The older you are, the less you believe in love? Many of my friends around me are confused: I start dating with TA in the name of love, meet every weekend, chat regularly, and say good night to each other… After contacting for three or two weeks, I understand everything that I should know, but that’s it. There is no feeling of heartbeat yet. Love seems to start from the heartbeat at a certain moment, but many people say that they don’t know what it feels like to be “heartbeat”. What is the feeling of heartbeat? Let’s visualize your heartbeat first. The following phenomena indicate that you may be experiencing heartbeat! There are endless topics to talk about together. I want to share any boring little things with each other. Will think of each other from time to time. There will be physical movements together, and will not repel each other to approach oneself. As long as you think of the other person, there is a feeling of strength in your mind. Will think of the very distant future, doing a lot of things with each other. Will inadvertently reveal expressions and actions of love. Occasionally, I don’t act like myself and say things I can’t say. When seeing each other, the eyes are full of love and appreciation. No matter how busy, I want to get back to the other party’s information in seconds. Regardless of whether you realize that you are already on the path of “heartbeat”, your body will be very honest. When you like someone, the rise of norepinephrine will cause blood pressure, heart rate and blood sugar levels to increase, making people feel heartbeat; Phenylethylamine will make your heart beat faster, your palms will sweat, and your complexion will turn red. The sensation commonly known as “calling” makes people extremely excited and tireless; the large amount of dopamine secretion greatly improves your happiness and pleasure; at the same time, under the stimulation of hormones, you will want to have more body with each other Close contact. And this series of chemical reactions is usually called love by us. The above mental and physical states can be used to determine whether you are falling in love. Can love be cultivated? First of all, to clarify that most “heartbeats” are not generated at the first time, and “love at first sight” is only a small probability event. The whole process of two people from being unfamiliar to acquaintance and then to deep friendship may produce or make attraction disappear to different degrees. Research on the theory of interpersonal attraction shows (McCroskey & McCain, 1974) that interpersonal attraction mainly includes three different levels of attraction: physiological, social and task. Physiology, that is, appearance attraction is almost instantaneous, and other aspects of attraction will not be so obvious. You can increase the attraction by adjusting the mode of interaction with the other party and strengthening the positive, positive and competent performance. Love at first sight VS Love at first sight Love at first sight or love at first sight is just a form of love. Different people have different emotional perception systems. Some people are relatively easier to fall in love and can often experience the feeling of “heartbeat”; while some people need to get along and observe for a long time to confirm that the other person is trustworthy, sincere, and honest. Only by being close can you gradually have that kind of “special” feeling, no matter how good-looking or attractive the other person looks to others. Therefore, love can be discovered slowly as you get along. If the other party is not your first Mr/Mrs. Right, under the condition of not repelling the other party to continue to understand, strengthen the depth and dimension of getting along with each other, and observe whether the other party’s deep characteristics have something you admire and admire. As the understanding deepens, your psychological and physical responses will naturally give answers. Of course, the feeling of heartbeat cannot be forced. It is feelings rather than feelings that can be cultivated. Even if two people who appreciate each other, trust each other, and have complementary abilities, even if there is no sparkling love, it will not prevent having a love for each other.