Official response:
In response to the suicide of a 17-year-old girl in Yingjing County, Sichuan Province due to a bride price dispute, on April 21, a staff member of the Yingjing County Government Office told a reporter from the Beijing News that there was indeed a woman in Yingjing County after taking pesticides due to the bride price dispute. Death, the girl’s body will be cremated tonight.

On April 20, a netizen posted a message saying, “A 17-year-old girl was’sold to the man’ by her family with a gift of more than 200,000 yuan. After that, the woman returned to her natal family and the man asked for the gift to be returned, but the girl’s family refused. He was beaten and then drank the pesticide and died.”

In response to the aforementioned 17-year-old girl committing suicide due to the bride price dispute, on April 21, the staff of the Yingjing County Government Office told the Beijing News that a woman in Yingjing County did die after taking pesticides due to the bride price dispute. The girl’s remains Will be cremated tonight.

The above-mentioned staff of the Yingjing County Government Office said that on the 21st, they received a report from the Yingjing County Public Security Bureau on the matter.

The report showed that a Yi girl from a certain township and village in Yingjing County was born in May 2004. In December 2018, she married a man in Liangshan Yi Autonomous Prefecture in Sichuan Province in accordance with Yi ethnic customs. The man was 21 years old this year. year old. A few days ago, the man and the woman were discussing about the issue of betrothal gifts and retiring. The man requested that if he retires, he would need to return 150,000 yuan as a gift, and the two families did not agree on this matter.

On April 9, the Yi girl found the herbicide used for weeding in the bathroom and took it. Her husband sent her to a hospital in Yingjing County for treatment. After gastric lavage was performed on the girl in the hospital, the man believed that her condition was not serious, and then took her home to recuperate. During the recuperation period, on the evening of April 19, the girl relapsed and the man sent her to hospitals in Ya’an and Chengdu for treatment.

During treatment in a hospital in Chengdu, the man thought that her chances of survival were relatively low, so he took the girl home, and then took the woman according to the native medicine, but it didn’t work. The girl died at 21:09 on April 19. On the evening of April 21, the girl’s body will be cremated. At present, the man’s family has rushed to Yingjing County, Sichuan.

In response to the online transmission of the girl being sold to the man by her mother for 200,000 yuan, the staff of the Yingjing County Government Office stated that they had not received the news. The Public Security Bureau reported that the woman had only one marriage experience.

On April 21, Ms. Song, a staff member of the Women’s Federation of Yingjing County, told the Beijing News that the Women’s Federation has now communicated with the local public security organs on this matter, and the public security has intervened in the investigation of the matter. Afterwards, actively assisted and rescued the Yi girls’ family.

Event background

April 20th, Ya’an, Sichuan. Netizens broke the news that a 17-year-old girl in Yingjing County committed suicide by drinking medicine after being sold twice by her mother with 200,000 prizes.

The netizen claimed that the girl fled back to her natal family twice after getting married. The second time the man asked the woman’s family to pay 500,000 yuan, the girl’s family was unwilling to refund the money and beat the girl with a stick many times.

The reporter called the staff of the Propaganda Department of the Yingjing County Party Committee about this matter, saying that the girl had died and the police were investigating the specific cause.

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helpmekim
6 months ago

In fact, in many places, people get married before they reach the legal age. The more remote, the poorer the place. The lower the educational background, the more this happens. How to treat early marriage? Zhang San’s video 1219 broadcasts what I know. There are several grandmothers in their thirties. We are still in high school and they are already married and have children. Although this kind of thing sounds shocking, it is common. The banquet is held before the age, and the certificate will be obtained when the age is reached. Some even have children who can’t get the certificate. At the age of teenagers, they are still a child, but they have to be parents. What can their children be educated? There is a high probability that, just like parents, they will get married and have children when they are teenagers, have not read many books, and rely on physical strength to support the family. Life is just to live. Before my family had relatives, my daughter stopped studying after high school, and then my parents were going to find someone to marry her, and finally we were all sons and daughters who worked for her parents. There is also a relative whose family conditions are also very bad. Both of them are working on construction sites, and their income is not much. They have four daughters and still want to have a son. I think they are too feudal in thinking. Reading is too little. There are so many births that can’t give them a good environment for growth and education. There are still many people in our society, and many places are still very poor. I don’t know how to solve this problem. Perhaps it is useful to improve the level of cultural knowledge in rural mountainous areas.

