I have no special skills. I have been studying since I was a child. After I entered high school, my grades deteriorated. The university is a second-rate social work major. I don’t like this major. I have been instilled with the poisonous chicken soup for postgraduate entrance examinations. Have a graduate degree. I don’t have a postgraduate entrance examination and I have no direction. I don’t know what to do. Should I just graduate and look for a job?
The link posted at the end of the article, I hope it will be useful to you. I am a girl and I am also a Buddhist. To say that it is awkward is that I don’t want to be motivated, but I don’t want to be lazy. I can only say that I have no big ambitions. I went to an ordinary second school, an ordinary graduate student, and it has been nearly three years since I graduated so far. I don’t say that academic qualifications are not important, just talk about my life briefly, just for reference. In the suburbs and rural areas of my third- and fourth-tier cities, my ancestors have never seen scholars. They are all peasants facing the loess and back to the sky. To be precise, there are no undergraduates in the village who are serious before me. So at that time, when I was taking college entrance examinations, my family only thought it was enough to take a second course. When I think about famous universities, I think it is a dream. When I was young and ignorant, I even boasted that I wanted to study at Tsinghua University and Peking University. The bigger I knew, the more I knew it was a dream. In the matter of studying, I was really lucky. Although the tests were average, I went in the rear of the car every time, so I didn’t repeat the grade, did not repeat the study, and did not WWII. For example, when I was admitted to college, my teacher was worried that I would not be able to pass the exam, because my high school physics English was terrible, but I was very good at math. I have been a representative of math class for three years in high school, and my head teacher is a math teacher, so my head teacher followed The teachers of those two subjects greeted me, focusing on me. To be honest, the teachers in my school at that time were really ethical, and they didn’t say that giving gifts was the only way to take care. Most teachers really wanted to teach a bunch of promising students, and they worked hard if they could. Give it a hand. After all, I was not the one being cared for, I just needed to be saved because of the partial discipline. Later, my mother asked me to take the postgraduate entrance examination. Oh, the engineering major I studied in university is not what I want to study. My mother forced me to choose. I actually want to study finance, but my mother thinks it is finance. Unstable, let me study electronics. Then I discussed with my mother, 6 volunteers, equally divided, 3 for her and 3 for me. In the year of the postgraduate entrance examination, I mobilized my roommates to take the exam together. Because I was a social animal, it was really lonely to take the exam by myself, so I wanted someone to accompany me (a single dog in four years of university), but no one wanted to take the exam. , I can only fight alone. But I didn’t have any intent to fight, because I was driving the duck to the shelves, and my mother asked me to try it. Because of this, I was not very concerned about the postgraduate entrance examination, and I was very Buddhist. At the time, I thought, my mother said, try it, it’s okay if I don’t pass the exam, and my roommates don’t take the exam. If there is no comparison, there will be no harm. When a bunch of people gave up halfway because they couldn’t stand the pressure or other things, I stood still, what should I do, and the general belief was: no matter what, I have to die on the battlefield. I just give up if I don’t take the exam. This is not my style. I have to go through the process no matter what. In this way, I crossed the postgraduate entrance examination line again at the end of the trailer, and transferred to a general postgraduate entrance examination school. Although the school for the postgraduate entrance examination is not a prestigious school, I still learned a lot, really much more than the university. What I said learned a lot does not refer to book knowledge, but other aspects. First of all, in terms of teaching, in the past, ordinary undergraduate schools did not generate income, and there were few large-scale school activities. It may be because the undergraduate school is in a small third- and fourth-tier city, which leads to the integration of international standards or too few national activities. . Graduate school is a relatively distinctive school, which organizes and participates in many international or national activities throughout the year. The engineering department of the school is pretty good, and the teachers are also under scientific research pressure. They apply for many scientific research projects every year, so there will be many scientific experiments to go to various places. So when I was in graduate school, I went to Tibet, Beijing, Sichuan, Wuhan and other places along with scientific experiments. It was because the girls were too biased and the places were not easy to arrange and it was dangerous. In Xinjiang and Ali, it would be more suitable for boys to go there. I can be regarded as enjoying the feeling of traveling for free at public expense, and I have also seen the scenery of various places. Second, after studying in graduate school, I discovered that graduate doctoral students are actually not rare, even if they are Ph.Ds from overseas returnees. After all, there are all kinds of seniors and sisters around you, whether they are doctors or graduate students, you see them every day, you think it is very rare? ? ? In other words, the horizons have broadened a lot, including the circle of friends, have improved a lot, and most of them started with college students. These are all kind of connections. And this kind of friendship between classmates and teachers is far more solid and reliable than the one you make after work. And with the expansion of the teacher’s door, your younger brothers and younger sisters are also constantly growing. This kind of student led by a tutor, even if you graduate, whether it is the former senior brothers and sisters or the future junior brothers and sisters, is regarded as a kind of hidden network resource to a certain extent. Isn’t it amazing? ? ? Third, work. If I don’t train a software technology after college, then as a girl, I may not be able to take this major to a large extent. I may do ordinary sales, clerical or other jobs with no technical content. Rather than saying, because of graduate school, when looking for a job, the starting price of salary is much higher than that of undergraduate, and because they are engineering graduates, they are basically technical posts, and even many of them are in public institutions and state-owned enterprises. Although graduate students already feel like a bad street, they still have great advantages in the examination of public institutions and state-owned enterprises. There is a big difference between male students and female students in graduate school. After all, I found that I have a lot of male college students, and now they mix very well, but there are really few female college students who mix well. In many cases, boys are more capable than highly educated. Ability boys, if they are not in public institutions, the educational background is not a big problem. But in China, if you really want