Today, I took a leisurely look at the topic of both sexes, and found that someone greatly mentioned that the marriage rate of first love is less than 1%. I don’t doubt the accuracy of the data. But I don’t understand that the rate of breaking up for first love is so high. It is said that first love is equal to breaking up. Let’s give a lesson to my little brother, let’s see what kind of emotional society we live in
I talked to Dad at night, so I borrowed here to answer. Dad said that when you get married, it’s best not to find someone who loves too deeply, because if you both love too much, too deeply, then you are under a lot of pressure and have high requirements for each other, so it is easy to have a lot of conflicts. The most important thing is to find a suitable one who is not so loving, and to live in a plain life. In fact, after listening to my father, I felt a little in agreement, but when I wrote this, I suddenly felt that this kind of life made me a little bit hopeless. I said, you have seen a person who loves you very deeply, and later met someone who treats you better than his first love, so how hard you are. Dad said, this is probably what we need to grow, accept and overcome. Even if you and your first love are together at the end, then he may not be as good to you as when you first fell in love, so there will actually be a gap in your heart. So sometimes, there is not much difference between falling in love and getting married with someone who is not so in love with each other, but you may find it more acceptable. In fact, I usually have many reasons to refute Dad. But tonight, I suddenly felt as if what Dad said was right. But if I can, I still choose to be with the person who loves me the most, the person I love the most. I think I try to become mature, learn to give others space, learn to trust, and learn how to love. Even if I haven’t learned it, I still want to work hard to be with the person I love most. Tell me about the background of the story. The dialogue happened a year after I broke up with my first love. Update~ I thought about it for a night on 5.17. I think there is such a logic here. For me, I should have a person I like before I have everything behind. Because I met someone in love, I wanted to pursue love, so I wanted to be together, so I wanted to get married. But if not, it seems that in the field of love, everything seems to be less meaningful. Thinking about my life is still very good. I have good friends, dreams, and loving parents. Then about marriage and love, I just want to grow, but I don’t want to die. If not, then I think I have many other things. It can be done. ~5.18 Recently, I have developed a bad habit. I have developed a bad habit of staying up late. After finishing my homework, I will update it. I have seen many comments from my friends. It’s also quite touching. A close friend said that in fact, it is difficult to determine how deep the love is. If you love deeply, you can also love you as much as I like. I quite agree. I think learning to be mature and tolerant and loving other people is the most important thing. Falling in love and becoming immature are actually two separate events. Perhaps we should really work harder to pursue mature and deep love. Maybe it’s difficult and ideal, or maybe I’m really naive. Then we will let time tell us the answer. In addition, I really think that it is very important for the person who is in love to appear, it really feels like a key opens a lock. Let me briefly talk about my own affairs. In fact, before I met my first love, I was a “child” who didn’t want to fall in love at all. I remember the college entrance examination graduation trip, and I went to a temple. My friends all turned to the goddess of love (actually I don’t Remember what kind of god it is, in a word, it is in charge of marriage) seeking marriage, and I think I want too much in my life, I want to realize my dream, I want to be healthy and happy with my friends and my parents forever Being together, after all, people can’t ask for so many people, so I didn’t pray to Eros. After entering the university, emm, I met someone I like, and then “really smelled” to leave the order. It is really incredible to think of it. I really didn’t expect that I would be the first one of my friends to leave the order. How should I say that when I meet the person I like, I will want to fall in love, and I want to be with the person I like forever. If I go to that temple again, I think I will pray to the god of love~~5.19~ I didn’t expect that the hand-held records are quite good, so in the near future someone will ask my mother what he thinks. People are curious about my father’s emotional experience. To put it simply, Mom and Dad were actually in first love together, in college love. I’m really super invincible, Pili envy, every time I ask my dad, “Why do you guys do it?” My dad said, the times are different~ Maybe it’s really because of the desire to survive. I don’t think mom and dad have experienced a lot of vigorous feelings like books and TV, but they are plain and the stream is long flowing. My dad always peels shrimp at home, one for my daughter and one for my wife. Every time I’m on duty, I’ll call back and chat. It’s just one day on duty, and what I called back today turned out to say that my mother was too tired at work. It would be fine to ask her to do all the housework. Even though I was at home, I also want to take online lessons. I am really mad at me. Probably my parents and my mom have no other favorites, no white moonlight, no comparison, so I can’t understand the difficulty in my heart~ That era seems to be very good, and many uncles and aunts around have come to the end of their first love. My mother used to say that our generation lived too well. She didn’t think about anything at that time. She married when she got married. She didn’t understand anything but lived well. But I understand, can I forget it. By the way, when it comes to dealing with the issue of breaking up first love, my mother thinks that it is okay to be together again in the future, and my dad thinks that she must not turn her head back. ~5.21 Because a small thing happened, I decided to update it. The more you digress, please don’t mind~ Comment that many friends, like Dad said, love too much, and may be too demanding of each other. If the other person is not satisfied with you, you will be in a big gap. A person who really likes you will probably retain a great and upright look in front of you, but if you love him very much, you secretly discover that he is not so perfect. You will pretend not to know and trust him. Pretend to completely believe in the image he showed you. Just secretly feel a little bit, first love is a particularly good person, and then I especially admire him, I think he is the kind of super invincible thunderbolt upright and upright and motivated god. Then, he actually likes playing games, but he always tells me that he doesn’t like playing, and then he doesn’t let me play, telling me to study hard and read extracurricular books. Later, I found out that he would fight with friends, as if sometimes he would take his sister to get points,,, okay. In fact, he is just an ordinary boy. But I don’t tell him, he will always be my hero. 6.1~Children’s Day Update The world is very big, there are many appearances of love and marriage. Maybe there is no standard answer. I just hope that two people who have the same views on love and marriage will come together and they will reach an agreement to become better. I only hope that lovers will eventually be married, and the affectionate will not be let down. I wish you all to remain innocent and brave, learn to mature and grow hard, Happy Children’s Day~6.13 update~ Suddenly you can answer the question of how it feels to give up a loved one suddenly. Dad told me very early that the two of us are not the same. But I just don’t believe it.