The Foshan store responded to the “17 yuan to eat Haidilao” incident: low consumption behavior only happens occasionally in their store. The guests are free to consume how much they want and how much they are willing to consume. As long as the guests come in, they will receive them. “Even if you are alone and only order the clear water pot and one or two favorite dishes, we will serve them normally and will not treat them differently.”
Some netizens imitated the post of 17 yuan eating Haidilao, went to Xiamen Haidilao to order a clear water pot, only ordered a small amount of dishes, only small fruits and gifts, and felt that the waiter did not help with the children after the meal, and the attitude was not positive. What do you think?
I can tell you that there is such a group of people who like to take advantage of others, but they don’t think it is taking advantage of others. They only think that they are winning through cleverness. This group of people has a set of self-evident logic. They can comfort their hearts and make them feel that everything they get is because of their smart efforts, so they never feel guilty or thankful for those who forgive themselves. Let me give you an example. I have an aunt, who is my uncle’s wife. She just likes to use quarrels to solve problems, as long as the people in the village have almost quarreled with her. For example, when our family divided the land, she quarreled loudly, and then we must divide more. In fact, that little piece of land is really not worth a lot of money. I forget it most of the time. This is regarded as my tolerance for her, and the land is given to her. The results of it? She felt that all of this was achieved by herself, and seemed to show how smart she was. She would not think that I was tolerating her. Another example is this year, when there is an unpleasant thing during the Chinese New Year. Her son, my cousin, gave our grandma a red envelope. I don’t think the red envelope is big, at most one or two hundred yuan. But when my aunt saw it, she stopped my cousin. The original saying was, “Your brother can make money so much, what kind of red envelopes do I need to pack?” I was shocked because I think the red envelopes are not just a lot of money? I don’t care how much they give, but can you say this for one or two hundred red envelopes? The key point is that she thinks this is reasonable. Another example is that my grandmother broke her leg before. As a daughter-in-law, she can’t pay for the operation fee. She thinks she shouldn’t pay for it. You will make money only if you make money. My family has no money anyway. When I look back and mention it again, she won’t feel a little guilty about these things. Returning to this question, the protagonist in the title spends 17 yuan to eat Haidilao. This kind of thing is obviously unreasonable in the eyes of ordinary people. Of course, you can say that I have complied with the Haidilao rules, but in fact, in life, the rules are only the minimum requirements for people. Many rules are really more forgiving and more convenient for everyone. There is really no need to block it. Airtight. For example, when a foreign company first entered the Chinese market, the after-sales policy was actually very tolerant, but too many people later exploited loopholes in the rules, which caused the company to be forced to modify the after-sales policy. (I don’t mention the name of this company, but most people should actually know it.) This kind of people who like to take advantage actually have something in common, that is, their logic is completely closed-loop and self-consistent. In the eyes of ordinary people, things that feel shameful, they often feel that they are all striving for. Sadly speaking, we often hope that these people should at least condemn themselves in terms of their conscience, but in fact their conscience is very comfortable, and those who really have a conscience are inexplicably disadvantaged. ——Add a sentence about capitalists. First of all, I personally definitely don’t like capitalists. I don’t usually go to Haidilao very much, because I really don’t think Haidilao has any special attraction to me. The taste is average and serves this kind of thing. I don’t like being served by others. . But capitalists’ nausea is one thing. I’m just discussing this incident. This consumer is not aimed at capitalists. She is more accustomed to getting into the loopholes in the rules and still complacent, and even blames the grass-roots waiters this time. And I just want to pass this matter, expansively expound this kind of personality that takes advantage of it, but fails to recognize the event itself. I don’t wash Haidilao’s past bad deeds, and I don’t recommend that you go to Haidilao for dinner. I think Haidilao’s reputation is already greater than its own value.