heloword
6 months ago

Let me explain in advance that I am not fighting women’s rights. No matter how I look at this incident, I feel that the girl’s family does not pay much attention to the girl, and the daughter and money are tied together, so that the girl eventually loses confidence and trust in the family, and finally chooses to escape the world. A few days ago, the man and the woman were discussing about the issue of betrothal gifts and retiring. The man requested that if he retires, he would need to return 150,000 yuan as a gift, and the two families did not agree on this matter. It may be due to the level of education, or it may be due to the status of women in this ethnic group. What is marriage? That is a life-long event for a person, which determines whether or not he will be happy in the second half of his life, but fortunately whether he is happy. If a family really regards their daughter as the jewel in the palm of their hands, they must try their best to let the daughter end the marriage and get rid of the entanglement of the man when encountering this kind of marriage dispute. The age of the girl is also worthy of attention. At 17 years old, she has not yet reached the national legal marriage age, right? This is the marriage custom of the Yi people, they think the best marriage age is 17 or 19 years old. In other words, if it were not for this custom, the 17-year-old girl should have stayed in the school classroom and immersed in the sea of ​​books, and she would not end up committing suicide because of the marriage dispute. We still have to rely on the slow progress of education. The popularization of modern education has allowed the compatriots of ethnic minorities to take the essence of past customs and discard the dross. Now the country has done it too. After all, the influence of culture does not happen overnight. Take your time. Rest in peace.

helpyme
6 months ago

The information transmitted on the Internet is false. According to The Paper, it was learned from a local insider in Ya’an that according to relevant departments’ understanding, the situation of “forced to marry and sold twice” was initially ruled out. The girl was born in 2004. In 2018, she was born in accordance with the customs of the Yi ethnic group. When a man gets married, the man requested that if he retires, he needs to return 150,000 gifts. The two families did not agree on this matter. It’s just that when a girl married an 18-year-old man when she was 14 years old, it was a minor, it was illegal and immature, and it is said that the bride price is a local marriage tradition, so is it also a tradition to retire the bride price? Married to the man’s house for four years, does it mean that you spent 50,000 yuan? There is a doubt that needs to be said. The girl took the medicine and went to the hospital. “After gastric lavage, the man thought that her condition was not serious, and then took her home to recuperate.” How did the doctor diagnose it at the time? Is it the doctor’s recommendation to go home for recuperation or the man to take it home forcibly? If you are treated in the hospital, it should not be life-threatening. This requires investigation! And “during treatment in a hospital in Chengdu, the man thought that her chances of survival were low, so he took the girl home, and then took the woman according to the native prescription, but it didn’t work.” Using native prescription? What is the difference between this bad use and killing? It is recommended to investigate clearly.

sina156
6 months ago

This seventeen-year-old little sister and her husband retired and didn’t want her. The family wants money, but they don’t want her. She had no love for her life and committed suicide by taking poison. Is Paraquat Paraquat? If it is, drinking that thing will definitely not be saved. Good deed, life does not necessarily have a so-called “reliance”. Even if you run out and work in a factory, it is better than death. The so-called “beautiful gift”, you didn’t get a point, but you lost your life. May you rest in peace.

yahoo898
6 months ago

I just read the comments on the browser and got angry. A group of people accused the girls of taking the gift to get a divorce and should return the gift. Others saw the high price of the gift. Some people said that the cultural traditions of ethnic minorities and Han nationality are different. The ethnic group is not Chinese, and does not need to abide by the Basic Law? This girl was born in May 2004 and married in December 18. According to the girl’s age at the time, she should have been in the third semester of junior high school. This is a child who was forced to marry before finishing junior high school. Many people said that she didn’t want to get married. Why didn’t she run? Are everyone so genius? Can you support yourself when you are over 14 years old? I remember that the labor law stipulates that child labor cannot be employed. Even if you need to work on your own to support yourself, you must be 16 years old. Do parents of both men and women play sideballs? Our country stipulates that having a relationship with a girl under the age of 14 is criminally liable, so let the girl be married at the age of 14? The point of this kind of thing is not that the woman’s parents are not humans, forcing the girl to marry at a young age and selling the girl. The man’s parents knew that this was illegal business, so they also accepted it. This is obviously a demographic sale in the name of a wedding gift, because there is a blood relationship with a girl, isn’t it? Are those who accuse the girl have a bad conscience or are they blind? Did she accept the bride price?

leexin
6 months ago

In fact, parents should also be grateful for their children, after all, you gave birth to them without their permission. And as soon as it is born, you become his world. So this is why the problem of the original family can trouble some people for a lifetime, because who is your parents is really good or not, really is not our own choice. From the perspective of numerology, perhaps some people have not cultivated enough fortune in their previous life, so they need to bear more than others in this life. Although the starting line cannot determine life, it can actually affect life. This cannot be denied or denied.

