14. Lifelong learners Smart people will always walk on the road of learning and have strong The curiosity and thirst for knowledge, possessing will not be complacent and stop moving, but constantly improve and improve yourself, and gain an inch by inch of joy. 15. A smart person who is good at grasping the key points is efficient and does not use tactics. Diligently concealing strategic laziness, being good at grasping the essence, arbitrarily picking up a lot of weights. 16. A well-educated and intelligent person will never let his emotions get out of control at any time and speak irreparable words. The most hateful thing in the world is nothing like an angry face, and the worst thing in the world is to show an angry face to others. 17. Having a childlike heart is a thing to be proud of. Smart people are not naive. But kind, who have gone through the dark, still choose to be kind and tolerant like a child, and then make themselves better. 18. A smart person who knows how to enjoy life will not contradict the relationship between ends and means, will not indulge in material desires, understand the struggle Everything is done for happiness and inner peace. When I was in school, people asked me what I would do when I grew up. I wrote “happiness”. They told me that I understood the subject wrong, and I told them that they understood life incorrectly. 19. Seeing through the essence of interpersonal relationship is value exchange. Smart people have long understood that the network is not who you know, but who knows you, not who you add to WeChat, but who likes your circle of friends, only equivalent Exchange can have equivalent friendship. They will not waste time on meaningless social interactions, but concentrate on cultivating their expertise, improving their abilities, possessing real talents and learning, and becoming stronger steadily. 20. Learn to take care of one’s own house. One person’s house is the manifestation of a person’s soul. A person who can live in the worst house will also clean up the house. Cleaning the house is just a small matter in daily life, but it can reflect a person’s life attitude and mental outlook. Successful people with a strong sense of happiness often live in a clean and tidy home environment; and unfortunate people usually live in a mess. Environment. 21. Never give up. Smart people are not without difficulties and setbacks in their lives, but no matter how many times they have gone through, they can stand up again with scars every time! A body capable of rising the moon must have carried countless sunsets! I am Jingjing, a kind and cool person who wants to tell you the truth (On Zhihu, there are more than 20k approvals and 10k collections. 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8 months ago

A college classmate of mine unfortunately only met her when she was in her senior year, and only spent a few months with her, but she learned a lot of things rationally, thinking, not conforming to the crowd, and will not do things that she doesn’t like specifically in order to integrate into the group. I don’t please, I don’t please, and I cherish my time very much. I feel that spending time on ineffective social interactions is disrespectful to my life, so I often go alone. Her EQ is not particularly high in my opinion, but she never talks about other people’s gossip, and she doesn’t circumvent her words. When others ask for her opinion, she will give her own opinion directly and clearly, if others don’t ask. She, she never made comments. She would also seek my help, but she would not feel that I should help her just because we are both abroad and we know each other. We were working as exchange students abroad together. She was frozen because of a bank account problem. After I borrowed a sum of money from her, she sincerely thanked me, clarified the repayment date, and said to me, “I am good at Programming and repairing computers. If you have problems in this area, you can come to me. If you want to learn skiing, you can also ask me to join me. Although I am not good enough in skiing, I can teach you how to get started.” This thank you very much. Pragmatic and sincere, I feel very warm after listening. 2. Super independent. She has a pair of very unreliable parents, so the family’s financial situation is quite turbulent. Maybe this year is very rich, but next year there will be no money left. So she has never relied on her family because of her student status. She has been very conscious of saving money since elementary school. The pocket money given by her parents and the new year’s money given by relatives has never been squandered. She has excellent grades during college and won many scholarships. , The senior citizen sent abroad as an exchange student, and saved a sum of money, which may have saved a total of hundreds of thousands now. She later applied for a Finnish postgraduate according to her financial conditions (the Finnish education is free of tuition fees, and living expenses are enough). Did not let parents take any savings. But she is not the owner of her laurels. She knows that hundreds of thousands are not enough for her to have a carefree life in Finland, so she submitted a wide range of resumes, and then found a local IT related job without knowing Finnish. Now you can completely leave the family and raise yourself. 3. Perseverance. Once we two encountered a difficult problem while working on a team with a German girl. We discussed it for two hours and failed. I was exhausted. The German girl suggested to ask the professor for a solution. Yes, she refused. She said that since we still have time, why should we give up easily? The German girl thought she was too stubborn and left. I spent the whole afternoon with her for an afternoon. I found her super perseverance. , I’m not tired at all. I subdivide the problems one by one into small ones, and then solve them one by one. If they don’t, just go directly to Google. Some of the answers are written in German or French. We don’t understand them at all, but she is stunned. All these answers were translated into English, without letting go of any feasible solutions. In the end, we, to be precise, she completed the problem. She felt very happy and told me: You see, it is not completely insoluble. I think the matter of perseverance may also have something to do with the body. She is very good physically, so she can concentrate so much. 4. Dare to pursue, super dare! ! In fact, there are many suitors around her (both boys and girls), but she told me that she once liked an unmarried male teacher in our computer department in a domestic university. The male teacher looked like a technical nerd, who was totally unconcerned about falling in love and getting married. She is very interested, and people around her are very surprised by her mate selection taste. They think this teacher is not high, not handsome, is not a professor, and does not see any personality charm, but she just likes it. Since she is unmarried, Single, she will give it a try. She expressed her good feelings to the teacher twice, and she officially asked the teacher to go out to watch a movie, and did not hide her intentions, but the teacher refused in the end. She saw that the teacher was not affectionate to her, just ordinary The teacher-student relationship, and then she gave up, but she was too entangled, and she couldn’t see that it was too sad, which was an understatement. To sum up, I think she is one of the few people I have ever met who can give herself enough sense of security. She doesn’t rely on others, so she doesn’t have to please, she is happy and relaxed. And he has his own judgment on everything, and he doesn’t care much about what others think of himself, so he’s not tired to live. Finally, although I have failed many times, I still remain confident and willing to keep trying. I subconsciously believe that I can get what I want, and I am willing to work hard for it. I don’t overestimate or underestimate my abilities. A person who is steadfast and dedicated to life, one of my mentors said after meeting her that although she still can’t see it now, she will definitely become a great person when she enters the society in the future. Maybe this is smart, I think

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