What experience do you have when you say “I’m too difficult” but in the end you still want to try again? How hard does it take to become a very powerful person?
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This is a Moments message from six years ago. The spring in my memory was extremely cold, it was as cold as the bones. That was also the darkest moment of my life. I did not complete my graduation thesis that year as a Ph.D. student, and the dormitory of the school was not allowed to extend my residence. In that year, I had difficulty moving because of a herniated lumbar intervertebral disc, and even walking upright was a big problem. That year, I was defrauded of only 20,000 yuan by telecom fraud because I had not been beaten up by the society. There is no job, no income, and even the account is a personnel agent. The embarrassment can be seen in general! I thought about it that year, because I didn’t want to be a burden to anyone. Because I feel that without me, my love, my parents might have a better life. In that year, I often searched for university doctors to jump off the building, dreaming that I would become one of them, and dreaming about how reporters would write about me. But that year I finally chose to be strong. That year, I was lying on the hospital bed and completed my PhD thesis by voice recording. When I thanked the doctoral thesis at the end, I couldn’t help crying because it was too hard. In the following three years, the body began to recover and life gradually got on the right track. After several years of hard work, I finally collected the eight proofs of life. (Education certificate, degree certificate, marriage certificate, real estate certificate, driver’s license, university teacher qualification certificate, birth certificate, national social science certificate, senior professional title certificate) Although it is not to say that you will be happy, but finally you have become in this beautiful city A bitter green pepper. Marry the girl who will never leave me, have her own car and house, and have a smart and lovely love crystallization. I also have a side job I like, and I have made many like-minded friends on Zhihu. Although I still have to carry a monthly mortgage of nearly 10,000 yuan, although my father has recently undergone a major operation and has to empty his wallet again, I have nothing to fear! Nine out of ten people who are unsatisfactory in their lives have to rely on hard work to grasp their luck! Those who have been injured will eventually become the hardest armor on your body. As long as you don’t give up on yourself, no one can defeat you!