greatword
6 months ago

My hometown is not in Sichuan, in a county in southwestern Shandong. Many of the villages are 16/7-year-old married girls. Parents also know that they can’t get the certificate. The man’s family is willing to marry, the woman’s family is willing to marry, and the baby will be born after a period of time. I’ve never loved it. If you think about it, continue, and if you don’t want to, you will continue to give birth to children in another family. Some young girls have been “married” two or three times when they are almost 20 years old, and they feel that they are not at a loss because they have left a child with the betrothal gift from the man’s family. The girls in the village are lazy, do not like to read, do not participate in social labor, and basically have no ability to survive independently. They “sell” or “rent” the womb to make money for themselves and their parents; many boys have a sense of gender superiority I feel that my parents are my own. I don’t work and I’m hungry. I rely on my parents to farm land or go out to work to earn money, save enough gifts, “marry” another ancestor back home, regenerate a small ancestor, and start the mode of grouping and chewing on the old. The terrible thing is that everyone didn’t think this was bad. When I was not married a few years ago, I could clearly see the envy of my mother’s adults for this phenomenon. They said: Every girl from every family hasn’t graduated from junior high school, where will I get married now? It’s better than (wealthy).

loveyou
6 months ago

First of all, this kind of thing really exists, but not all the girls in the village “married” so early. It is a part, and this part is not very individual, and the number is not small. Let’s not talk about the distant and unfamiliar ones, and talk about the closer ones. The girl from my cousin’s family, my cousin is 22 years old and pregnant with a third child. The girl from my cousin’s family, my cousin’s niece will get married soon on May 1st, 17 this year. My uncle’s son, my cousin got married last year, he is 20, and his wife is one or two years younger than him. Some friends asked their parents what they thought, so irresponsible and not thinking about their children. The answer is that these parents themselves have no culture, vision, and ability to see further and plan the future for their children. It’s still close to me. My dad is the fourth child. I have six cousins, four of whom haven’t gone to school, so they haven’t been to school in a day; of the six cousins, five of them have never gone to school, and the oldest cousin is 70. Rear. Most boys have gone to school, but most of them are in elementary or junior high school. Don’t think that it’s just our subject and don’t pay attention to education. One of my cousins ​​is the only postgraduate of all the post-70s in the village. Comprehensive comparison is considered to be someone who pays more attention to education. The social atmosphere is such that most of the girls born in the 1970s have never gone to school, do they favor sons over daughters? At that time, adults didn’t seem to have this concept either. They simply felt that girls always wanted to marry, and it was not worthwhile to spend their own money to train other people’s wives. I was relatively lucky to be born in my home. At any rate, my sister and I both had the opportunity to enroll in school. I was in 88 years. When I was in elementary school, there were more than 30 students in the class. The male to female ratio was half and half, but there was only one boy in the top 10, and the top 15 was still this one boy, and this boy was repeating the grade. Yes, it seems that I suddenly understood the importance of learning. He is isolated by other boys because he studies better, because boys are generally ashamed of studying. But the girls of this generation have already learned partly, probably because TV has become popular, they know what the outside world is like, and understand that if you want to live a life on TV, learning is the best opportunity, and maybe the only opportunity. Boys will laugh at girls and say: No matter how good studying is, what’s the use? When that time comes, they will not want to marry them or give birth to children. There is also a mockery of girls’ brains, “elementary school is on the top, junior high school is in the middle, high school is on the side”, and they think that as long as they want to study, they will definitely get better grades than girls. My grades from elementary school to junior high school are quite good, but my parents never praised me because of this, because they think it is useless, they think it is enough to recognize a few words. Adults in my mother often dislike me as lazy, because I don’t like farm work. I only learn to cook for my family in the fourth grade of elementary school. Girls from other families will absent from school to help the family. They will steam buns in the first or second grade of elementary school. Step up the bench if you can’t reach the stove. When I was in the second grade of junior high school, I heard that the next grade of primary school girl was already married. Even if she went to school late, she was still 13/4 years old at the time. Some acquaintances said that it is illegal to get married so early. Those acquaintances who said that should have not been in contact with the “real” countryside. The countryside is a small society, and it can be regarded as two worlds from the outside, where you are the only one who does not do serious harm to the society. , Basically no one will say that you are “breaking the law.” Why don’t the relevant departments care? Why should we manage? The country has already entered a fertility low, and there are people who are actively giving birth, and it should be a good thing for the relevant departments. Haven’t experts and netizens been calling for: Has the legal marriage age been lowered?

