Girls tend to overestimate how much men like their appearance, just as men tend to underestimate their attraction to girls’ inner beauty! There is a saying: “Starting from appearance, falling into talent, and being loyal to character.” The beginning of all romantic and perfect love is inseparable from “love at first sight.” Indeed, in the early stages of sexual attraction, everyone “judges people by their appearance.” But this appearance does not require you to be a beauty, but that you become the “Xi Tzu” in his eyes. So this is what many girls will find: Why this girl is obviously inferior to me in all aspects, but she finally finds such a good male ticket or husband? This is not because she has a better life than you, but she knows better than you how to present herself in front of men. I read a piece of news before. A lady went to a date with a brand name during a blind date. She thought that this way a man would treat her like a goddess. What she didn’t expect was that the man blacked her out after returning home. Because in that man’s opinion: I can’t afford such a “goddess”! The reason lies in the fact that most girls understand the needs of men in choosing a spouse and the needs of men in the actual process of choosing a spouse. In fact, there is a big discrepancy. 2. Judging from the cases I have observed in the past, those women who are spoiled by men are actually not the best-looking or the best ones considered by the general public. The important reason is that more and more men are beginning to realize that being comfortable in the relationship between the sexes is actually the most important thing. Therefore, many people start to put the “feeling” of getting along with girls in a very important position. The so-called feeling of getting along is: as a woman, what are the “hidden values” you can provide to the other party? If there is only external attraction, then your attraction to the opposite sex is probably only fleeting. Because in the end you are not so special and distinctive in his eyes. So, this is the reason why many men start to be indifferent immediately after being with girls. It’s not because every one you meet is “scum”, but if you only rely on the attraction of your appearance, then in the end your own attraction will only become more and more limited, so that the other party is unwilling to take the initiative on you. Additional investment. 3. So, besides appearance, what other characteristics are important to the attractiveness of girls in the eyes of men? 1. Girls’ smiles; people often say: “Girls who love to laugh, are not too bad luck.” You must know that in this world, besides disease, there is smile. And the infection of a smile is positive and can move people. Therefore, I often hear male students say to me: “I can’t forget the smile she left in my memory.” And a lot of emotions go to the back afterwards, mostly because the laugh from the beginning has become Later complaints. 2. The self-confident temperament of girls; whether a girl is self-confident, in fact, men are particularly sensitive to this. So this is that scumbags always like to find girls who are not confident or lack love, because they feel that such girls do not need to spend too much time and energy to obedient to them, and will not leave them. But scumbags will never really fall in love with them. Because girls who are not confident enough are not challenging enough for them, and men are always sensitive to whether a girl is truly confident. On the contrary, the reason why those confident girls can attract men’s sincere likes is very important because men feel that they have their own selves and principles, and will not become a Virgin or a Virgin for a man casually. The beggar in love. 3. The gentle voice of girls; people often say that women are like water. And the voice of a girl can best reflect the soft characteristics of a girl. Generally speaking, a loud voice will make men feel more artificial. If the voice is too loud or noisy, it will unconsciously remind people of a charter wife. If the voice is too small, it will give people a feeling of lack of confidence and confidence. Therefore, for girls, different people will have different timbres. But the prerequisite is the overall feeling of your voice, whether it is enough to move people, and give people a feeling of being comfortable and wanting to be close. This is also a very important part of feminine charm. 4. The personality and character of girls. Many girls are often jealous: “Why can’t your male ticket forget your ex-girlfriend.” Remember, what a man can’t forget is not only the beauty of a girl, but also the memories and feelings that the girl left to him. , That belongs to her unique personality and attractiveness. This is what really makes many men think that they are attractive and the source of thoughts. And this personality and character, here is also a simple explanatory for everyone; first, the character is best to be approachable and easy to get along with. In fact, most men don’t like to have long-term relationships with women who have their own “princess disease”. Even if he can bear it for a while, he will still choose to leave because of exhaustion over time. Second, you don’t need to become someone else, you just need to keep yourself. Many girls will deliberately become less like themselves in order to please a man. But as everyone knows, when you do this for him, it will only be exchanged for him to treat you more contemptuously. Because your “pleasure” behavior has betrayed yourself. Third, a good personality makes oneself comfortable, but also makes the other person comfortable. And this involves the “Emotional Intelligence” level. As long as the girl who will make a man willing to be with her for a long time, the emotional intelligence will not be too low. Because they know how to grasp the direction and scale of a relationship. And in this process, I still have the ability to maintain myself.