You think that life is a multiple-choice question, but it is not; we always think that life can be simplified into one or two sentences, and one or two choices can bring eternal happiness. In fact, all people who can live their lives into poetry can be happy if they marry any type of person. If you choose to marry a man who loves you very much, before you marry him, you will break up with someone you love very much, and even experience unknown pain for many years. This pain is uncontrollable. Because what I was thinking of was the true lover, although the men on the outside were also very good, it was difficult to achieve the inner state. I have been swaying for a long time. How could my ex be willing to break up with me? Why can’t I choose to be with love? So, what kind of feeling is it like to get the benefits of someone but not to love him wholeheartedly? Maybe it’s the daily torture and guilt, even if he says I don’t mind you not loving me enough, I treat you well because I want to treat you well. But the inner voice tells you that this is unfair, because it is unfair, and it will not be very lucky in the end. If a person falls in love with another person, then instinctively will always care about this person and will let it go. But one person’s heart is not too deep for another person’s love, in fact, the heart is constantly avoiding the other person’s love and inadvertent rejection. Both of them knew that going on like this would be bad for each other, so they had to endure the pain. Being forced to accept someone you don’t love, it feels like you can’t choose everything you like or what you don’t like since childhood. In this way, there seems to be no value or power in your heart. For a long time, I will ask myself, in a world without love, I cannot spend the years to come like this. In the end, it will be reduced to seeing others love happiness and savoring loneliness alone. Regret, regret, and helplessness are all clearly in mind. So marrying someone who loves you will teach you how to love someone you don’t love enough, and how to love yourself you don’t love enough. Whether love or interest has a shelf life, there is no guarantee that it will remain unchanged for a long time. Personality and thinking will change, and what is eternal. Happiness is not given by others, but created by ourselves. Life is managed, and happiness is in our own hands. Always dominate, don’t be passive. It depends on the other person’s affection and moral feelings to determine their own happiness. Nothing will change. Someone asked me before, I will choose the one you love or the one who loves you. I answered without hesitation: “I will choose to love me, the person I love.” If I am lucky, that is the only way to get love. Zhang Ailing wrote in the book “Little Reunion”: This is a passionate story. What I want to express is the endless changes in love, and what still exists after love is disillusioned. “I think “this thing” may be the love between men and women. The word “love” is rare, but it has “righteousness” to offset it. In my mother’s words, I must find one that I like. Of course, we You should love each other, but the key is to like yourself. Find someone you don’t like. It’s boring to watch him eat, dress, and talk. Even if you take a hundred baths, you will feel dirty, sick, and vomiting. Sweating. You will only find it troublesome and not pity. The person you like, you see, he likes his job. He also feels cute when he eats, he doesn’t wear clothes, he feels boring and cute, sick and uncomfortable. Taking care of him is neither painful nor tired. No feelings, in the final analysis, the trouble is your own. In the future, even if it is more difficult than the past, you will never be alone again. No matter how late, you should be with love.