I am sophomore this year, and I am an art student. Living expenses are 2000 per month. Most of the classmates in the class have iPads for drawing. I am envious, but I am shy in my pocket. I also want to have an iPad tablet for drawing. If you go to the official website and use the education discount to buy iPadpro, 128gb, it will cost 5829 yuan. Ask your parents, but can’t speak. I have considered paying in installments by myself, and I can earn 570 per month at school. During the winter vacation, I will choose to work part-time to make a purchase (the family refuses to work for me). My idea of wanting an iPad and imagining my parents to buy it is too much, should I buy the iPad in installments, is it too vanity? I am a little confused and need someone to wake up.
①Don’t touch the staging! Don’t touch the staging! Don’t touch the staging! You thought you were just trying to install installments, and for the first time you bought items that you couldn’t afford, but you actually opened the Pandora’s Box of life in debt. It affects your values and consumer psychology, which may make you You fall into the endless loop of loan-repayment-loan, and it is yourself that ultimately collapses. ②It is normal to have vanity, but please satisfy your vanity independently. It’s normal to have vanity. Seeing other people’s objects is as beautiful as a god, don’t you want to have one? Seeing others driving to school, don’t you want to own one? Seeing others change the latest flagship mobile phone every six months, don’t you be jealous when you see your own two or three years old mobile phone? However, you have to rely on your own ability to satisfy your own vanity. You see that your classmates all have iPads, and you want to own one out of envy. Don’t talk about drawing on the iPad, it’s just you. If you lie to yourself or your parents, your heart is “I see others have it, and I want to have it”. This kind of thinking is normal. Parents may be obligated to provide you with living expenses (as it is customary in the current society), but they are not obligated to satisfy your vanity. If something is necessary, then ask yourself if you are sure you want to buy it. If you are not sure whether to buy it, then this thing must not be necessary, as is the case with the iPad here. Don’t talk to your parents about a high-value item that is not necessary. This will make you feel sorry for yourself and embarrass your parents. You mentioned that you can earn 570 per month, then save money slowly. If you can guarantee that you can have your own income every month, you can save a part of living expenses and save a small year. I believe you can buy Taiwan. iPad money should be enough. But remember, rely on your own ability to satisfy your vanity. ③Collect information and beware of traps when you work part-time. Your parents are opposed to your part-time job. I think the more consideration is the issue of personal safety. Your parents have been in society for many years and know what kind of people and things you will experience when a young woman of about 20 years old goes to society, so they will Very opposed. But you are an adult, and you should learn to deal with some things by yourself. It’s not impossible to work part-time. You must collect information in advance. The most effective way is to consult the seniors who have worked part-time. They will tell you those who work part-time. Pit, this can save you a lot of things. The school’s work-study related service department is also a good place for consultation. You must learn to use the school’s resources. There are many traps for college students to work part-time! The first big trap is the black intermediary. Many black intermediaries have the full authority to represent you and the labor relationship with the hiring company. When they first lied to you, they said that the salary was the salary that the company gave you, but in the end, the salary that was given to you was actually drawn by the intermediary. After the completion of the salary, some black intermediaries draw a particularly high rate, this kind of black intermediaries must be avoided! The second big trap, if you don’t sign a labor contract, you are already an adult. If you work in a company during the summer vacation, you must sign a short-term labor contract. Signing a labor contract can avoid a lot of unnecessary craps, and among those craps. As a student, you are often a disadvantaged party. At the same time, carefully check every item in the contract. Don’t sign the contract without reading it. As an adult, you are responsible for every name you sign!