On the evening of April 7, Foshan No. 1 Middle School (hereinafter referred to as “Foshan No. 1 Middle School”), a 2014 graduate of Duan Mou, made a real-name report on social media that she was molested by a high school math teacher Xu during the freshman winter vacation (early 2015) , Xu once hugged him, forcibly lifted his clothes, and stroked his tail bones.
Wei, who claims to be a 2014 graduate of Foshan No. 1 Middle School, also reported Xu’s sexual harassment by his real name, saying that he was touched by Xu’s thigh and was sexually harassed in the elevator in the third year of high school. Both Duan and Wei stated that they had already made a real-name report to Foshan No. 1 Middle School at the beginning of this year.
At present, the police have been involved in the investigation, and everything is subject to police investigation.
If this screenshot of the WeChat chat is true, then from the sentence “I am already an old man, save some face”, it can be inferred that the teacher sexually molested female students. More than one student jointly reported this teacher Xu, indicating that he has sexually harassed female students quite often. It has been so long and it is difficult to obtain evidence, but the voice of these students may protect some female students who may be harassed by Xu. Teachers have a natural advantage in campus life. In campus life, the relationship between teachers and students is unequal. This inequality obviously exists in two aspects: First, the power and authority given to teachers by the education system. Second, the remnants of pre-modern patriarchal teacher-student ethics. The notion of “a teacher for a day and a father for life” is still widely recognized. The notion that teachers are just a profession of “preaching and teaching karma to solve puzzles” has not been formed. This gives teachers the natural lawfulness to project their professional power into students’ daily lives. Sex, so the teacher-student relationship is not only unequal in the classroom, but also cannot be equal outside the classroom. In addition to explicit inequality, the gap in experience and knowledge also brings inequality in discourse. Teachers and students are often not a dialogue between two subjects like the slogan of “Equality of Teachers and Students”. Teachers can often gain the favor of students by virtue of their richer life experience and knowledge. This kind of feeling is not mature. The post of teacher has been given better moral standards and ethics. As a teacher, you should continuously improve your moral and cultural qualities. A person who is a teacher should behave properly, lead by example, and cultivate morality and cultivate people. First of all, use higher standards to require yourself, strict requirements for yourself, at least basic professional ethics. At the same time, the assessment mechanism of teacher ethics and style should not be a mere formality, it should be implemented in practice, and the education and training of teachers should be strengthened. At the same time, it can effectively restrain and punish behaviors such as sexual harassment of students, and use rules and regulations to restrain teachers. Teachers should have the professional ethics of teachers, and people should learn to restrain their desires. If they do things purely according to their preferences, the society will be chaotic. As a teacher, you should have your own professional and moral accomplishments, and don’t use your special status to lure or harass students. I am a high school teacher myself, and I have only graduated from work for two years, and I am considered a young teacher. From my own point of view, teachers should take the initiative to keep their distance from students. Whether it is a middle school or a university, the work of teachers is inherently special. During the student period, the balance of the teacher-student relationship is tilted towards teachers. Teachers use their own job characteristics and advantages to harass students, which is extremely bad behavior. As a student, you should raise your awareness of prevention, and you must be brave enough to report and expose the incident that the teacher intends to invade yourself, and seek help from parents and the school in a timely manner. Students generally have a natural sense of awe for teachers, just like a girl recalled in the news. Sometimes, for the teacher’s similar behavior of sexual assault on oneself, it is not sure whether the other party is intentional or unintentional, which makes one feel very troubled. If it is only one or two times, it may be unintentional. But if it does so often, it must be deliberate. Students must learn to be brave enough to refuse and ask their parents for help, not to digest them silently. It is terrible for adolescent children to encounter this kind of thing. Some students with introverted personality may always bury it in their hearts, causing a psychological shadow, which is very detrimental to their own development. Current education should also educate children on sex from an early age, so that children know what behaviors are not allowed. Let children protect themselves in time when they may be violated. It also makes the children realize that if they are violated, they must bravely refuse and speak up decisively to protect themselves and at the same time make the teachers who have corrupted their morals be punished.