a while. No matter how beautiful you are in love, you will find that after three months you will be completely immune to her beauty, and seeing her is no different from seeing other people. At the same time, your dissatisfaction with her gradually decreases, and your dissatisfaction with her gradually increases. Why do boys prefer good characters? Because a good personality is a long-term benefit, and good looks are actually a short-term benefit, you will soon be immune and lose your feelings. Little temperament, less pretentious, can understand boys, such girls are more competitive and smarter girls. Second, boys prefer girls with good personalities because she can provide good and stable long-term emotional value. Don’t think that emotional value is not important. Emotional value is sometimes more important than material value. Boys like attractive girls. As long as you are attractive to him, everything is easy to say. You have to make the other person curious about you. Curiosity is the beginning of the relationship. One of the most important is perceptual curiosity, that is, when some things make us feel surprised or some things do not conform to our perceptions, which I don’t know, we will have this kind of curiosity. What is the performance? When this man feels as if you are talking to him, it feels like there is a story in you. Then he scratched his heart and wanted to know what the story was, and then he would ask you. Then I asked you, you told him a little bit like you squeezed toothpaste, and you squeezed people forward step by step. If we want a man to be interested in you and explore you, then we must let him have this perceptual curiosity. Only this perceptual curiosity can allow him to explore you. And in this process of his exploration of you, you need to fully show your advantages after becoming his girlfriend. The advantage is that you will generate positive values, positive emotions and positive feelings. In other words, after you become his girlfriend, it will make him feel very annoying. This is not called advantage, this is called disadvantage, right? Now what I want you to show is that this man will feel, wow, if this person is to be my girlfriend: I can be so comfortable; I can eat such delicious things; I don’t need to be myself. I bought clothes; I don’t need to wash clothes myself; I can take it out to show off to everyone; and so on. But you must make sure that what you show makes this man feel positive, not a little negative. Many girls are attracted to a man after they like him. In fact, love is a two-body movement that attracts each other. If you get closer, he will get farther away, and if you get farther away, he will get closer. Third, there are always people who think that girls should be spoiled in heaven, and boys should be waiters in heaven. This idea of inequality caused marriages to break down extremely quickly. Some boys, you must not think that you are petting your wife. In fact, you are harming your wife and your marriage. Can you distinguish “pet” and “forbearance”? Petting someone is out of inner love and affection, and take the initiative to do something to make the other person happy, pampering with principles and a bottom line; while forbearance is forced by helplessness, reluctant to make concessions, the person who forbears himself will Very uncomfortable. You did spoil your girlfriend at first, such as proposing to give her a big surprise, but slowly, you are more to tolerate in order to maintain the harmony of the marriage, no matter right or wrong, what the other party says is what it says. Unprincipled concessions not only make yourself tortured, but also make the other party less and less clear about your bottom line, and less and less understanding of you. The key to emotional happiness is to have a good temper and a good personality. It is not enough. It needs mutual understanding and dedication.