to climb very high, academic qualifications are indispensable, because there are very few high-level qualifications that can’t pass the test. I’m talking about most situations, don’t tell me an example, just talk about Jack Ma. People may not be well-educated, but maybe they have high EQ and broad vision. Some people may have average IQ, but have outstanding abilities in other areas. A true leader is not doing something awesome, but knowing people and making good use of them. As far as I am concerned, I can still study one, especially since undergraduate universities are already ordinary, it feels very helpful to take a postgraduate entrance examination. And because of the epidemic, the enrollment of postgraduates has been expanding in the past two years. It is really not difficult for postgraduate entrance examinations, especially postgraduates. Some majors only test 2 subjects, not math, politics, and some good 985/211 schools are not satisfied. Because the information is not equal, we don’t know the actual enrollment situation of each major in each school, which makes it difficult to find out. Therefore, it is very important to have resource information! I was able to adjust successfully that year. At that time, the school made a mistake in the professional courses, and the adjustment was too difficult. There were not many people who even got on the national line as the first choice. Then we basically accepted the batch of people who were willing to adjust, and I was blind. The cat ran into a dead mouse. ps: Our school will never dare to make trouble in professional courses anymore! 【Extended Enrollment for Postgraduate Entrance Exam for 2021】Only 2 subjects are required, and all books can be registered. Of course, there are a lot of situations where you have a double graduation certificate. During your three years of graduate school, your college classmates may have been “successful”. For example, the family business is very good; or the salary is tens of thousands, which is far from you. The salary you can achieve after graduating from graduate school, even if you are a leader, and you are still a single dog with nothing. But I think that when you feel that your other abilities are not very strong, it is better to calm down and study hard only when reading is okay. It’s not an old saying, when we’re confused and don’t know what to do, just do what we should do right now. In the end, I think it’s not bad for people to get a postgraduate entrance examination. To be honest, during the six months I was preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination, it was really the time when I worked hardest in the whole university, and the experience of the postgraduate entrance examination is also worth remembering. There may be many people who worry that if they go to the exam, they will fail in the end, wasting time, and delaying finding a job or something. How do you say this, maybe some jobs are really rare, and take a long time to prepare, and then internship or something. So when it’s clear that you can find a good job, it’s okay not to go to graduate school. But if you evaluate your abilities and think that the job you might find is just so-so, it’s better to try the postgraduate entrance examination. If you pass the entrance examination, it can be considered as an improvement. If you don’t pass the entrance examination, just look for a job in the spring. Anyway, it’s the same job, and the difference between finding late and finding early is not much different, so why not try to work hard. Regarding the experience of studying, many times there is really only one chance, and if you miss it, there will be no chance. Even if I read it later, it is no longer what I felt when I was young. If conditions permit, and people who are more confused, I think they can go for the exam. To a certain extent, the postgraduate entrance exam also tests your willpower, your ability to withstand pressure, your mind and so on. It is different from the college entrance examination to a large extent, and it is good if you have the opportunity to experience it. For some students who have already graduated and worked, they plan to study for another postgraduate, but they don’t have much time on weekdays and don’t know much about on-the-job postgraduate entrance examinations. In fact, you can consult professional institutions about on-the-job postgraduate entrance examinations. It’s been a good year since I graduated, and I have long since paid no attention to the current postgraduate entrance examination policy. These professional institutions must know a lot about the situation in each school. They must also know the situation of each school. If you ask a few words, they will not charge money. Under consultation, you can avoid detours. 【Extended Enrollment for Postgraduate Entrance Exam for 2021】Only 2 subjects are required, and all books can be registered. Some people are curious about what I am doing now. I am working in a new first-tier city, and I am ready to settle down and plan to buy a small house of my own in 2020. I will pay half of the down payment (saving hard), my parents pay half, and I will repay myself. Also, my parents said I was married. The annual salary is now hundreds of thousands. I know that Li is not high, but I am an ordinary girl. I am not a person who spends money, and I am not pursuing high enjoyment and high consumption. The job is stable and the pressure is not great. After all, I don’t have too high aspirations. I think it’s almost enough. Be content with Changle. Overall, I think I have a very comfortable and leisurely life, without too many worries. If there is, it is probably the problem of being urged to marry by my mother, but the emperor is far away from the sky, hahaha, her hands are not that long. I told my mother that fate is destined to come, and I will not be a girl alone. When my mother thought about it, that’s right, girls, no matter how bad they are, someone will ask for it. When it comes to the time, she will directly order me to die, and I will be arrested for marriage. I want to say that what I call my Buddhism department is not that I don’t really work hard at all, but that if I work hard, I can have a better life, and I will work hard. After working hard, I didn’t succeed in the end. I was not overly demanding, not stubborn, and adjusted my mentality to start a new road again, and I would not go to the end of the road. And thank you very much for your blessings. I didn’t expect that it would suddenly become popular. I received a lot of love. Some were flattered and very happy. Really, the mood has been beautiful these days. In fact, many of us are happy. We need to see what we have and be content and be grateful for the current happiness in order to develop more and better. Don’t live in the life of admiring others forever. You can be envious and sigh, but it is more to see the reality and grasp what you can get. All unrealistic desires will only make us miserable. The lofty ideals and desires in the past brought motivation and motivation, but now in this impetuous society, more people are tired and disturbed by the “lofty” ideals, which have become a burden that causes us to worry and seeds of unhappiness. . We can have dreams, but this dream must be the existence that makes us happy. Desires that are not happy will be called desires. Desire brings more pain, so when you are suffering because of this desire, you must learn to let go and let go. I can’t stay in history, can’t help others, all I can do is to devote my whole life to making myself happy and happy.