strongman
6 months ago

I used to recruit a little girl from Sichuan. I can only say that many folk customs in this place should be rectified. When she was 13 years old, her parents married her to someone else as a daughter-in-law with a gift of 30,000 yuan, and the bridal chamber, when she was a little older, she didn’t want to, so she borrowed the money and paid 30,000 yuan before leaving. Lost a few years of youth. When my parents divorced, I often rushed to my mother here. You can see through life and death at a young age, and married again at the age of 18. Many parents in that place who did this should be sentenced.

stockin
6 months ago

Sohu gave too little information, let me sort it out. On April 20, a netizen posted a message saying, “A 17-year-old girl was’sold to the man’ by her family with a gift of more than 200,000 yuan. After that, the woman returned to her natal family and the man asked for the gift to be returned. She was beaten and then drank pesticides and died.” Many media have paid attention to the 17-year-old girl’s suicide due to a bride price dispute, but not much news has been reported so far because the police are also investigating. I have read several media reports and sorted out the incident so that everyone can see it more clearly: On the evening of April 19, a 17-year-old girl died after taking pesticides due to a bride price dispute. It is reported that the girl involved is of Yi nationality and was born in May 2004. In December 2018, in accordance with the customs of the Yi ethnic group, the girl married a man from Liangshan Yi Autonomous Prefecture in Sichuan Province. The man was 18 years old at the time. In other words, three years ago, when two people got married, the girl was 14 years old. The girl has been married to Galuo for three years, and it took three years before she ran back, but the man asked to return the betrothal gift. A few days ago, the man and the woman were discussing about the issue of betrothal gifts and retiring. The man requested that if he retires, he would need to return 150,000 yuan as a gift, and the two families did not agree on this matter. On April 19, the Yi girl found the herbicide used for weeding in the bathroom and took it. Her husband sent her to a hospital in Yingjing County for treatment. After gastric lavage was performed on the girl in the hospital, the man believed that her condition was not serious, and then took her home to recuperate. During the recuperation period, on the evening of April 19, the girl relapsed and the man sent her to hospitals in Ya’an and Chengdu for treatment. During treatment at a hospital in Chengdu, a related person said: “At that time, her two relatives immediately sent her to the county hospital for treatment. Later they thought that the condition was not serious, so they went home to recuperate.” Regarding this point, the Beijing News reported. It was written like this: “The man thought that the chance of survival was small, so he took the girl home, and then took the woman according to the native prescription, but it didn’t work.” The girl died at 21:09 on April 19th. On the evening of April 21, the girl’s body will be cremated. The more important thing about this incident is that the girl was sold online by her mother twice to the man for 200,000 yuan. This has not yet been officially confirmed. The following is the content transmitted online. The source of the content is unknown and the credibility is not high. It is for reference only: It is reported that the 17-year-old girl was sold twice by her biological mother and eventually received 400,000 gifts, driving her daughter to ruin. For the first time, the girl was sold by her mother for 200,000 yuan. She didn’t want to, and eventually ran back. The second time, the girl was sold out by her mother again for 200,000, and she ran back. Because she was unwilling to go back, she was asked for 500,000 by the man, but her mother ignored it and eventually led the girl to commit suicide by drinking pesticide. According to preliminary information, the actual amount of the bride price involved in the case was 150,000 yuan, and the Public Security Bureau has found that the marriage experience of the woman is one time. Give a personal opinion. Unexpectedly, in 2021, such things will happen. Personal fate is arranged. There is no opportunity for resistance or the right to speak equally. You can only choose to end your life to express your unwillingness to life. This incident seems to be an arranged marriage, but it is clear that the girl is extremely unwilling, and the 17-year-old has actually received two “beauties” before and after. It is unavoidable to think that the true age of the girl’s “marriage” at that time, a child who was underage, was “sold” twice by his family in this way. Nowadays, the society is developing rapidly, but you can still see such an inhumanity and affection. case. I can’t help but think of the scenes Comrade Li Dazhao saw in the [Awakening Years] TV series: a little girl sitting on the flower bridge, and the people around her were happy, and the bride was so scared that she couldn’t stop crying, she was very scared. sad. An old man walked ahead and hugged a big red rooster-it was the groom. More than a hundred years have passed, and similar things have not yet died out. I really don’t know what comrades should think about. Yes, there may not be a small number of such cases in the country, but they have not been reported, or they are not very concerned about such incidents. However, there are indeed many illegal acts in this case. We only have to wait for the follow-up of the incident so that the girl can get it in the kingdom of heaven. Condolences. Now we can’t be sure how many of these children have chosen to compromise, and after a lifetime, I don’t know how many people have chosen to refuse and take the path that they think is right. But we reject marriages in the form of sales and purchases. Children are not commodities, let alone robots that can impose their thoughts on them.

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